<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842</id><updated>2011-07-30T06:30:29.630-07:00</updated><title type='text'>kids myspace</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>184</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-866171225204861683</id><published>2009-12-06T16:03:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:03:11.637-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Which one should I get?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ok, its time for a new car! I could use a little help picking one. Keep in mind, Im 25, single, %26amp; no kids. And I only keep a car for a couple of years. If you need a mental of what I would look like in each you can check me out @ http://www.myspace.com/mandee903&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1.) Lexus IS&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.) Mitsubishi Spider Eclipse &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.) Nissan 350z -or-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.) Audi TT&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The lexus IS by far..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; will last with no problems&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Definitely the Lexus IS, this car is a major incentive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;They all sound nice. Get the one that you are most comfortable about the payments with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I pick door #4&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-866171225204861683?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/866171225204861683/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/which-one-should-i-get_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/866171225204861683'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/866171225204861683'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/which-one-should-i-get_06.html' title='Which one should I get?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-5278463919710782041</id><published>2009-12-06T16:02:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:02:56.099-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Which one should I get?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ok, its time for a new car! I could use a little help picking one. Keep in mind, Im 25, single, %26amp; no kids. And I only keep a car for a couple of years. If you need a mental of what I would look like in each you can check me out @ http://www.myspace.com/mandee903&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1.) Lexus IS&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.) Mitsubishi Spider Eclipse &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.) Nissan 350z -or-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.) Audi TT&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The lexus IS by far..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; will last with no problems&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Definitely the Lexus IS, this car is a major incentive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;They all sound nice. Get the one that you are most comfortable about the payments with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Which one should I get?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I pick door #4&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-5278463919710782041?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/5278463919710782041/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/which-one-should-i-get.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5278463919710782041'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5278463919710782041'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/which-one-should-i-get.html' title='Which one should I get?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-6967186120896187906</id><published>2009-12-06T16:02:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:02:40.210-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;okay like eveyday for 3 days i would think of something out of no where and then it would happen like i can tell the future or something i think its cool but weird and i wanna kno what its called and y it happens so if u can hep me thank you alot and if u tried to help then thankyou ex:1 today i wanted my friend wanted to come over and check his myspace and my mom was out with her b/f so i was like okay but i told him id call him back but im aloud to have kids over but i wasnt sure about him cause hes 18 and im 15 and my mom doesnt know him so i didnt want her to see him here and after i told him id call back i was like hmmm... what if my mom cam home and then like a minute later she walked in the door)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but ya stuff like that keeps happning!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;coinsidence!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ..too much TV, i guess....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If he's a guy that you don't want your mom to know about, then he's probably the wrong guy for you. Be very careful!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What you are having is called preminissions. It is recorded right throughout history that people of all walks of life preminiss the future. It appears you have this gift as i have myself. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Use it wisely and don't fear it , it truely is a gift..........&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;can you think real hard about me winning the lottery?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I know when something happens and it feels like it has happened before it is called dejavu'. I'm not sure what your gift is called.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I h ave the same thing. It mostly happens when im daydreaming though, but then a few days later the thing i was thinking of actually happens. i try to explain it to ppl but they just get confused. thought i was the only person with this problem. lol thanks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-6967186120896187906?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/6967186120896187906/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-is-it-called-when-u-think-somethin.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6967186120896187906'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6967186120896187906'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-is-it-called-when-u-think-somethin.html' title='What is it called when u think somethin then it happens right away?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-8702660871377448686</id><published>2009-12-06T16:02:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:02:23.774-08:00</updated><title type='text'>So I have this "Friend"?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have been "friends" with her for 12 years. We have had our falling outs and made up, time and time again. Only this time is different....I'm getting tired of "breaking/making up". I have been there for her when not even her family was. I would do things like take her places since she has no car, buy her groceries when I didn't even have the money to, and just little things, like cigarettes, soda, lunch, etc. Until a year ago, I was single with children of my own and it was like I was taking care of 2 families. I let her and her 4 kids stay at my house for 2 or 3 days at a time in my 2 bdrm apt. Well it came down to this...she has a myspace page and is trying to talk to every freakin guy on there. She's in love with a different guy every week. She wanted me to give her money for gas to see a guy in another state, which coincidently doesn't have a job either. I told her no, and she has completely written me off. Am I wrong to tell her that I'm fed up and don't bother trying to make up?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cut your ties and be glad it over. she sounds like a tumor or leech.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;seems like she's using your generosity. Giving her money for gas so she can go to a different state to meet a guy from myspace? come on thats ridiculous..cut her off before she really does something crazy like ask you for a lot of money that she says she'll pay you back&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No your not. My sister is the same exact way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No your not wrong. Just tell her you've had enough. Simple as that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, share your feelings. She is becoming dependent upon you. Tell her you don't want to help her unless she is willing to get a job. She is obviously not a true friend especially if she does not exept what your saying.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No...i know how u feel...my friend leans on me too but u just have to put ur foot down at a cewrtain time. She will get over it though so dont worry. She's got to learn to walk on her own.(If u know what I mean)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I so had a similar experience like this. It's so emotionally and financially draining and the guilt you feel is heavy. SHE IS USING YOU. When you realise that and make a choice to stop, it can be very relieving.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just try to ignore her and carry on with your life. She is making reckless choices and your shouldn't have to carry that emotional burden. Report her to children's services if your worried about the welfare of the kids.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's a FAKE. That whole nice act? Yeah, that's a trick. Hmm...put her in the shredder. It'll save you a lot more money. Then her guilt will strangle her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sounds like she isn't a real friend at all anyway. I would just tell her that you are sick of being used. If she is going to write you off because you wouldn't help her out this time then you don't need her anyway. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is a vicious cylce that will only stop if you do not contribute to the madness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;So I have this "Friend"?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She wasn't your friend she was using you because you were generouse to her needs,So when you finially put your foot down you found out her intentions,NO you did the right move 100% YOU GO GIRL!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-8702660871377448686?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/8702660871377448686/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/so-i-have-this-friend.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8702660871377448686'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8702660871377448686'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/so-i-have-this-friend.html' title='So I have this &quot;Friend&quot;?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2579712899256018780</id><published>2009-12-06T16:02:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:02:07.651-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Is technology ruining us?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I think it is. I remember back in the 70's and 80's, we would walk to the library to get information or hang out there and we actually did good in school. Now, our kids are so lazy sitting in front of computers, or playing video games, and watchign tv. My daughter is hooked on the internet and Instant Messaging and her grades suffer. I bloke them but she is so good at comptuers that she can bybass the locks. I can't get rid of it because I like to use it. Then there is myspace which is easy for pedophiles to find children. Then a month ago my son got suspended for texting people in class with his cell phone. I think technology gicves us mroe headache, I mean we need it but people depend on it too much.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I totally understand what you are saying. Obviously technology is essential and it has helped our lives in a lot of ways, but nobody is denying that. I am 21 and none of my friends read. I am the only one. Most of them didn閳ユ獩 even read when they were in school. I have friends that have never read a book cover to cover. It閳ユ獨 so sad. I also see the way my sister has really poor English skills because she is so used to emailing or text messaging. It drives me crazy the way she writes and talks. Plus, people are so busy text messaging they can閳ユ獩 even set the phone down to drive. It really upsets me. I will be in the middle of a conversation and my friend will answer a text message while I閳ユ獡 in the middle of a sentence. I think it is so disrespectful and rude. I could go on and on, but we all know the problems. I can only hope to teach my son better manners.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;as a matter of fact technology is starting to ruin us by concentration. kids today are so caught up with the newest technology and hooked with texting, myspace, facebook, ipods, and other new technology that grades in school are starting to suffer. but look at it this way also, some technology actually helps you, could you do some things at work without a computer? probably not, and a lot of kids in school find research for school projects over the internet. so yes technology is starting to ruin us but it can also help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It absolutely is! Granted, they're are amazing advances out there, but we are much more lazy and lame. People don't know how to save money anymore. Everyone flips if the power goes out. Relationships usually consist of a couple and the internet. Nothing is how it used to be, every toy takes batteries and most kids have no imaginations.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if you think of it that way. but there's also good things that come from technology. like: instant messaging keeps her social. many kids get depressed with no friends and become suicidal. it's good your son has a phone, so he can call during emergencies, computers can still be used for research, just like libraries, and if your kids are overusing technology and you have a problem with it, set an amount of time which can be used for them to be on the computer or whatever. or ask them to go excercise, etc. also, does your daughter know that it's possible to make her myspace private so only friends can see it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think that is a very interesting question you pose; I have been thinking of this kind of thing myself. On the one hand we make our lives easier, more entertaining, and seemingly "better" - actually it is better in a lot of ways now that I think about it when you think about healthcare advances, etc. But when you look at what is really important to people- something that can take many of us until we are in our 50's or 60's to really appreciate.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; People need to eat, be hydrated, sleep, stay warm and dry, have relationships, family, etc. (think Maslow's Pyramid); Nowadays people sit around and get upset because they are bored like they are teenagers or something. We need to look through all the distractions technology can put up and focus on what it can do for us as a tool and get on with it. By the way , I find it funny when you look at some of these catalogs and tv ads and stuff, and they have the craziest things for sale that are 'neat' because of the technology, but when you think about it, it's like 'what the heck???' - Think iDog and such...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Technology will be our own undoing, yes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But the actions of our children begins at home. You like to use the computer, but that doesn't mean your children have to. As a parent you can keep them from using it altogether, and your daughter won't even have the opportunity to bypass any of your security. You can also install software to help keep a better eye on their online activity without them knowing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Your son gets in trouble for texting in class, but you're the one that provides him with a cell phone. You preach about the library and how things were before, so you should understand that kids got by just fine without their own cell phone. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I agree with you on the technology issue, but don't blame the fact that it's there for your daughter's bad grades and your son's suspension. It all starts at home. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Kids don't know how to go outside %26amp; play. They don't know about catching lightning bugs, hide %26amp; seek in the dark, or going for a bike ride. Guess now we know how our parents felt when giving US the whole "when I was a kid" speech.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; could be, though, that you're seein' the affects of "technology" spendin' more time w/your children&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; than you do&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; that's not TECHNOLOGY'S fault&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; it's good of you to say&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "technology [is] ruinin' US"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...and didn't say: "THEM"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 'cause, if your children are hurt&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; then "YOU" are as well&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; technology is good&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; technology....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "...a broad concept...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...deals with...use and knowledge of tools and crafts...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ....the term can refer to material objects...such as machines, hardware or utensils...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...it can also encompass broader themes, including methods of organization, and techniques...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...it has helped develop more advanced economies...and has allowed the rise of a leisure class...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...however, many technological processes produce unwanted by-products...such as pollution...and deplete natural resources...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...new technology often raises ethical questions...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...philosophical debates have arisen over present and future use of technology...with some claiming that it alienates people and destroys culture...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ...they say that society pays for advancements with the cost of freedom and psychological health (and probably physical health in general...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ....others say that technological developments enhance the human condition...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Technology&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is technology ruining us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't think so. the computer should be like t.v. for us back in the day, it was limited, in a common room of the house, and to be used ONLY AFTER home work/chores were finished. And kids have been getting in trouble for talking and passing notes, you know "communicating with each other", ever since we stuck them in a room together and bored the crap out of them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2579712899256018780?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2579712899256018780/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/is-technology-ruining-us.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2579712899256018780'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2579712899256018780'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/is-technology-ruining-us.html' title='Is technology ruining us?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1504511668760201443</id><published>2009-12-06T16:01:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:01:51.577-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Why do people keep getting on here and posting stupid questions and pretending to be things they are not? Today I about five questions posted by some racist pretending to be black. I've also seen adults posing as kids and asking stupid sex questions and people posting questions only so they could link to their MySpace pages!!! This is getting really old. Why doesn't Yahoo! have a way to report people for posting fake or dummy questions?????? Someone should ban those people from the Internet lol. (By the way, feel free to post your responses. You'll get points for it anyway)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yes I've seen the i;m a kid and Christians vs atheists and man /woman ect,,,, i;m like you be who you are and ask the questions and get off.people should realize that real kids do go on here'so watch all the sodomy questions and above all the racist garbage..if they want to spew all that hate spew it in your house because the people on this site don;t care for your rude racist garbage...and then the animal killers are just as bad,,,,your rite they should kick them to the curb if you cross the line of stupidity,,,,,,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;don't wind yourself up too tight.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Simple: because people lack creativity and have nothing better to do than go the one place they can have complete anonymity (the internet). They then abuse this supposed anonymity by getting cheap kicks through screwing with other people. It's rather pathetic, really.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Maybe they get a kick out of it? Who knows.