Sunday, December 6, 2009

Which one should I get?

Ok, its time for a new car! I could use a little help picking one. Keep in mind, Im 25, single, %26amp; no kids. And I only keep a car for a couple of years. If you need a mental of what I would look like in each you can check me out @ http://www.myspace.com/mandee903



1.) Lexus IS



2.) Mitsubishi Spider Eclipse



3.) Nissan 350z -or-



4.) Audi TT



Which one should I get?

The lexus IS by far..



will last with no problems



Which one should I get?

Definitely the Lexus IS, this car is a major incentive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Which one should I get?

They all sound nice. Get the one that you are most comfortable about the payments with.



Which one should I get?

I pick door #4

Which one should I get?

Ok, its time for a new car! I could use a little help picking one. Keep in mind, Im 25, single, %26amp; no kids. And I only keep a car for a couple of years. If you need a mental of what I would look like in each you can check me out @ http://www.myspace.com/mandee903



1.) Lexus IS



2.) Mitsubishi Spider Eclipse



3.) Nissan 350z -or-



4.) Audi TT



Which one should I get?

The lexus IS by far..



will last with no problems



Which one should I get?

Definitely the Lexus IS, this car is a major incentive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Which one should I get?

They all sound nice. Get the one that you are most comfortable about the payments with.



Which one should I get?

I pick door #4

What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?

okay like eveyday for 3 days i would think of something out of no where and then it would happen like i can tell the future or something i think its cool but weird and i wanna kno what its called and y it happens so if u can hep me thank you alot and if u tried to help then thankyou ex:1 today i wanted my friend wanted to come over and check his myspace and my mom was out with her b/f so i was like okay but i told him id call him back but im aloud to have kids over but i wasnt sure about him cause hes 18 and im 15 and my mom doesnt know him so i didnt want her to see him here and after i told him id call back i was like hmmm... what if my mom cam home and then like a minute later she walked in the door)



but ya stuff like that keeps happning!!!!!!!!



What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?

coinsidence!



..too much TV, i guess....



What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?

If he's a guy that you don't want your mom to know about, then he's probably the wrong guy for you. Be very careful!!!!



What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?

What you are having is called preminissions. It is recorded right throughout history that people of all walks of life preminiss the future. It appears you have this gift as i have myself.



Use it wisely and don't fear it , it truely is a gift..........



What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?

can you think real hard about me winning the lottery?



I know when something happens and it feels like it has happened before it is called dejavu'. I'm not sure what your gift is called.



What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?

I h ave the same thing. It mostly happens when im daydreaming though, but then a few days later the thing i was thinking of actually happens. i try to explain it to ppl but they just get confused. thought i was the only person with this problem. lol thanks

So I have this "Friend"?

I have been "friends" with her for 12 years. We have had our falling outs and made up, time and time again. Only this time is different....I'm getting tired of "breaking/making up". I have been there for her when not even her family was. I would do things like take her places since she has no car, buy her groceries when I didn't even have the money to, and just little things, like cigarettes, soda, lunch, etc. Until a year ago, I was single with children of my own and it was like I was taking care of 2 families. I let her and her 4 kids stay at my house for 2 or 3 days at a time in my 2 bdrm apt. Well it came down to this...she has a myspace page and is trying to talk to every freakin guy on there. She's in love with a different guy every week. She wanted me to give her money for gas to see a guy in another state, which coincidently doesn't have a job either. I told her no, and she has completely written me off. Am I wrong to tell her that I'm fed up and don't bother trying to make up?



So I have this "Friend"?

Cut your ties and be glad it over. she sounds like a tumor or leech.



So I have this "Friend"?

seems like she's using your generosity. Giving her money for gas so she can go to a different state to meet a guy from myspace? come on thats ridiculous..cut her off before she really does something crazy like ask you for a lot of money that she says she'll pay you back



So I have this "Friend"?

No your not. My sister is the same exact way.



So I have this "Friend"?

No your not wrong. Just tell her you've had enough. Simple as that.



So I have this "Friend"?

No, share your feelings. She is becoming dependent upon you. Tell her you don't want to help her unless she is willing to get a job. She is obviously not a true friend especially if she does not exept what your saying.



So I have this "Friend"?

No...i know how u feel...my friend leans on me too but u just have to put ur foot down at a cewrtain time. She will get over it though so dont worry. She's got to learn to walk on her own.(If u know what I mean)



So I have this "Friend"?

I so had a similar experience like this. It's so emotionally and financially draining and the guilt you feel is heavy. SHE IS USING YOU. When you realise that and make a choice to stop, it can be very relieving.



Just try to ignore her and carry on with your life. She is making reckless choices and your shouldn't have to carry that emotional burden. Report her to children's services if your worried about the welfare of the kids.



So I have this "Friend"?

She's a FAKE. That whole nice act? Yeah, that's a trick. Hmm...put her in the shredder. It'll save you a lot more money. Then her guilt will strangle her.



So I have this "Friend"?

Sounds like she isn't a real friend at all anyway. I would just tell her that you are sick of being used. If she is going to write you off because you wouldn't help her out this time then you don't need her anyway.