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Alot of these people don't have anything better to do!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just like you said their are weirdos stalkers freaks and geekers&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; always b on gaurd anyways and there is a spot to report abuse&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i have a spot on mine anyways if your legal eagle there should b no worries thanx for posting a good question&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just report them. For whatever you feel is correct. Impersonation is a valid reason and is listed. And depending on what is being said and in what way, there will be plenty of choices for other reporting, including "Other" if they don't have a category for you to choose. We can each only do what we can to police our own areas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;o : o&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1504511668760201443?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1504511668760201443/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-do-people-waste-space-posting.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1504511668760201443'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1504511668760201443'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-do-people-waste-space-posting.html' title='Why do people waste space posting questions and posing to be people they are not?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-5842512716969117768</id><published>2009-12-06T16:01:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:01:35.967-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I'm recently divorced with two kids.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Our son is 19 and living with my Ex-wife. He's mentally challenged and gets Social Security. She has no income!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have custody of our 13y/o daughter. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Because of Ca. screwy Laws and his age, I can't force her to give me custody, and I rarely get to see or talk to him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She met some guy about 3wks ago on myspace. He's 34 and from the Los Angeles area.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We live about 350 miles north of L.A.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I recently found out he's since moved in with them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He's got various tattoos suggesting "Sureno"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; affiliation. (XIII, 13, X3). He says he's not affiliated. Being a former Correctional Sergeant, I find that hard to believe.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He has no job, no home and no car.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He doesn't even have a Drivers License. I tried to do a search on his name and came up with nothing. Probably an alias.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I've tried talking with her about it, but she contends "he's a nice guy!"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I reminded her that prisons are full of seemingly nice people!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Any advice?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ohh goodness...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You are very rightfully concerned, but your son is an adult (sadly, he doesn't act like one). At this point, I think you can fairly say you've done everything you could to help. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I think you should focus on your daughter now, who should rightfully be very scared for her mother and brother. All you can do is be there for her. Your son seems to have made his decisions, and as terrifying as it is, I think you'll be putting you and your daughter's relationship on the line if you try to hard to chase after him. Give her everything she needs. Food, shelter, a loving and caring father, and the confidence that she can do better than her mother. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I hope things work out for you and your family. As touchy as everything is right now, the most concern I have is for your daughter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nothing much you can do now that you are divorced from her. If she is going to be stupid enough to allow some guy she just met move in with her that is her problem. I would talk to a lawyer though and say you are concerned about the welfare of your son and see if there is anything that can be done about the custody arrangement.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Due to your son mentally challenged I think even due to his age you can get him out of there but not sure about your state I would see a lawyer it would be well worst it. You don't know what your son is going threw.....if your ex wants that than it is her decision but your son can't make that on his own so you need to step up to the plate.....even welfare may be able to help..I wish you the best as the surrounds might not be for your son&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think you absolutly have the right to be concerned. Don't let anyone tell you different. As far as your son goes I think it would help answerers to know a bit more about his handicap. The term mentally challenged these days is so loosely flung around that it could cover a wide range of disability and ability unfortunatly. Is he disabled enough for her to need to stay home and take care of him? Good luck to you and I'll check back to see if you add any information. But it's never paranioa if you are deeply concerned about your child whatever his age.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You're right to be concerned, but you are also not her boss. You should make more effort to see your son, but not necessarily get custody. Try hard to get along with your ex and the guy. If you can, snoop around when you go see your son %26amp; see if you can find another name for Mr. No Job, No Car, No License. Sounds like an ex-con. Keep a close eye on your daughter. Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-5842512716969117768?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/5842512716969117768/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/am-i-rightfully-concerned-or-just.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5842512716969117768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5842512716969117768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/am-i-rightfully-concerned-or-just.html' title='Am I rightfully concerned, or just paranoid?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2322350896652722720</id><published>2009-12-06T16:01:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:01:19.309-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have a myspace contest site, %26amp; I was thinking that once in a while I could post a bulliten with pictures of the missing kids. What's a good site where I can find this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;U can get those at the amber alert site.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;amberalert.gov&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;http://www.amberalert.gov/&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; has all the information you need. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; www.dailybooz.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I thought I read something where you can have an Amber Alert sent directly to your cell phone on the news a while ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2322350896652722720?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2322350896652722720/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/how-do-i-keep-up-with-current-amber_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2322350896652722720'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2322350896652722720'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/how-do-i-keep-up-with-current-amber_06.html' title='How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2200922755011505171</id><published>2009-12-06T16:01:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:01:03.548-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Looking for help to building a website. plzz help?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;A couple weeks ago, i was watching Tv a special epidsode on MTV. THe episode was about people who had diseases and other problems. I was watching and the people who had the problems was worried about getting married and having kids. Thats when i came up with this idea. im looking to build a website kinda like myspace or any dating site for people who have these problems. these people can biuld there own profile and that good stuff. i wana help these paople alot. plzz help thanks so much for you time. hope to hear from you. also is there any websites i could use for free. for time being. Once again thanks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Looking for help to building a website. plzz help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I have my own website and i created it for free. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; freewebs.com is offering this. I admire your good intention for your site. i'll definitely visit it once you have build it. You may checkout my site: www.freewebs.com/debbehbehland/&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Looking for help to building a website. plzz help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Freewebs doesnt give a free website... those are free pages on somebody elses site...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Solar System Web is the best starting point.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2200922755011505171?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2200922755011505171/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/looking-for-help-to-building-website.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2200922755011505171'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2200922755011505171'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/looking-for-help-to-building-website.html' title='Looking for help to building a website. plzz help?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1786474341914996992</id><published>2009-12-06T16:00:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:00:47.627-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What should i get himm for his 16th bdayy?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Please ppl im not richh..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; im on a budget&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so maybe something under $20?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i have to order it for himm bcuz ii cant b there 4 hsi birthdayy..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; any suggestions?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Here is some stuff about himm(from his myspace):&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I like cars, my friends, and politics. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Actually, that's what I wanna be when I'm older. A politician. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'm a social Democrat &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In my school the kids are all soo rich (and they're arrogant and cocky with it), and they're all sexist. You can't go a day without some kid bragging about "his" money (it's really his mommy and daddy's lol), or about how he flashed 100s in a girl's face to sound all cool and stuff, or how u can't go a day without hearing "that's what she said" or seeing ***** drawn on a lil poster advertisement featuring a woman on it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Wealth, arrogant, and sexism is my school in 3 words. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So u can obviously say I do not support the rich; I strongly oppose the rich. I don't like wealth. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I hate sexism, patriarchy, and male supremacy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should i get himm for his 16th bdayy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Go buy him a Teddy Bear...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should i get himm for his 16th bdayy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Why dont you give him a bl ow job?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should i get himm for his 16th bdayy?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Get him a drivers permit&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Justin&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1786474341914996992?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1786474341914996992/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-should-i-get-himm-for-his-16th.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1786474341914996992'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1786474341914996992'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-should-i-get-himm-for-his-16th.html' title='What should i get himm for his 16th bdayy?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2028740794067382778</id><published>2009-12-06T16:00:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:00:31.602-08:00</updated><title type='text'>For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;HI - I asked this before and got a lot of 14 yr olds who answered, which some were appreciated - but I'm looking for answers from parents on this one please.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My step daughter is visiting for the summer and she mainly isn't very outdoorsy. She doesn't know any kids her age here as she is only here for the summer and refuses to go to any camps and meet any. She only goes out on walks or out shopping or recreational type activities with my husband, me, and my 1 yr old. Last year we allowed internet whenever and she abused it and was talking to boys after we told her not to and ended up in a very explicit sexual conversation (aka cyber sex). We had a monitoring software in place and found out and she was no longer allowed any internet time at all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It's been a year though so we're trying to decide if we should let her use it, but just for like 30-60 mins. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We already know we are blocking myspace, as its filled with sick old perverts looking for young girls.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think this would depend on you and her. Before you let her on, you clearly need to set guidelines as to what is and isn't appropriate. Perhaps an hour in the evening after she's helped wash up, or something like that. That way she is earning it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't worry too much about her lack of sociability. It's the age.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think that after a year she's learned her lesson. But you should put the computer in the living room, so you can see what she's doing. She probably won't be having cyber sex in front of her parents...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;oh ive been on since 11 n its 3 rite now lol.. so yea =D n im still gonna be on&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well i know, im just another dumb 15 y/o but my look on it is, if she's not on the internet, then she's outside/ in public talking with guys.. and opparintly she's a promiscuois (sry about the spelling) girl, she might be getting in to more then cyber sex. if u know what i mean.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;None, you can always blame it on her previous behavior. And I would make her join so sort of activity, YWCA or Girls Club or something to get her out of the house, not necessarily out-doorsy, but something. Her refusal is superficial. You are the parents. Be the parents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Let her on for maybe half an hour a day and then shut the computer off. Make her go outside and ride a bike or enroll her in the YMCA for the summer. Enroll her in a sport that forces her to be outside like soccer or volleyball. Take her to the pool. Sign her up for summer camp.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;when i was 14 my mom only let me on for 2 hours a day&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2028740794067382778?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2028740794067382778/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/for-parents-how-long-to-allow-on_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2028740794067382778'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2028740794067382778'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/for-parents-how-long-to-allow-on_06.html' title='For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-6027930570324513445</id><published>2009-12-06T16:00:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:00:15.263-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I want to make my own blog for free where family and friends can look to see updates about the baby, photos and so on even until after birth until the kids are about 2 or 3 years old. I want to maybe include a countdown, have a place to get feedback, vote on names and other fun stuff. I hate myspace. Is there any sites that cater to this? Or do I have to make my own?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This site is really neat. you can create a page, upload pics, and interact with other women as far along as you are. You can change fonts and colors on your page so it fits your personality.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;babysites.com is good.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Live Journal or Babies Online&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Babycrowd.com.....I have a blog on this site. I like it. :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There are many good free sites out there but my personally favorite is 'blogspot.com' What it is, is you go to your web page like 'example111.blogspot.com' it is quite simple. Good Luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; xo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; pregnant with #1&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-6027930570324513445?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/6027930570324513445/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-free-website-can-i-use-to-start-my_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6027930570324513445'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6027930570324513445'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-free-website-can-i-use-to-start-my_06.html' title='What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7901411599903737216</id><published>2009-12-06T16:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:00:00.254-08:00</updated><title type='text'>SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;OK I have noticed that some girls on here are looking for new girlfriends...not in a sexual way I mean just a good friend.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Anyway I am a single girl who has a few girlfriends but most are dating someone, married or have kids. I am wanting to go out to different places and actually meet some new guys...not always possible being everyones situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now for my question. If I started a MySpace page for single girls who are looking for new girlfrinds to go out with do you think girls would be open to meeting and hanging out with new people? Or would I be the only one into this lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Also im 28 years old.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I understand completely! I am only 23, but I live in Utah, and I only have, like, 3 friends who aren't married! we were all so young and free... and now they are too busy doing married things to hang out very often. Kind of lonely. And I'm really busy with full time work and full time school, which makes it hard to find new friends. Sigh.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If I was in NY/NJ, I would definitely give your site a try. But don't say girls looking for girlfriends. Try something more specific, so you don't get pervy guys looking for threesomes hitting up your site. Something classy, fun... Sorry, I'm drawing a blank!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Once you get a catchy name, write a thorough description. Don't sound desperate for friends, though, or no one will be interested. Go for light, breezy, trendy, and fun! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Try marketing your group as a society, club, etc. for single girls whose friends have all deserted them by getting married, moving away,etc! Say that this site is to help network women who want to have a fun girls night out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck! And don't get discouraged!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Ooh, are there any movies/books with women in this situation? Maybe you could include a reference in the name!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hmmmm.....I would be. I'm not in the NY/NJ area though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This seems immature coming from a 28 yr old, when reading it i thought you were like 21. But from the looks of it do this in real life, it sounds like your gathering up a Call Girl Agency lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hmm. I think its possible, i'd consider it, but also at the same time I'd be afraid some of them were sketch balls&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Please move you and all your single gf's to Ft worth TX. Thank you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sounds like a good idea though. It's not so easy sometimes meeting people, and it's a lot more enjoyable to go out in a group. Safer for you ladies too, lotta creeps out there.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;at 28 one tries new things which rarely succeed ur venture will take time to take off explore locally that will be better&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yeahh you could give it a go..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would be and I'm pretty sure other girls will be.....But I'm thirteen and am happily single.I have alot off guy friends and some good girl friends,But if I meet a great a guy then I'd be happy to go out with him.So to your question: Yes I'm sure many single girls of many ages will be into that.=]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7901411599903737216?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7901411599903737216/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/single-nynj-girls-would-you-be-into_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7901411599903737216'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7901411599903737216'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/single-nynj-girls-would-you-be-into_06.html' title='SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1883384809820734946</id><published>2009-12-06T15:59:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:59:45.246-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Okay.. so me and my ex broke up back in Sept. of 07 after me deciding to keep my baby... he asked me to marry him the week before I found out I was pregnant... then when he found out he was excited.. but later was like.. we're not reayd, it isn't how we planned... lets have kids later, after we're married.. only I wasn't willing to abort... one, I'm not a murderer, and two.. I'm not suppose to be able to have kids... this is a miracle baby to me.. so we continued spending alot of time together and things got bad... alot of arguing until in 12/07 we stopped talking period. Since then.. I see he's always on my myspace page... I'm just curious do you think he misses me, or just being nosey? He said he wanted nothing to do with me.. so why is he looking on my page everytime he's online? I saw where a girl wrote on his page about how much che loves him... but his status is still single... and she's not in his top or nothing.. my thing is... why be on my page? What do ya'll think?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think its both actually,Because if he didnt miss you then he wouldnt care what you were doing on your myspace....but since hes looking he misses you and is concerned to see if you have moved on! he obviously loves you,you cant just drop a relationship and expect not to have anymore feelings for that person.I think you and him should definetly try to work things out,after all your baby was meant to be!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; destiny.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; fate.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He misses you. AND he's being nosey.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;In my opinion he's just curious, and maybe regretting leaving you out of his whole life. I wouldn't think to much of it, and since you've noticed this other girl then you're obviously missing him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He misses you and still wants you . After all you do have his baby. There will all ways be that kind of tension b/t y'all.He will always want to know what you are doing and whats up with you b/c you are his baby mama.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hope it works out for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What kind of moron is this guy? Does he have any intention of being involved in this child's life? You'd better resolve this situation now, and let him know how you plan on doing things, whether he likes it or not. Like it or not, you're tied to him now with this child, unless he signs over parental rights. Who gives a crap is this dude is looking at your Myspace page, don't let him get to you! Can you block him from seeing your page? If he's this juvenile now, you're better off without him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Girls will always be interested in that guy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And there will be those who claim or say it friendly "I love you"..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; That doesn't hint that he has any feelings for them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He's looking into your profile because that's the number 1 source to finding out whom you're with, whom you're hooking up with, your "status", &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I could bet you that he reads more into your comments and picture comments then he does into your "About Me"..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Because I bet he cares more about your friends, and "guy friends" then anything else.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So I'm guessing it's jealousy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jealousy = intruding into someones myspace page.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cause he wants to see who else you are talking to. Men sometimes do the same things we women do, we "check up" to see who else is around. Also, he should and probably does feel bad about the way the situation was handled. If he couldn't even deal with the fact that you are pregnant and steadfast on having your baby, then he's not worth the time. Trust me I am a single parent and men can take you through some things. Make your page private to him. Stop checking his page just as well, if he chooses to do right, he will be adult enough to say it in person, not by sneaking on your page. Time can make the best of men, til then, save your money and get ready for motherhood! Congratulations!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He's probably just being nosey. If it didn't work out before it probably won't work again. You're looking at his myspace too. It is probably difficult but you should just stop paying attention to him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1883384809820734946?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1883384809820734946/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-do-you-think-is-he-nosey-missing.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1883384809820734946'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1883384809820734946'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-do-you-think-is-he-nosey-missing.html' title='What do you think... is he nosey, missing me, or curious?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4472992398703809418</id><published>2009-12-06T15:59:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:59:27.648-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I want to make my own blog for free where family and friends can look to see updates about the baby, photos and so on even until after birth until the kids are about 2 or 3 years old. I want to maybe include a countdown, have a place to get feedback, vote on names and other fun stuff. I hate myspace. Is there any sites that cater to this? Or do I have to make my own?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This site is really neat. you can create a page, upload pics, and interact with other women as far along as you are. You can change fonts and colors on your page so it fits your personality.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;babysites.com is good.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Live Journal or Babies Online&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Babycrowd.com.....I have a blog on this site. I like it. :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4 updates?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There are many good free sites out there but my personally favorite is 'blogspot.com' What it is, is you go to your web page like 'example111.blogspot.com' it is quite simple. Good Luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; xo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; pregnant with #1&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4472992398703809418?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4472992398703809418/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-free-website-can-i-use-to-start-my.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4472992398703809418'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4472992398703809418'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-free-website-can-i-use-to-start-my.html' title='What free website can I use to start my own baby/pregnancy blog where family and friends can look 4'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3291051176773322891</id><published>2009-12-06T15:59:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:59:18.147-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Please help me build some confidence.?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I am 34, kids etc... Middle age is hitting me hard. I had my husband take some pics of me, that I think look ok. Check out my pics on myspace, if you like what you see leave me some comments. Please. But don't leave comments unless you are serious. Thanks for the help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please help me build some confidence.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are very attractive...confidence comes from within I recommend borrowing library books on self confidence self esteem and assertiveness my wife found those types of books very helpful on re-entering the workplace at around your age.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please help me build some confidence.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;34 is not middle age... you've got about 10-15 more years before that hits! :D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please help me build some confidence.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;then be&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please help me build some confidence.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No one else can give you self esteem or confidence, you have to find it within yourself. First, you can't focus just on your looks. Be proud of yourself as a mother, wife, and as a person. Focus on your interests and hobbies, what defines you as a person separate from being a mom or wife because while those are both something to be proud of you shouldn't let it define you as a person. Get involved in something that you are passionate about, develop yourself as a person, take some college courses, etc. Finally, if your looks are making you feel less confident, then make a decision to do something about it or learn to love yourself the way you are. Do some soul searching. Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please help me build some confidence.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;34 is not "middle-age", unless you plan on only living until you are 68. Me, on the other hand, when I was in the 30's I started to realize that there was more to me than anyone thought. In my forties, I realized that there was more to me than I thought! I'm 54 now and have never felt better. I have 3 teenagers, 19, 17 and 14. And my husband is ten years younger than me. Confidence comes with age, and it comes from within. Only you can find the real you, and once you do, learn to love and accept yourself. I'm here if you want more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please help me build some confidence.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;very pretty =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please help me build some confidence.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;kill yourself&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3291051176773322891?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3291051176773322891/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/please-help-me-build-some-confidence.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3291051176773322891'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3291051176773322891'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/please-help-me-build-some-confidence.html' title='Please help me build some confidence.?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3613500269312723151</id><published>2009-12-06T15:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:59:01.706-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Guys; What is going on?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Long story short:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I've been with the same guy on and off for 5 years. He's 20, I'm 19. We've broken up before but it was 2 years ago. Things were going really great and all of a sudden they kind of stopped. In Dec. I had a miscarriage, and then in late Jan. I saw he was "flirting" with some girl on Myspace.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; With all the stuff that was going on -- I broke it off.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We still talk all the time, and we've been seperated for a little over a month now.. but on Thursday he told me what he was "feeling". He said he wanted me to move in, get married and have a family, and he wanted it SOON. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now, I'd marry him tomorrow if I could, but having a child is a big deal. I think he thinks it will be easy and doesn't realize it's life changing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So I told him I'd love to have kids, but not now. I want both of us to be prepared. Since then he's called once to see if I felt the same. I called once, but neither of the calls were over 5 mins. He hasn't called yet today. Why is he starting to do this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys; What is going on?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He's forcing your hand in the matter by giving you an ultimatum. "Why" he is doing this is anyones guess, but it seems that he wants a future with you. You'll need to decide if that's the path you want to take right now with your own life. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; There are pro's and con's with starting a family early. The pro's:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1. You possess more patience for your children when you are younger.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. You can enjoy an early retirement with no kids in the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The con's:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1. You'll be much poorer, since you haven't saved up money and bought a house already. (I'm also guessing that at your age you do not have a college education, which will lessen your future earning abilities.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. The fact that you have caught him "flirting" indicates immaturity on his part. You can not afford that level of instability with your future spouse. You must know with absolute certainty that he has only feelings for you, and not a wandering eye for other women.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys; What is going on?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It's called doubt. He's just as mixed up as you are. I do think you may be too young to have a child at this time if you are unstable and not ready financially and with a decent place to raise a child.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys; What is going on?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i think you should talk to him because he probally wants sex&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys; What is going on?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay you had a miscarriage, and I'm assuming that it was his.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; To lose that for alot of ppl is a big deal if you were exited about it. But if you wasn't wanting that it would be a relief if you are really not ready. But if you got pregnant then if he really cared about you then he would have been there for you through that either way. Now its over and he has re-thought things.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys; What is going on?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your are both too young to have kids. yes you may be above 18 and technically legal adults but that doesn't really matter. I'm 20 myself and I know I;m not ready to have kids. kids should not be raising other kids.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3613500269312723151?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3613500269312723151/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guys-what-is-going-on.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3613500269312723151'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3613500269312723151'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guys-what-is-going-on.html' title='Guys; What is going on?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-910694904163461602</id><published>2009-12-06T15:58:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:58:39.292-08:00</updated><title type='text'>International skip day?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;everyone on myspace is talking about skiping school on sept,11 b/c thats a day alot of kids feel we should already be getting off. r u going to do it? and do u think its sending any type of message to adults?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;International skip day?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I can understand where all you kids are coming from but I was in school when it happened. I rememebr how scared i was and the look on everyones face. I dont believe you should skip school for 9/11...it should eb a time for people to be together and rememeber the lives lost and the heros that were there. its not about sleeping in and not having to deal with teachers&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;International skip day?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;actually, i think it is a good idea..i think youshoud let ppl know sep. 11 stay home!!!!!!!!! we rock!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;International skip day?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;When I was in school national skip day was the first Friday in May. I feel that kids using a certain day to get a day off from school is absurd %26amp; disreseptful. If they plan on acknowledging the goings on in the world by maybe supporting some veterans in a veterans clinic, or to volunteer at the fire station or somrthing like that to commerate the losses of 9/11 than that would be ok. But to use someone elses losses just to get a day off NO!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;International skip day?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I posted a bulliten on that today.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;International skip day?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think its a really good idea....and i got that bulletin on myspace too. thats a day we shouldnt be stuck in school...forgeting about what happened...we shoudl be home...volunteering at places...going to a night church (if ur religious) ...and thinking about that day and doing something to remeber...thats just my opinion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;International skip day?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hell yeah im going to the beach !!! I love myspace it helps us plan our ideas for school skip days lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-910694904163461602?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/910694904163461602/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/international-skip-day.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/910694904163461602'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/910694904163461602'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/international-skip-day.html' title='International skip day?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-6463692064344606044</id><published>2009-12-06T15:58:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:58:24.044-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Friends who do drugs round 2....?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I've been friends with a girl I've known since 6th grade. Up until about 4 years ago. I could only have ranted and raved about her. She fed me lunches when my mom was abusive and starving me as a child. She listened to years of my bs and was always there, always kind and always sharing. And I reciprocated the same to her. We were truly equal and good friends and it was a healthy relationship, but we were kids.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Once out of high school, she went to college 4 hours away and I had a baby. So our lives went in different paths but we talked on the phone every week at least, im'ed all the time on the computer and I went to visit her and she always made time for me when she came back home. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; After her 4 years of college she moved back to our hometown and she was ready for other things in her life and me too...like dating and getting married. We were both single and ready to mingle. Well I found someone though other friends and we got very serious to the point of being engaged for a while. That is when the trouble started. She was still hitting the bars all weekend long and trying to find the love of her life and I'd found mine at the time. And I couldn't hit the bars with her and she didn't seem to want to do other things. It was a priority she had and I was being left out and I got mad with her and quit talking to her for a year. She wanted nothing to do with my new life b/c it was boring to her. And she wanted her bar friend back for the weekends.