This is a vicious cylce that will only stop if you do not contribute to the madness.



Good luck



So I have this "Friend"?

She wasn't your friend she was using you because you were generouse to her needs,So when you finially put your foot down you found out her intentions,NO you did the right move 100% YOU GO GIRL!!!!

Is technology ruining us?

I think it is. I remember back in the 70's and 80's, we would walk to the library to get information or hang out there and we actually did good in school. Now, our kids are so lazy sitting in front of computers, or playing video games, and watchign tv. My daughter is hooked on the internet and Instant Messaging and her grades suffer. I bloke them but she is so good at comptuers that she can bybass the locks. I can't get rid of it because I like to use it. Then there is myspace which is easy for pedophiles to find children. Then a month ago my son got suspended for texting people in class with his cell phone. I think technology gicves us mroe headache, I mean we need it but people depend on it too much.



Is technology ruining us?

I totally understand what you are saying. Obviously technology is essential and it has helped our lives in a lot of ways, but nobody is denying that. I am 21 and none of my friends read. I am the only one. Most of them didn閳ユ獩 even read when they were in school. I have friends that have never read a book cover to cover. It閳ユ獨 so sad. I also see the way my sister has really poor English skills because she is so used to emailing or text messaging. It drives me crazy the way she writes and talks. Plus, people are so busy text messaging they can閳ユ獩 even set the phone down to drive. It really upsets me. I will be in the middle of a conversation and my friend will answer a text message while I閳ユ獡 in the middle of a sentence. I think it is so disrespectful and rude. I could go on and on, but we all know the problems. I can only hope to teach my son better manners.



Is technology ruining us?

as a matter of fact technology is starting to ruin us by concentration. kids today are so caught up with the newest technology and hooked with texting, myspace, facebook, ipods, and other new technology that grades in school are starting to suffer. but look at it this way also, some technology actually helps you, could you do some things at work without a computer? probably not, and a lot of kids in school find research for school projects over the internet. so yes technology is starting to ruin us but it can also help.



Is technology ruining us?

It absolutely is! Granted, they're are amazing advances out there, but we are much more lazy and lame. People don't know how to save money anymore. Everyone flips if the power goes out. Relationships usually consist of a couple and the internet. Nothing is how it used to be, every toy takes batteries and most kids have no imaginations.



Is technology ruining us?

if you think of it that way. but there's also good things that come from technology. like: instant messaging keeps her social. many kids get depressed with no friends and become suicidal. it's good your son has a phone, so he can call during emergencies, computers can still be used for research, just like libraries, and if your kids are overusing technology and you have a problem with it, set an amount of time which can be used for them to be on the computer or whatever. or ask them to go excercise, etc. also, does your daughter know that it's possible to make her myspace private so only friends can see it?



Is technology ruining us?

I think that is a very interesting question you pose; I have been thinking of this kind of thing myself. On the one hand we make our lives easier, more entertaining, and seemingly "better" - actually it is better in a lot of ways now that I think about it when you think about healthcare advances, etc. But when you look at what is really important to people- something that can take many of us until we are in our 50's or 60's to really appreciate.



People need to eat, be hydrated, sleep, stay warm and dry, have relationships, family, etc. (think Maslow's Pyramid); Nowadays people sit around and get upset because they are bored like they are teenagers or something. We need to look through all the distractions technology can put up and focus on what it can do for us as a tool and get on with it. By the way , I find it funny when you look at some of these catalogs and tv ads and stuff, and they have the craziest things for sale that are 'neat' because of the technology, but when you think about it, it's like 'what the heck???' - Think iDog and such...



Is technology ruining us?

Technology will be our own undoing, yes.



But the actions of our children begins at home. You like to use the computer, but that doesn't mean your children have to. As a parent you can keep them from using it altogether, and your daughter won't even have the opportunity to bypass any of your security. You can also install software to help keep a better eye on their online activity without them knowing.



Your son gets in trouble for texting in class, but you're the one that provides him with a cell phone. You preach about the library and how things were before, so you should understand that kids got by just fine without their own cell phone.



I agree with you on the technology issue, but don't blame the fact that it's there for your daughter's bad grades and your son's suspension. It all starts at home.



Kids don't know how to go outside %26amp; play. They don't know about catching lightning bugs, hide %26amp; seek in the dark, or going for a bike ride. Guess now we know how our parents felt when giving US the whole "when I was a kid" speech.



Is technology ruining us?

no



could be, though, that you're seein' the affects of "technology" spendin' more time w/your children



than you do



but...



that's not TECHNOLOGY'S fault



it's good of you to say



"technology [is] ruinin' US"



...and didn't say: "THEM"



'cause, if your children are hurt



then "YOU" are as well



technology is good



technology....



"...a broad concept...



...deals with...use and knowledge of tools and crafts...



....the term can refer to material objects...such as machines, hardware or utensils...



...it can also encompass broader themes, including methods of organization, and techniques...



...it has helped develop more advanced economies...and has allowed the rise of a leisure class...



...however, many technological processes produce unwanted by-products...such as pollution...and deplete natural resources...