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So she found new bar friends that led her to other things like pot and eventually a bad boyfriend that was a meth lab cooker at 15, used herion, coke, etc.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He got her into pot and coke. She does only pot now but she drinks very heavily and they live in crack alley. (we obviously started talking again because I missed her and our friendship and my engagment ended) So I would still even try to go to her home and spend time with her hoping I could help or just to check and see how she was doing and she almost dragged me down to their level. I finally just told her that I wasn't comfortable at her new house and that I'd still love to be her friend but we'll have to meet up somewhere else other than there and I'd like it to be just us two and not her cracked out boyfriend. Who we all still suspect is using coke. She is blind to him and his faults and her life has become a s*it hole due to her own bad choices and being with him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She has since only talked to me though myspace comments once a month. I'm now married of 2 months. I have a 6 year old child and I can't figure out if the friend I once loved and couldn't imagine not having is gone forever and if I should say see you later one last time. Or is it worth staying in the background in case she needs me and accept the fact she is never there for me, never sees me anymore and is only out for her and her boyfriends gain?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Any thoughts guys? I could really use this. We're 26 years old now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And if your opinion is that I should end this and say adios...what are your suggestions on how to do it other than saying you're a drug addict, etc. and I've got to go? Thanks to who reads this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Friends who do drugs round 2....?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That's really sad! This is one of those things that I don't think anyone would be able to answer as well as you. But it seems like you guys are at a point where you either have to forget about eachother, or confront eachother. There's just no other way. If she really is as valuable to you as you say, then try to get some courage and tell her your concerned for her and that if she can't see that you can't be friends anymore. Tell her how much you care for her because I bet she feels the same way. But if that doesn't work I guess you have to move on. You've got yourself and your kid to think about now!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Friends who do drugs round 2....?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ppl do change as we grow older /grow up....unfortunately she is now in a rutt and can't seem to pull herself out or doesn't want to at this time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She's always been there for you, you've tried to be there for her...she chooses to stay in this drug/relationship and will probably hit rock bottom , which she will then need someone to help pull her through this when she's ready for the help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I would stay in the background......there's no harm in that for you...........and just wait till she calls saying she needs your help* then you know she's ready....goodluck*&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-6463692064344606044?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/6463692064344606044/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/friends-who-do-drugs-round-2.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6463692064344606044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6463692064344606044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/friends-who-do-drugs-round-2.html' title='Friends who do drugs round 2....?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7628220598805628398</id><published>2009-12-06T15:58:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:58:10.584-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I feel like a friend betrayed me, and I'm the one who's lonely!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Long story short: BF of 15 years and I had a misunderstanding. She posted a 5 page rant on MySpace (not her personal page, but a reunion type place everyone from our town has access to), including my name and of course only her side of story. I feel like she aired dirty laundry in the most public way, and haven't talked to her since. I recently had my first child, and I feel so lonely, as I have no other friends my age, especially with kids. Part of me says good riddence and I'm better off, but I can't stop feeling really abandoned and betrayed. Advice?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I feel like a friend betrayed me, and I'm the one who's lonely!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If she's low enough to do this, you're much better without her, yet if you can't let go, meet her for some coffee and have a talk--if not join some clubs, go to public events, and just try to make freinds! good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I feel like a friend betrayed me, and I'm the one who's lonely!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Its normal for you to feel this way...but seeing as how she did that.....She wasnt your friend in the first place...Get out %26amp; meet some new friends %26amp; forget about her.....one day she will realize what she did %26amp; she will come back to you to fix your friendship...I'd tell her no thanxs and let her go.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7628220598805628398?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7628220598805628398/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-feel-like-friend-betrayed-me-and-im.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7628220598805628398'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7628220598805628398'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-feel-like-friend-betrayed-me-and-im.html' title='I feel like a friend betrayed me, and I&apos;m the one who&apos;s lonely!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7091892220399111643</id><published>2009-12-06T15:57:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:57:51.744-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;So, I recently moved to a new school and, of course, when I moved here I didn't have any friends. My brother had made some friends here from MySpace so I met them. Two of them actually go to my new school and are really nice. So, when I started school there were a lot of other kids starting at the same and by the second day I was still basically talking to 3 of the girls. One of the girls (R) is the one I'm having problems with. For the first week or so we were pretty close and sat together at lunch and had a lot in common but we don't have any classes together. She found some geeky guy friends and as soon as she did it seemed like she was avoiding me. I wouldn't see her for days at a time and when I finally did she said she was 'on her death bed' with a sickness. Yeah, right, like every week? But whenever I did see her at lunch we would get along and laugh. Then the other day I was looking at where she usually sits at lunch with her geek friends and didn't see her so I left. I walked back later and very faintly saw her over there but wasn't sure so I ignored it. After I thought about it I realized she was over there before so I walked back to ask why she was avoiding me. When I got there she was gone again. I asked one guy if she was here today and he said he she wasn't. Then, when I walked away I heard them laugh. After school I saw her get in her car. Like two days later I finally talked to her again and asked her if she had been at school that day and she said she had had to go to the doctors. All day. She said hadn't been at school. I was pissed. My question is how to deal with this. I keep getting mixed signals. What advice do you have oh great ones?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Its hard but I would move on. She doesn't sound like a true friend. If she smiles at you in the hall or something, don't be rude just smile back and keep moving. Just be nice even if you want to give her the death stare.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;she's seems crazy no offence she would not be my friend&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I say forget her. She's obviously not a true friend, and you should spend the time and energy making new ones instead of wasting it on her. You don't want a friend like that anyways, because she doesn't really care about you, and you would never know when she could turn on you. Look for other friends, and you will be much happier. Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i know you at a new school and all but just forget her...ignore the silly thinsgs shes doin and when you see her say hi and smile thats all u can do and find better friends...so stop questioning her if she was in school or not and why?...after this who cares!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well, what kind of clothes does she wear? have u noticed multiple scars up her arm(s)? if so, its possible that shes emo. which means she cuts herself. did she say what kind of "doctor" she was seeing during school? it could have been a therapist. if she wears alot of black, tends to act sad and negative frequently, and has multiple scars/cuts on her arm(s), then i recommend asking her what KIND of doctor she was seeing. was it a doctor for sicknesses? or a doctor for social problems? hope this helps. have faith in yourself, hope for the best, and good luck!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7091892220399111643?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7091892220399111643/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-having-problem-with-new-friend-help_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7091892220399111643'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7091892220399111643'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-having-problem-with-new-friend-help_06.html' title='I&apos;m having a problem with a new friend. Help?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3642469145330689584</id><published>2009-12-06T15:57:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:57:36.189-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;So, I recently moved to a new school and, of course, when I moved here I didn't have any friends. My brother had made some friends here from MySpace so I met them. Two of them actually go to my new school and are really nice. So, when I started school there were a lot of other kids starting at the same and by the second day I was still basically talking to 3 of the girls. One of the girls (R) is the one I'm having problems with. For the first week or so we were pretty close and sat together at lunch and had a lot in common but we don't have any classes together. She found some geeky guy friends and as soon as she did it seemed like she was avoiding me. I wouldn't see her for days at a time and when I finally did she said she was 'on her death bed' with a sickness. Yeah, right, like every week? But whenever I did see her at lunch we would get along and laugh. Then the other day I was looking at where she usually sits at lunch with her geek friends and didn't see her so I left. I walked back later and very faintly saw her over there but wasn't sure so I ignored it. After I thought about it I realized she was over there before so I walked back to ask why she was avoiding me. When I got there she was gone again. I asked one guy if she was here today and he said he she wasn't. Then, when I walked away I heard them laugh. After school I saw her get in her car. Like two days later I finally talked to her again and asked her if she had been at school that day and she said she had had to go to the doctors. All day. She said hadn't been at school. I was pissed. My question is how to deal with this. I keep getting mixed signals. What advice do you have oh great ones?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Its hard but I would move on. She doesn't sound like a true friend. If she smiles at you in the hall or something, don't be rude just smile back and keep moving. Just be nice even if you want to give her the death stare.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;she's seems crazy no offence she would not be my friend&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I say forget her. She's obviously not a true friend, and you should spend the time and energy making new ones instead of wasting it on her. You don't want a friend like that anyways, because she doesn't really care about you, and you would never know when she could turn on you. Look for other friends, and you will be much happier. Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i know you at a new school and all but just forget her...ignore the silly thinsgs shes doin and when you see her say hi and smile thats all u can do and find better friends...so stop questioning her if she was in school or not and why?...after this who cares!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm having a problem with a new friend. Help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well, what kind of clothes does she wear? have u noticed multiple scars up her arm(s)? if so, its possible that shes emo. which means she cuts herself. did she say what kind of "doctor" she was seeing during school? it could have been a therapist. if she wears alot of black, tends to act sad and negative frequently, and has multiple scars/cuts on her arm(s), then i recommend asking her what KIND of doctor she was seeing. was it a doctor for sicknesses? or a doctor for social problems? hope this helps. have faith in yourself, hope for the best, and good luck!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3642469145330689584?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3642469145330689584/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-having-problem-with-new-friend-help.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3642469145330689584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3642469145330689584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-having-problem-with-new-friend-help.html' title='I&apos;m having a problem with a new friend. Help?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4292138911008179391</id><published>2009-12-06T15:57:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:57:19.267-08:00</updated><title type='text'>SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;OK I have noticed that some girls on here are looking for new girlfriends...not in a sexual way I mean just a good friend.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Anyway I am a single girl who has a few girlfriends but most are dating someone, married or have kids. I am wanting to go out to different places and actually meet some new guys...not always possible being everyones situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now for my question. If I started a MySpace page for single girls who are looking for new girlfrinds to go out with do you think girls would be open to meeting and hanging out with new people? Or would I be the only one into this lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Also im 28 years old.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I understand completely! I am only 23, but I live in Utah, and I only have, like, 3 friends who aren't married! we were all so young and free... and now they are too busy doing married things to hang out very often. Kind of lonely. And I'm really busy with full time work and full time school, which makes it hard to find new friends. Sigh.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If I was in NY/NJ, I would definitely give your site a try. But don't say girls looking for girlfriends. Try something more specific, so you don't get pervy guys looking for threesomes hitting up your site. Something classy, fun... Sorry, I'm drawing a blank!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Once you get a catchy name, write a thorough description. Don't sound desperate for friends, though, or no one will be interested. Go for light, breezy, trendy, and fun! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Try marketing your group as a society, club, etc. for single girls whose friends have all deserted them by getting married, moving away,etc! Say that this site is to help network women who want to have a fun girls night out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck! And don't get discouraged!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Ooh, are there any movies/books with women in this situation? Maybe you could include a reference in the name!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hmmmm.....I would be. I'm not in the NY/NJ area though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This seems immature coming from a 28 yr old, when reading it i thought you were like 21. But from the looks of it do this in real life, it sounds like your gathering up a Call Girl Agency lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hmm. I think its possible, i'd consider it, but also at the same time I'd be afraid some of them were sketch balls&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Please move you and all your single gf's to Ft worth TX. Thank you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sounds like a good idea though. It's not so easy sometimes meeting people, and it's a lot more enjoyable to go out in a group. Safer for you ladies too, lotta creeps out there.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;at 28 one tries new things which rarely succeed ur venture will take time to take off explore locally that will be better&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yeahh you could give it a go..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would be and I'm pretty sure other girls will be.....But I'm thirteen and am happily single.I have alot off guy friends and some good girl friends,But if I meet a great a guy then I'd be happy to go out with him.So to your question: Yes I'm sure many single girls of many ages will be into that.=]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4292138911008179391?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4292138911008179391/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/single-nynj-girls-would-you-be-into.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4292138911008179391'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4292138911008179391'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/single-nynj-girls-would-you-be-into.html' title='SINGLE NY/NJ GIRLS - Would you be into...?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4558161704998352212</id><published>2009-12-06T15:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:57:04.315-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Random Survey?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;1. How old are you?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favourite brand and flavour chip&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's you greeting when you answer the phone?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelt backwards?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon or fried ham?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so,what kinds?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gunna vote for on American Idol?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favourite type of dogs? Cats? Horses?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( if so,don't need to answer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favourite pop/leats fav?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. How old are you? I am 17.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair? Naturally? Wavy. I prefer to have straight hair, though. My hair is hard to curl; looks bad when i don't do anything to it (it gets poofy after it dries)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favorite brand and flavor chip? Hmm... Ruffles - Cheddar&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean? duh duh DUH duh duh Duh duh duh da da da da da daaaaaa.. Mr. Clean Jingle. lol. I liked the Lysol lady from the commercials. She was funny. Whatever happened to her?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway? Ohh.. that is difficult considering they are 2 of my favorite shows. Uhm. I am going to go with ANTM. I have liked it a whole lot longer than Project Runway.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's your greeting when you answer the phone? Hello?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelled backwards? Nytsirk&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese? LOVE cheese!!!!!!!!!! (2nd favorite food =])&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9. Bacon or fried ham? Blech. I would say VERY VERY crispy bacon.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs? I do I do. Over-easy please!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies? Penicillin.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use? "Don't squeeze the Charmin!"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? Sure do. He is a great writer =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace? Facebook. MySpace is so overrated now. I have had it for 3 years, and it just gets old.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so, what kinds? We have 2 cats. Peeka and Oscar (yes, Oscar is a girl lol. Her middle name is Mya. We are a weird family ha.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders? Yes! I hate spiders.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears? Death, loneliness, bugs (so scared of bugs), mirrors, giving birth&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving? I wouldn't go from sitting here to the airplane, no. But, if I had proper training, I might consider it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gonna vote for on American Idol? Michael Johns!!!!! So cute, especially with the accent =P&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it? 10:24 p.m&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favorite type of dogs? Cats? Horses? Pug; Persian; Shetland pony (so cute!!) &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not? Well... I don't like kids that AREN'T mine. You know? Because there are some people that brings their kids up in such a way that I know I would never want my kids to be brought up in that same way, because those children are just SOOOO annoying! I just wonder.. WHY????? sometimes. (I am not bashing everyone's parental skills, just so you know.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A? I wouldn't say that. I try to answer at least once a day and if I get bored, I come back and keep answering. It all just depends on what my schedule is like. I was very obsessed with Y!A when I first signed up, though. I answered all my 20 questions in like one hour lol. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( If so,don't need to answer. No. I love surveys! Especially if they are random.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favorite pop/least fav? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -Favorite: Cherry Coke/Pepsi/7UP (Cherry Coke tastes a lot more cherry-y but I love cherry flavored pop, so I had to add all the ones that offer it!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -Least Favorite: Sprite! DISGUSTING!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. How old are you? 13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair? straightish&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favourite brand and flavour chip- fritos&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean? uhm mr clean, cooler name&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway? ANTM!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's you greeting when you answer the phone? hello?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelt backwards? esirnus&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese? sure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon or fried ham? bacon&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs? yeah&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies? wow, too many to count!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use? cottonelle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? familiar, but no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace? facebook(i dont have one though)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so,what kinds? a beagle &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders? nope&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears? black and white photos&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving? no way&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gunna vote for on American Idol? david a., jason, syesha, and brooke&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it? 810&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favourite type of dogs? Cats? Horses? beagle, tabby&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not? i want kids beacuse i have a big family&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A? yess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( if so,don't need to answer. no i like it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favourite pop/leats fav? sorry?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. How old are you?18&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair?straight i guess&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favourite brand and flavour chip a lot&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean?dont know what ur talking about&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway?hate both&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's you greeting when you answer the phone?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelt backwards?diez&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese?yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon or fried ham?dont eat either&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs?yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies?none&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use?dont know&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace?myspace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so,what kinds?no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders?yes =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears? being poor&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving?no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gunna vote for on American Idol?dont watch it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it?7:09 p.m&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favourite type of dogs? Cats? Horses?dont know&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not?of course. cause its nice to hear "DADDY"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A?no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( if so,don't need to answer. no its not boring =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favourite pop/leats fav? water&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. 18&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. straight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3. Lay's sour cream and onion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. Mr. Clean&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5. neither&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. Hello?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7. Aras&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8. Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9. Bacon&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10. Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11. I used to be allergic to root beer but I outgrew it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12. I don't know actually, I don't buy my family's toilet paper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13. I think so&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14. MySpace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15. An adorable chihuahua named Zorro&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16. Yes very afraid&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17. Insects/spiders, ending up alone&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18. No&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19. No one&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20. 9:09pm and I should be getting something to eat&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21. chihuahua, tabby cat, thoroughbred horse&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22. No I'm just not the parent type&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23. Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24. No I like answering surveys on YA&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25. dr. pepper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1-34&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2-straight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3-Pringles, regular&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4-Lysol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5-neither&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6-Hello&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7-asereht&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8-yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9-don't eat pork&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10-yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11-LOTS of things&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12-Scott&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13-yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14-both&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15-hermit crabs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16-yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17-falling&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18-no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19-no one&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20- 9:11pm&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21-any&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22-want 2&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23-yep&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24-not really&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25-huh?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. How old are you? About 23.3&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair? Straight as a board :(&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favourite brand and flavour chip? Um, I am more of an Herr's Whole Grain Pretzel girl&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean? Lysol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway? Neither (no TV for me)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's you greeting when you answer the phone? Hel-lo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelt backwards? eelhsa&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese? Not really, no.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon or fried ham? Fried ham&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs? Yup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies? Bananas (really!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use? Cottonelle or Charmin Strong&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? Yes...I LOVED of Mice and Men.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace? MySpace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so,what kinds? Two hot-dog dogs :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders? Nope&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears? Failure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving? Yup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gunna vote for on American Idol? Not gonna vote, don't even know the contestants.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it? About...9:10pm (EST)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favourite type of dogs? Cats? Horses? Dogs would be daschunds (hot-dogs), cats would be longhaired (although I really am not a cat person), and horses would be Clydesdales (big and lumbery!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not? I love children and want to have either two or three...defininately would love to have a daughter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A? Yes, mostly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( if so,don't need to answer. Nah, not terribly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favourite pop/leats fav? I love Cherry Pepsi and dry cereal or fruit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. How old are you? MYOB&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair? straight that was permed&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favourite brand and flavour chip - Fritos&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean? Mr Clean&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway? NEITHER&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's you greeting when you answer the phone? I DON'T&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelt backwards? MYOB&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese? Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon or fried ham? crispy bacon&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs? yes - scrambled&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies? None&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use? Charmin&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? Yes %26amp; I've read his books&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace? NEITHER&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so,what kinds? Nope&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders? Nope&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears? Public Speaking&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving? Sure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gunna vote for on American Idol? I won't&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it? 9:13 pm&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favourite type of dogs? Cats? Horses? none&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not? yes - like them but don't have or want any&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A? 'fraid so&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( if so,don't need to answer. nope&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favourite pop/least fav? Cherry Coke - Mountain Dew&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :o)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. I'm older than my little sister. lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. I have straight hair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3. My favorite band is Three Days Grace. My favorite flavor chip is... just normal potato chips.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. Mr. Clean. He's kind of cute =D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5. Project Runway, because I don't watch those shows.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. If it's one of my friends, "what's up?" or I say something random and goofy like "dan radcliffe." If it's someone I don't know/a teacher or someone like that/not a call for me I just say "hello."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7. Einna. Wow, that's weird. It reminds me of a hiyena. lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8. It depends of what kind of cheese. I like most kinds. I don't like swiss, though. American cheese isn't that awesome, either. It's not really cheese though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9. Fried ham... yum!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10. Kind of. I don't like them that much unless they're in a cheese omelette.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11. I'm allergic to penicillin. No food allergies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12. Whatever kind is in the bathroom. =D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13. Nope, I have absolutely no idea who that is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14. Myspace.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15. I have a pet cat named Crookshanks, named after Hermione's cat in Harry Potter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16. Not that much. I don't like them, though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17. My biggest fears are losing someone I love and being in a lot of pain.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18. No!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19. David Cook is my favorite right now, but Josiah Leming was the best of all of them. He got sent home =(&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20. 9:15 PM where I live.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21. Nice ones =D lolz&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22. I'm not sure right now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23. I'm TOTALLY addicted to Y!A.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24. It's not that boring, it's kind of long though.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25. Huh? My favorite kind of pop is Sprite if that's what you mean.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;First off im very friggin bored so ty lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1. 20 - 21 in april&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. Stright&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Ruffles sour cream and onion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. either&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Project runway&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. Ello?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.Adnama&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.A little bit&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Just whites&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.Dust, stupid men&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.cha cha cha charmin&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13. Nope&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Yes 4 chihuahuas and a cockatiel, lovem to death&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Hellll yes, just the ones bigger then dimes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.Dieing alone, puke lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Sure would&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.not watching this season&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20. 9:16 pm&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Chihuahua and german shephard&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Yes , because i have lotsa extra love lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23. Kinda lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.No cause i was bored before doing it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25. Mountain Dew least fave ......anything cherry&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Enjoy lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1.17&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.I love Curly hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Cheetos twisted puffs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Mr.clean&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6.Hello are how you doing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.hcer&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.None&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.Charming&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.No &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Myspace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.No&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Yes of course&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.Nothing but God&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Yes &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Brooke and Syesha &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.8:54&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Yes puppies and i love all kind&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.I want 4 kids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.No this is actually pretty fun&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Sprite Coke and Pepsi&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 26.Yes &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 27.All purpose wipes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1- 19&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2- Sraight / wavy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3-Cheetos- Hot cheetos&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4-Lysol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5-ANTM&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6-Hi, or Hello&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7-ilrebmyk&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8-yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9-BACON!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10-yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11-None&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12- Angel Soft&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13-no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14-Facebook&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15-no&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16-yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17-the dark&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18-NO&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19-I dont watch American Idol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20-8:39 pm&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21- puppies! any kind&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22-I want 3 kids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23-YES!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24-No this is actually pretty fun!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25- Coke, Pepsi and Dr.Pepper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. 14&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2. Straight hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3. lays. plain&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4. Lysol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5. Project Runway&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. idk.just got a new phone&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7. acinoM&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8. yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9. Bacon&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10. yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11. Shellfish (shrimp, lobster, etc...)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12. idk&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13. Nope&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14. Myspace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15. yes, 2. a cat and a dog&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16. yes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17. dying&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18. yeah&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19. i dont watch that&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20. 10:17&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21. German Shepard&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22. i like kids but i dont want any.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23. sorta&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24. no &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25. huh??