...new technology often raises ethical questions...



...philosophical debates have arisen over present and future use of technology...with some claiming that it alienates people and destroys culture...



...they say that society pays for advancements with the cost of freedom and psychological health (and probably physical health in general...



....others say that technological developments enhance the human condition...



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Technology



Is technology ruining us?

I don't think so. the computer should be like t.v. for us back in the day, it was limited, in a common room of the house, and to be used ONLY AFTER home work/chores were finished. And kids have been getting in trouble for talking and passing notes, you know "communicating with each other", ever since we stuck them in a room together and bored the crap out of them.

Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

Why do people keep getting on here and posting stupid questions and pretending to be things they are not? Today I about five questions posted by some racist pretending to be black. I've also seen adults posing as kids and asking stupid sex questions and people posting questions only so they could link to their MySpace pages!!! This is getting really old. Why doesn't Yahoo! have a way to report people for posting fake or dummy questions?????? Someone should ban those people from the Internet lol. (By the way, feel free to post your responses. You'll get points for it anyway)



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

yes I've seen the i;m a kid and Christians vs atheists and man /woman ect,,,, i;m like you be who you are and ask the questions and get off.people should realize that real kids do go on here'so watch all the sodomy questions and above all the racist garbage..if they want to spew all that hate spew it in your house because the people on this site don;t care for your rude racist garbage...and then the animal killers are just as bad,,,,your rite they should kick them to the curb if you cross the line of stupidity,,,,,,



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

don't wind yourself up too tight.



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

Simple: because people lack creativity and have nothing better to do than go the one place they can have complete anonymity (the internet). They then abuse this supposed anonymity by getting cheap kicks through screwing with other people. It's rather pathetic, really.



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

Maybe they get a kick out of it? Who knows.



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

Alot of these people don't have anything better to do!



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

just like you said their are weirdos stalkers freaks and geekers



always b on gaurd anyways and there is a spot to report abuse



i have a spot on mine anyways if your legal eagle there should b no worries thanx for posting a good question



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

Just report them. For whatever you feel is correct. Impersonation is a valid reason and is listed. And depending on what is being said and in what way, there will be plenty of choices for other reporting, including "Other" if they don't have a category for you to choose. We can each only do what we can to police our own areas.



Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?

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Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?

I'm recently divorced with two kids.



Our son is 19 and living with my Ex-wife. He's mentally challenged and gets Social Security. She has no income!



I have custody of our 13y/o daughter.



Because of Ca. screwy Laws and his age, I can't force her to give me custody, and I rarely get to see or talk to him.



She met some guy about 3wks ago on myspace. He's 34 and from the Los Angeles area.



We live about 350 miles north of L.A.



I recently found out he's since moved in with them.



He's got various tattoos suggesting "Sureno"



affiliation. (XIII, 13, X3). He says he's not affiliated. Being a former Correctional Sergeant, I find that hard to believe.



He has no job, no home and no car.



He doesn't even have a Drivers License. I tried to do a search on his name and came up with nothing. Probably an alias.



I've tried talking with her about it, but she contends "he's a nice guy!"



I reminded her that prisons are full of seemingly nice people!



Any advice?



Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?

Ohh goodness...



You are very rightfully concerned, but your son is an adult (sadly, he doesn't act like one). At this point, I think you can fairly say you've done everything you could to help.



I think you should focus on your daughter now, who should rightfully be very scared for her mother and brother. All you can do is be there for her. Your son seems to have made his decisions, and as terrifying as it is, I think you'll be putting you and your daughter's relationship on the line if you try to hard to chase after him. Give her everything she needs. Food, shelter, a loving and caring father, and the confidence that she can do better than her mother.



I hope things work out for you and your family. As touchy as everything is right now, the most concern I have is for your daughter.



Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?

Nothing much you can do now that you are divorced from her. If she is going to be stupid enough to allow some guy she just met move in with her that is her problem. I would talk to a lawyer though and say you are concerned about the welfare of your son and see if there is anything that can be done about the custody arrangement.



Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?

Due to your son mentally challenged I think even due to his age you can get him out of there but not sure about your state I would see a lawyer it would be well worst it. You don't know what your son is going threw.....if your ex wants that than it is her decision but your son can't make that on his own so you need to step up to the plate.....even welfare may be able to help..I wish you the best as the surrounds might not be for your son



Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?

I think you absolutly have the right to be concerned. Don't let anyone tell you different. As far as your son goes I think it would help answerers to know a bit more about his handicap. The term mentally challenged these days is so loosely flung around that it could cover a wide range of disability and ability unfortunatly. Is he disabled enough for her to need to stay home and take care of him? Good luck to you and I'll check back to see if you add any information. But it's never paranioa if you are deeply concerned about your child whatever his age.



Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?

You're right to be concerned, but you are also not her boss. You should make more effort to see your son, but not necessarily get custody. Try hard to get along with your ex and the guy. If you can, snoop around when you go see your son %26amp; see if you can find another name for Mr. No Job, No Car, No License. Sounds like an ex-con. Keep a close eye on your daughter. Good luck!

 
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