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. How old are you? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13, 14 in April.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Wavy. But I like straight. Sedu is the best!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favourite brand and flavour chip?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hot Cheetos!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Mr. Clean.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ANTM&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's you greeting when you answer the phone?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is Marie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelt backwards?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; eiraM&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hells yeah!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon or fried ham?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bacon&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Purell and Cats.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I honestly don't know.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Myspace!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so,what kinds?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yes. Two guinea pigs; Cocoa and Oreo, two maltese(dogs); Harley and Holly, and a ton of guppies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dealthy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The dark, death, ghosts, and spiders.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gunna vote for on American Idol?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't know, I only watch the tryouts. They are funny because some people go on there and make asses out of themselves because they want to be on T.V.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10:06.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favourite type of dogs? Cats? Horses?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dalmations, Golden retrievers, Maltese, Saint Bernards, any kind of cat, any horse.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yes, it will be a joy to be a mother, when I am ready.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Somewhat.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( if so,don't need to answer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Nope.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favourite pop/leats fav?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Coke or Dr. Pepper= :)))))) Sprite=:(((((((&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. How old are you?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.Straight/curly or wavy hair?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Mainly straight, but a bit wavy...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3.Favourite brand and flavour chip&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't like chips. XD&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4.Lysol or Mr.Clean?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Uh...?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5.Americas Next Top Model or Project Runway?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't know...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6. What's you greeting when you answer the phone?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; "Hello?", "Yes?", or "Hey."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7.What's your name spelt backwards?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Ahtnamas. O.o&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8.Do you like cheese?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Some kinds...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9.Bacon or fried ham?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't like either...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10.Do you like eggs?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11.What's your allergies?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Almost any kind of bug (which I hate, because I even swell if an ANT bites me... x_x), and penicillin.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12.What toilet paper do you use?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I think it's Charmin...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13.Do you know who John Steinbeck is? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14.Facebook or Myspace?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; MySpace.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15.Do you own any pets? If so,what kinds?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have an insane cat. xD&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16.Are you scared of spiders?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yes, but I try to be gentle with them...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17.What are your biggest fears?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Being upside down, bugs, being alone in the dark, being in crouds of people I don't know, deep sea creatures (and yet I love the ocean... strange.), and losing my loved ones (family, friends, people that I "like" in that way, etc.).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18.Would you go skydiving?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Probably. xD&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19.Who are you gunna vote for on American Idol?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't watch American Idol... O_o&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20.What time is it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12:06 AM. ^^'''&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21.Favourite type of dogs? Cats? Horses?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'm scared of dogs... (Oh, forgot to add that to "list of fears".) I guess I like.... kittens? (I don't really care what kind of cat it is... ^^; ) I love horses, but I'm not sure which kind... I guess a paint horse?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22.Do you want/like kids? Why do you/not?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I like kids as long as they're not the... you know... "I know everything" type. I don't think I want kids, just because I don't think I'd be responsible enough to be a Mum....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23.Are you addicted to Y!A?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Not really XD I'm answering 'cause you're one of my contacts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24.Is this boring? :( if so,don't need to answer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25.Favourite pop/leats fav?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Fanta閳?...Least favourite is probably Coke.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Random Survey?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1) Not telling&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2) Wavy Hair&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3) Brand Frito's - Flavor - Sour Cream Pringles&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4) Mr. Clean&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 5) Neither&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6) Hello! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 7) ylleK -Kelly &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 8) Yes! I 閳?Cheese!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 9) Bacon&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 10) Yes! I 閳?Eggs!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 11) GUM - Candy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 12) Charmin&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 13) Nope!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 14) Facebook&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 15) Yes! I own 2 dogs, 2 goats, 3 horses, and many fishes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 16) Yes! I hate spiders!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 17) Getting bad Grades!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 18) Yes! I would love to try!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 19) Don't know!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 20) 1:20 PM&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 21) I 閳?ALL DOGS, HORSES, CATS.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 22) I like kids, because they are funny!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 23) Yes! I just don't go on so much!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 24) No! It's actually fun! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 25) My favorite is Sprite, my least favorite is Coke&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 26) Nope!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 27) Windex&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4558161704998352212?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4558161704998352212/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/random-survey.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4558161704998352212'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4558161704998352212'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/random-survey.html' title='Random Survey?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1781686834299899024</id><published>2009-12-06T15:56:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:56:47.550-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Help with an outfit. Pictures included of the person!!!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Sophie- http://www.myspace.com/sophieelizabethha... &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Madison-http://www.myspace.com/madison449 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Pick out a nice outfit for them. And a nice hair do!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; THANKS!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; NOTE: There not me or anything there my friends kids and they want an outfit and they thougt it would be fun to ask YAHOO. So thanks!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with an outfit. Pictures included of the person!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Their not your friends. You're Madison and your best friend is Sophie. Don't post a question writing your biography about you and boyfriends and then post another 2 seconds later saying something else.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Nobody has the time to find an outfit for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with an outfit. Pictures included of the person!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Does Sophie need a date? I'm free...pretty much every night...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with an outfit. Pictures included of the person!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well ur actually madison cuz u just posted another question about the cody boys...haha wow i just read your profile ur deff not 26 years old and based on ur pics ur not a model either you need to stop lying cuz its not wourth it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with an outfit. Pictures included of the person!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;is it winter or spring?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; here's a casual spring outfit&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/set?id=88375...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; here's a little more dressy winter outfit&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/set?id=82394...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; here's a dressy spring outfit&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/set?id=90288...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1781686834299899024?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1781686834299899024/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-with-outfit-pictures-included-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1781686834299899024'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1781686834299899024'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-with-outfit-pictures-included-of.html' title='Help with an outfit. Pictures included of the person!!!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-6137686482857049874</id><published>2009-12-06T15:56:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:56:31.226-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have a myspace contest site, %26amp; I was thinking that once in a while I could post a bulliten with pictures of the missing kids. What's a good site where I can find this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;U can get those at the amber alert site.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;amberalert.gov&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;http://www.amberalert.gov/&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; has all the information you need. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; www.dailybooz.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I thought I read something where you can have an Amber Alert sent directly to your cell phone on the news a while ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-6137686482857049874?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/6137686482857049874/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/how-do-i-keep-up-with-current-amber.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6137686482857049874'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6137686482857049874'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/how-do-i-keep-up-with-current-amber.html' title='How Do I Keep Up With Current Amber Alerts?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3388968415979265801</id><published>2009-12-06T15:56:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:56:15.321-08:00</updated><title type='text'>New ideas for hair?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I kinda get bored quick, and was wondering what you kids think I should do next? Nothing to insane but I can dye it funky colours, and cut it. for pictures of me go here&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Myspace.com/megustatupadre&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; no rude comments por favor?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;New ideas for hair?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;try some high lights.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; its a good look for the upcoming spring/ summer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; a light brown with some blonde highlights that are a few shades lighter is a nice versatile color.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and it will look great with a tan :]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;New ideas for hair?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well i just cut my hair. i now have shoulder length with straight cut bangs that go bellow my eyebrows but just over my eyes and then on both sides they are layered down. all my friends think it is a very cute hair style.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;New ideas for hair?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wow ur pretty... erm your like me... get bored quickly with the same hair style and colour too quickly lol.... look on my bebo for different hair colours/styles ive had over the years lol... http://www.bebo.com/Jody-lipzy ive just died it choclate brown , getting it styled and red streaks in soon when i do ill put some piks on my bebo so add me as a friend if u got bebo or give me your msn addy and ill let you know... thank -you x&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3388968415979265801?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3388968415979265801/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/new-ideas-for-hair.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3388968415979265801'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3388968415979265801'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/new-ideas-for-hair.html' title='New ideas for hair?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7482714710281203240</id><published>2009-12-06T15:55:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:55:59.919-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;There is a HUGE controversy going on in our school over this.. many of the kids think that the coach should have been suspended for a bit but then put back on the team. While others think the school did the right thing by firing him, I personally think kicking him off was the correct way to handle this situation, here is the situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Some football players from a rival school had been writing nasty comments on our football players profiles on myspace and facebook, one of our football players printed it off and took it to show to the coach before the rival game. The coach read the paper, tore it up, and said "you know what I think, Screw em" then he continued to take his penis out and piss on the paper! In front of the whole football team, at the rival school while getting ready in the locker room. What do you think about this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think any teacher, and that's technically what the coach is, that exposes themselves in front of students should be kicked out of the profession for good.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; EDIT: Larry C - Theres a huge difference between making a team walk home after a defeat, and exposing yourself to them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For a start, one is legal, the other is technically a sex related offence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That is a seriously illegal thing to do. Hell yes, they did the right thing by firing him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that's pretty extreme..... not a good example&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Someone overreacted.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It would've been ok, even the peeing thing, but you don't do it in front of the WHOLE F*CKING TEAM!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That's pretty childish behavior from a coach. He's a school employee, and if a teacher tried a similar stunt, I imagine he'd be fired.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Our coach when I was in high school was pretty laid-back, but we played against some guys who thought they were little high-school versions of Vince Lombardi and Napoleon wrapped into one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Coach has slipped a cog or two. Yep, they were right to fire him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;he shouldve been a gentleman about it...he could've gone into a stall and wiped his butt with it....although i dont see the big deal of him whipping it out to pee..men do that all the time...are you saying if he had been in a bathroom and there were people his students ages he would be expected to hold it til all "underage people" were out.....It was a locker room...that's like the place for naked men....and mens naked butts and bodies as they whip their teamates wiht towels before grabbing the soap and heading for the showers..where the hot water runs down...wait where was i going with this????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Funny thing is, 40 years ago, that would've been considered cool and macho and probably would've inspired just about any team worth its salt back then...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Edit " Weatherman ": Maybe so, but this is just another indication of how wimpish society in general, and men in particular has become in this day and age. And, in addition to that, it seems that everything in this country is a sex related offense anymore...! Oh, and I hope this teaches you how to spell " offense " as well...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think it was a pretty cool thing for Coach to do. And the reaction's a pretty good index of the wiener way this country has been headed for a while (larry c is right).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Honestly I think its a little extreme but that is high school football for you as well. I am interested to know who complained??? I could see why some would say a suspension would have been a better punishment. At the same time a football coach for high schoolers is supposed to be a leader/teacher and when that is the leadership being shown.... thats a tough call though&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7482714710281203240?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7482714710281203240/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/high-school-football-coach-fired_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7482714710281203240'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7482714710281203240'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/high-school-football-coach-fired_06.html' title='A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-557800443888961742</id><published>2009-12-06T15:55:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:55:43.626-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Guys shld i go back to him? HONEST?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?... That was the previous question&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Basically we had prob with gayspace.com ex gf acten as a dif grl hitten him up. i said me or myspace he said he loves me and wants to be with me forever but because of principles "and he only contacts fam and likes to see old pics and **** because all his fam is 3000 miles away he wants MYSPACE he shldnt have to chose but since i made him.. is that rite?? i feel like crap we were together 2 yrs we wanted to get married and have kids.. SHOULD I GO BACK TO HIM? i miss him already ..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys shld i go back to him? HONEST?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No. Niether of you are prepared for the maturity it takes to have a successful marriage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Let him go - he was never yours anyway.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys shld i go back to him? HONEST?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yes you should go back to him and tell him that you were wrong to try to control him. tell him that you love him and that you trust him. and that if he wants something that he should be able to have it. you never give a man a choice like that this or me. that never works in your favor. good luck and go back with him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys shld i go back to him? HONEST?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no do not go,if this is a problem now it will always be one and if you can not deal with it ,move on and find what you are looking for that will make yourself happy.........&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys shld i go back to him? HONEST?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Keep moving. The relationship sounds toxic. Do us all a favor and drop it like it's hot.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-557800443888961742?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/557800443888961742/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guys-shld-i-go-back-to-him-honest.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/557800443888961742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/557800443888961742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guys-shld-i-go-back-to-him-honest.html' title='Guys shld i go back to him? HONEST?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-9063296242189314329</id><published>2009-12-06T15:55:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:55:27.449-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Me (male) and my fiance been dating for 5 yrs now.shes been wanting kids and i told her not yet.but soon until i was sure and she new thatfnally i told her if shes pregnant then ill be glad to be the dad meaning that we can try again but with me wanting to bear her childso we decided to try a pregnancy test and it came back negative.so it was left there a month later i noticed she was buying new cloths , and her attitude was different.etc and would always try doing extra nice things for i found it strange and i also noticed that her phone would not be on charger most of the time so i decided to spy on her and good enough i found her myspace etc with almost naked photos in there and guys she been talkin to.. saying you can come to my place and sleep over while my man is at work.then she would say to him you can leave early before he come home.i also found out she was talkin to an older guy friend of hers.shes blamin it on her not being pregnant cuz of me not wanting to.Is she usin me?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;HELL NO!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Once someone betrays your love and trust. No second chances. There are too many high risk STD's that she could have exposed you to.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dont let her take you for a sucker. Dump her and move on!!!!!!! She is totally using you!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;leave her sorry ***, she is a slut and she doesn't deserve you, find someone better&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I have only one word for you....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; RUN!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This girl is nothing but trouble and she will walk all over you as long as you allow her to do it. She will not stop cheating on you and she will not stop blaming it on you. She doesn't need to be a mother now anyway. Clearly she isn't ready for that kind of responsibility.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wow. Long time.. i think you should see if she has changed if not .. have you talked to her? If you THINK she has changed.. hang out with her for awhile and proof yourself if she has really changed. If you think she proofen herself worthy. Its your choice .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;get out of the drama. She has probably been doing this a while. U dont cheat because u didnt get what u wanted. you dont want to be the one who knocks her up and pays child support while she sleeps with other guys and isnt able to take care of a child.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No. Do not go back to her. Her MySpace page is reason enough. She's blaming her behavior on the fact that she's not pregnant???? What's up with that? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You have to ask yourself: Is this the woman you want to be the mother of your children? With her past, I would hope you would say, NO way! Find a nice girl and leave her in your dust.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It's a very hard thing when stuff like that happens. Sometimes wanting a baby bad and not getting it can cause people to go through so many emotions. There are procedures one can try to conceive a child.There are tests men can take that can let you know about sperm count and for a woman it lets her know when she is most fertile. I don't think cheating is the answer. I always say once a cheater always a cheater. I do believe that people make mistakes and people can change, but it real puts a damper on one's trust after that. What you should do is maybe do something different and out of the blue, plan to go somewhere for a weekend or somewhere different one night or day, be creative and nice, even though it may hurt. then sit her down and discuss how you feel about what is going on and if she asks about myspace, you can say you created a new account and was looking to add her and found that stuff so she doesn't accuse you of spying, or if you have a mutual friend you know is on her friends list you can say you looked at her page through there. I'm against spying but some people would never know about certain crappy things a significant other or spouse is doing if they never looked. Anyway, when you talk to her explain everything and the alternatives. If things go by and you've talked about all the things you wanted and she still seems to go astray, I would take a break from her until maybe she realizes what she did. If not, you don't need to go through that pain and it wouldn't be worth it. At least you are someone who tried and actually would take on the responsibility. Hope things work out:)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;OK, first of all if I were her and you were my fiance of five years and I was ready to have children and you weren't I'm sure I would feel bad not wanted and insecure with our relationship, We do things sometimes that we don't like to get back at the ones we love but in reality she might just be hurt with your actions..whether its for the best or the worst..Give her a chance to explain herself, what she is doing is not right, but if you feel in your heart that damage has been done beyond repair then walk away and never look back..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-9063296242189314329?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/9063296242189314329/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-get-back-with-my-fiance-after.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/9063296242189314329'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/9063296242189314329'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-get-back-with-my-fiance-after.html' title='Should i get back with my fiance after cheating on me after 5yrs?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-8890154143679077895</id><published>2009-12-06T15:55:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:55:11.309-08:00</updated><title type='text'>It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I still dream about him at least once a week. I think about him at least once a day. We hadn't talked in almost three years because I couldn't handle the friendship thing. I recently got in touch with him via myspace. My stomach has been in knots for days. I can't concentrate on anything. I'm so spaced out thinking about what could have been and is there still a chance for us? ... I have been married to someone else now for seven years and we have four kids. It's been a really rough marriage and I have tried to get out of it several times but now after getting in contact with frirst love I really feel like I have the strength and confidence to do it. Regardless of what type of relationship that I have with first love in the future I still want a divorce. Is he my soulmate??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Get the divorce! Forget the "first love". Your recollections are better than the actual occurence of getting back together would be. Divorce, and move on!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wow. Well if you really need to divorce, do it, but wait to start a relationship with your first love. People change a lot over time and he might be different now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Is he interested in you?? If not you are wasting your time. Try working it out with your husband for the sake of your 4 kids instead of thinking "what if" about some guy you went out with eight years ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes..Old is gold in ur case&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm still not over mine. Its been 30 years and I've been married to someone else for 25&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your first love is the first person you opened your heart to and have given your heart to... sometimes that is hard follow... which makes other relationships hard keep... but in regards to the husband now, most of the time you simply fall out of love... or sometimes you settle without realizing why.... your first love could be you soul mate or simply your first love...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That is the worst and best part about your first love. You will never ever ever ever!!! get over him/her. It's horrible sometimes. i met my first love, and we have been through a lot. we haven't talked in a while, and ever since we found each other on myspace my stomach has been in knots as well. i think about him everyday. every night before i go to bed. its hard. this coming up Aug. will be 2yrs. that me and him have been in-love with each other. you should tell your husband that you are still in-love with him. i mean he has the right to know. i just hope no one gets mad or anything. i hope that you will have everything work out. Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Problem with this ort of love. It is all based on feelings. Yeah the chemistry may have been good. and sex probably too, but hey guys get old and fail. You have to choose to love the person you married. Put the other guy out of your head. commit him to the waste bin and for God's sake choose to love the man you are with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; the old saying of the grass being greener, well I used to be a farmer and it is true, but only partly. You see when you walk day by day through your own crop, you see all the weeds and all the bare patches and the rest, but when you drive past your neighbours crop at 60 mile an hour all you see is the green colour. Don't be fooled, the hebrews after they left captivity thought they would be better off back in egypt, but they forgot that their babies were being killed back there, and they were being beaten and starved to death. Again, stop and choose. The man you are with has problems, yes ok. but all you are remembering is the sex and you have forgotten the arguments and trouble you had earlier.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you shouldn't have got married in the first place, it's not fair to your husband and u gotta think of ur kids b4 getting divorced, u don't want them to be unconfident, weird people when they grow up- do you?it's not that easy u really should get over ur first love weather he's ur soul mate or not, i know u think you deserve to be happy but so do ur children&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hes not your soulmate, hes your crutch, your fantasy playmate, your perfect man. What he isn't is real. Sure you knew him four years and a lousy marriage ago, but whats he like now? What are you like now? Will he still be interested in a woman with four kids? For all this time, you have imagined what he would say and how he would say it, but that's not the reality of the situation, your four kids are. You can get a divorce if things can't be salvaged with your husband, but not because of some childish fantasy you have of an ex.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that is how things happen with the first love thing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-8890154143679077895?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/8890154143679077895/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/its-been-almost-eight-years-nowwhy-am-i_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8890154143679077895'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8890154143679077895'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/its-been-almost-eight-years-nowwhy-am-i_06.html' title='It&apos;s been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-8733742526642537328</id><published>2009-12-06T15:54:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:54:55.708-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;well im just gonna tell yall a little about our relationship. we have been together for 7 months and some days and he has always told me that he wants me to have his kids which basically means in my situation that he wants to marry me because he knows that i dont want to have kids until im married. well i was just doin some snooping around oneday and found all of these messages from another woman and him telling her he doesnt know why they cant get together and on his myspace i found him writing messages to gurls asking them to be his **** buddy and i was so upset when i found out because i dont know if im just a side line chick that hes feeding bull **** to or what but the thing i dont get is i have met his family and they know about me so.................anywayz i confronted him about it and he flipped it and tried to put the lying on me, he thinks i lied to him about what skool i go to, by the way i go to st francis university and he thinks that i go to the high skool so can u help&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The truth....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Learn a woman's best word.. "NEXT"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You caught him... He lied.... He tried to put it back on you...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What in the world do you need to be put in a situation like this for, if he is cheating online, he has a real potential to cheat IRL, so move on, find a man that worships the ground you walk on, not the sheets you lay on. So many time we hang on to a relationship for the few good things that we like, or think are fun... but we also ignore the hundreds of bad things that keep coming our way... Just do it pros and cons... they should at least be equal if not leaning more to the PRO side.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just get rid of the ****** and get with a guy who treats you the way you deserve to be treated&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My advice would be not to because you will spen lots of time in jail !!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just leave him he just want that booty just leave him be&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Kill him or i will.........&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ya kill it b4 it multiplys&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Dump the lying cheating SOB..ur better off without him..all he wants is sex...he's just saying stuff to influence u to give him what he wants.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you have been together 7 months and he thinks you go to high school, he should know this already whether you do or dont. My advice is to forget him, hes a player and you can do better than that&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your snooping was bad... Him being a jerk is just as bad...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Split up, best thing all round...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Simple: LEAVE HIS SORRY TWO-TIMING BABOON A**&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay...Here is my two cents worth. If you have seen the Myspace page and you can get the proof of it, screen shots and the like, then if you confront him again and he still wiggs out then honestly I would get all done with the realtionship. If he is doing it now then he always will.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well if both of you are not being honest with eachother, you prolly have your answer right there and dont need to go any further. secondly, why were you snooping?? do you feel you had the right or at least a good enough reason?? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if the both of you are telling the other lies, whether big or small, then that has GOT to change or the relationship needs to end. It'll only get worse if things dont change...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you caught him red handed.......&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; get rid of him.... you actually have proof no matter what he says isn't true is a lie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; dump him&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay, don't kill him in real life. Kill him mentally in your head a few hundred times then calm down and think it through.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If he's doing this now, do you think he'll stop in the future? I'd have to say no to that one. He's a player, and like some one else suggested, he's just after the booty. Either from you or one of the other girls he's talking with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Do you want to have these feelings for the rest of your life? I'd say no to that one too. Kick him, (not literally) aside and to the curb where all good rubbish belongs and move on with your life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A misunderstanding about schools is really hitting the bottom of the barrel for excuses for his behavior. If that's the excuse now, what little nit-picking excuse is he gonna come up in the future just to start an argument with you? He could always use the one about the color of your nail-polish, that's always been my favorite! lol (And yes, I've actually had that one used on me, something about the laughing I was doing kept me from arguing about it though).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your best bet is to get rid of him. he is insiurie about himself u need need a man who going to make u feel good about ur relationship not rushing u into inseriety. look we all looking for love thsi is just a mist. love comes in so much different way but first u must love ur self before u can another. children is not something to go into likely, u cannot take them back after u have them saying i cannot mange, and it hard work u have no time for urself when this happens then the man leave u alone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;In one instance, he just wants to be needed. He probably thinks that marriage and a baby will better the relationship you have but if it aint half as decent now, it aint gettin no better. Or Secondly, he's just tellin you what you wanna hear in order to have sex how he wants with you (without a condom). &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As far as the snooping around, maybe he feels he cant trust, talk, or get enough intimacy with you. So the easiest thing to do is to go to someone who will and make him feel appreciated (in his mind). &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; On the other hand, he could just be your typical dog who just cant get enough of women.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so depending on what type of guy he is ( you only know), you have to decide if this is person you can see yourself with for eternity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-8733742526642537328?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/8733742526642537328/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-some-advice-cuz-right-now-i-just_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8733742526642537328'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8733742526642537328'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-some-advice-cuz-right-now-i-just_06.html' title='I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4280478985982745819</id><published>2009-12-06T15:54:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:54:40.269-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Complicated crush... Advice?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I've liked a kid for 2.5 yrs %26amp; never really talked directly to him, but came close tons of times. We stare each other down and get all nervous when we're around each other %26amp; it seems that he likes me a lot. Stares %26amp; holds eye contact, double takes, gets nervous when Im around etc. It feels like we both know that we adore each other, but there's 2 problems. I'm worried hes too nervous to talk %26amp; my best friend likes him, %26amp; its been established that hes "her" crush in a silent way. I have 3 other cute kids that stalk me, but hes the most accessible, if she werent in the way, that is. She has a guy she's almost involved with (another complicated story, they just had a falling out), so she doesnt have "dibs" but Im sure there would be hurt feelings if I suddenly started talking to him and later started going out with him. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'm looking for a way to start talking to him without letting my friend know at first, and keeping things on the down low until we know each other better. MySpace? : /&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Complicated crush... Advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thats what I did actually, I found my crush on myspace, he hasn't been on yet, but thats the only way i would feel comfortable in talking to him right away. I think myspace is a good option.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4280478985982745819?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4280478985982745819/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/complicated-crush-advice.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4280478985982745819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4280478985982745819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/complicated-crush-advice.html' title='Complicated crush... Advice?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-811286567056369358</id><published>2009-12-06T15:54:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:54:23.630-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I don't know how to make her feel better...?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ok I have a girlfriend whom I've just started going with so we're taking it real slow and we're not serious or "in love" yet. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Let me start off by telling you about her. She's a mother of three, has a few roommates in the house, including one of her daughters' son-in-law. Her daughter married young and she married and had kids young too. So if I'm right, altogether including my girlfriend, there's 9 people in the house and her married daughter does still live with her along with her husband. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Only people who are working or getting checks each month is my girlfriend, one of her roommates and her son-in-law. Well, today is his first day on the job so he hasn't gotten a paycheck yet. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Her kids are young and even she has some adult roomies but they don't clean up after themselves as they should. Sometimes her married daughter will clean but not always. She got a lot of animals to look after, cages to clean. She works 10 hours a day on school days. One of the roomies has a two year old daughter who screams all the time, giving my girlfriend a headache while the roomie don't control the little monster. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So everyone is kinda low on money because only three people living in that house has a job though it's the first day of work for one of them. My girlfriend had her cellphone on but had to turn it off til payday so I have to call her at home til then. She does not have a driver's license (I forgot how she lost it) so she can't drive herself. I think she did say she was going to get it back in the spring. In the meantime, she has to depend on her roomie to drive her or depend on public transportation which is fairly ok. The guy she takes care of on the job (the guy has muscular dystrophy) doesn't get around much as he can't drive and neither can she so they don't get out to have fun and all that. I guess they don't trust the public transportation too well. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yesterday, I emailed her and told her I was here if she needed to talk and she said she hardly talks to anyone about her problems. I don't get it. She told me she finds it hard to talk to women but not me but she doesn't want to talk about what's bothering her. My girlfriend says she enjoys talking to me and that I make her laugh. In fact, she put a comment in myspace for me and put a pic of an animated cat laughing with the words, "you make me laugh" which is cute! But she is soooooooooo stressed out, find it hard to have a good time but she still enjoys talking to me as she says but doesn't want to talk about her problems with me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I do know that she was married and her ex-husband was abusive, on drugs and tried to kill her and she had bad luck with her youngest's father so she's finding it hard to love someone, including me. I can understand that because it's a trust issue because of what she's been through before. She says we have to be slow because I could be nice in the beginning then be something else later which can always be true. So I understand what she's saying about trust but I really like her and while I'm ok with being slow, I don't want to be TOOOOOOOO slow! I would like for our relationship to go somewhere someday but I don't want to scare her off so much or rush her. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't know how to help her, make her feel better in order for us to have a more serious relationship soon. It takes time but I'd for it to happen and I don't want to scare her off. She kept saying that I make her laugh, down to earth and really cool but just doesn't always act like she's enjoying my company or that she's feeling ok. I want to make her feel better about things but I don't know how. I offer to be there for her, to talk to her and I make myself available but it's not making much of a difference right now. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I really really do not want to lose her. You don't find someone like her in the world very much. Trust me, you don't. Another reason why I don't want to break up is because she says she enjoys my company and I'm afraid just splitting away from her will just add more to her issues, whatever they are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I don't know how to make her feel better...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well, maybe sometimes it doesn't seem like she's enjoying your company is because she's too stressed out with the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And maybe she views her problems embarrassing to say to you, so she keeps the convos non-serious? Am I right?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; IT's probably letting go in a serious way around you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You can try just helping out around the home, maybe that will make some of the problems better and ask one of the adults that don't have a job, if their interested and you can ask them questions to make a resume and just help them out. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Either she's grateful, or doesn't want your charity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; what do you think?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I don't know how to make her feel better...?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;So let her enjoy your cozy home on he weekends this can be her get away spot, a time for her to relax and be a lady. But guess what all those adults live in that house because she allows it. Whether they pay thier fair share or not. She was living this life before you and after you. But you better not feel that sorry and invite her to come and stay because everyone else is going to come to. Offer to pay a bill, bring over some food, be fair, be charitiable, but don't be a sucker. That's what they're looking for. Good Luck, sounds like your a little lonely.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-811286567056369358?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/811286567056369358/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-dont-know-how-to-make-her-feel-better.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/811286567056369358'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/811286567056369358'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-dont-know-how-to-make-her-feel-better.html' title='I don&apos;t know how to make her feel better...?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-6230314345539221682</id><published>2009-12-06T15:54:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:54:08.137-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;well im just gonna tell yall a little about our relationship. we have been together for 7 months and some days and he has always told me that he wants me to have his kids which basically means in my situation that he wants to marry me because he knows that i dont want to have kids until im married. well i was just doin some snooping around oneday and found all of these messages from another woman and him telling her he doesnt know why they cant get together and on his myspace i found him writing messages to gurls asking them to be his **** buddy and i was so upset when i found out because i dont know if im just a side line chick that hes feeding bull **** to or what but the thing i dont get is i have met his family and they know about me so.................anywayz i confronted him about it and he flipped it and tried to put the lying on me, he thinks i lied to him about what skool i go to, by the way i go to st francis university and he thinks that i go to the high skool so can u help&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The truth....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Learn a woman's best word.. "NEXT"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You caught him... He lied.... He tried to put it back on you...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What in the world do you need to be put in a situation like this for, if he is cheating online, he has a real potential to cheat IRL, so move on, find a man that worships the ground you walk on, not the sheets you lay on. So many time we hang on to a relationship for the few good things that we like, or think are fun... but we also ignore the hundreds of bad things that keep coming our way... Just do it pros and cons... they should at least be equal if not leaning more to the PRO side.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just get rid of the ****** and get with a guy who treats you the way you deserve to be treated&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My advice would be not to because you will spen lots of time in jail !!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just leave him he just want that booty just leave him be&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Kill him or i will.........&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ya kill it b4 it multiplys&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Dump the lying cheating SOB..ur better off without him..all he wants is sex...he's just saying stuff to influence u to give him what he wants.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you have been together 7 months and he thinks you go to high school, he should know this already whether you do or dont. My advice is to forget him, hes a player and you can do better than that&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your snooping was bad... Him being a jerk is just as bad...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Split up, best thing all round...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Simple: LEAVE HIS SORRY TWO-TIMING BABOON A**&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay...Here is my two cents worth. If you have seen the Myspace page and you can get the proof of it, screen shots and the like, then if you confront him again and he still wiggs out then honestly I would get all done with the realtionship. If he is doing it now then he always will.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well if both of you are not being honest with eachother, you prolly have your answer right there and dont need to go any further. secondly, why were you snooping?? do you feel you had the right or at least a good enough reason?? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if the both of you are telling the other lies, whether big or small, then that has GOT to change or the relationship needs to end. It'll only get worse if things dont change...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you caught him red handed.......&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; get rid of him.... you actually have proof no matter what he says isn't true is a lie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; dump him&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay, don't kill him in real life. Kill him mentally in your head a few hundred times then calm down and think it through.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If he's doing this now, do you think he'll stop in the future? I'd have to say no to that one. He's a player, and like some one else suggested, he's just after the booty. Either from you or one of the other girls he's talking with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Do you want to have these feelings for the rest of your life? I'd say no to that one too. Kick him, (not literally) aside and to the curb where all good rubbish belongs and move on with your life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A misunderstanding about schools is really hitting the bottom of the barrel for excuses for his behavior. If that's the excuse now, what little nit-picking excuse is he gonna come up in the future just to start an argument with you? He could always use the one about the color of your nail-polish, that's always been my favorite! lol (And yes, I've actually had that one used on me, something about the laughing I was doing kept me from arguing about it though).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your best bet is to get rid of him. he is insiurie about himself u need need a man who going to make u feel good about ur relationship not rushing u into inseriety. look we all looking for love thsi is just a mist. love comes in so much different way but first u must love ur self before u can another. children is not something to go into likely, u cannot take them back after u have them saying i cannot mange, and it hard work u have no time for urself when this happens then the man leave u alone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;In one instance, he just wants to be needed. He probably thinks that marriage and a baby will better the relationship you have but if it aint half as decent now, it aint gettin no better. Or Secondly, he's just tellin you what you wanna hear in order to have sex how he wants with you (without a condom). &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As far as the snooping around, maybe he feels he cant trust, talk, or get enough intimacy with you. So the easiest thing to do is to go to someone who will and make him feel appreciated (in his mind). &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; On the other hand, he could just be your typical dog who just cant get enough of women.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so depending on what type of guy he is ( you only know), you have to decide if this is person you can see yourself with for eternity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-6230314345539221682?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/6230314345539221682/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-some-advice-cuz-right-now-i-just.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6230314345539221682'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6230314345539221682'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-some-advice-cuz-right-now-i-just.html' title='I need some advice cuz right now i just wanna kill my bf?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3532585507002971590</id><published>2009-12-06T15:53:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:53:51.807-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Jason Castro from American Idol?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;is he married?Does he have kids?I really like him so I just really want to know everything you can give me about him.What is his myspace?Just tell me everything you know about him!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Jason Castro from American Idol?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;he's just 19 years old and in college. he's cute though! Oh, and I heard he and cheyenne kimball had a thing. I actually remember watching that lame show and seeing him on it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3532585507002971590?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3532585507002971590/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/jason-castro-from-american-idol.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3532585507002971590'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3532585507002971590'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/jason-castro-from-american-idol.html' title='Jason Castro from American Idol?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1031784442913999014</id><published>2009-12-06T15:53:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:53:35.748-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;my wife has been arguing with my ex and her roommate and another friend that has been giving us info &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; my ex has my daughter she is 16 months old and lives 900 miles away and the friend that was giving info is now arguing with my wife and stating she is playing both sides against each other. here is the problem, my daughter is in the middle of this mess and I hate to see any of my kids in any compromising position and I don't want her to feel the rapture of the argument. I love my wife she has good intentions and she really wasn't playing them together. How do I get my wife to not be so attached to the situation even though she needs to be involved How do I help her she is pregnent and doesn't need the stress. She has also stated that it is too much to handle and has stated she may leave me for a while due to the stress and for the interest of our unborn child, but she checks my ex's myspace daily and receives e-mails from the neutral party HELP&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sounds like your wife is just a little over hormonal at this point. She really needs to let what ever is bothering her go, this should be her time to focus on herself and the new baby. It does sound a little crazy that she checks out your ex's myspace and emails this other person. She knows she is taking this too far and probably hates herself for it. This is why she is threatening to leave for a while. Talk with her, tell her she needs to be the bigger person here and let things go. Reminder her that you love her, remind her that you are concerned about the influence this might be having on your daughter. If she doesn't let up maybe you should be the one who takes a break from her. I am sorry..sounds like a crazy situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Best of luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just read the rest..here's what you gotta do for starters..LEAVE MYSPACE! It is kind of ridiculous that all this has started from a stupid misunderstood blog!! For real we're not in high school any more! I'm not trying to be rude but try to shake it off..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I can't even get a picture from all that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your wife is sticking her nose in where it doesn't belong. anything concerning your child and your x should be dealt with by YOU AND ONLY YOU!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; YOU have allowed her to do the things she is doing... tell her to back off and get off the band wagon!!! you will take care of whatever it is you need to take care of!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Maybe it would be better to let her leave for a while. Let her know that she should take a break from it all meaning no checking the ex myspace page and no talking to the ex roommate. She is causing uneccessary stress on herself which is common in pregnant women who worry about thiings or women in general when their significant other has children from a prior relationship. Send her to her mothers or somewhere she can relax and make sure you fix this situation BEFORE she comes home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your current wife really shouldn't be interfering with your ex or your child at all....The arrangement between your ex and yourself and daughter really shouldn't involve your current wife - although it's good to consult her about things.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I feel that maybe you and your wife need counselling before baby comes to sort out any issues - I feel issues should have been sorted out well before a baby is conceived and another child is involved...but it's too late for that now...you will have to work together to make your realationship work for your baby's sake....take care!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;First of all I do not check her myspace page. You are here and look it up yourself so don't go there. Second of all I posted something on our myspace page about loser parents it is not my fault she took it to heart. She has involved me this whole time. I didn't get involved until she and I talked once on your behalf and then she contacted me for how long before I pissed her off to make her go away? Then when we finally found out the little girl was yours you both involved me again. Therefore you need to state the whole story so everyone knows what is going on instead of making it sound like I did this to myself. As far as the mutual friend she emails me like every day and then gets mad when something came out that she said to the room mate and blamed me for what she said herself to someone else. She is mostly mad that I didnt stand up for her when the other two were saying stuff.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;And in the middle of all of this you are too passive and weak to get a grip on any of this! Quit hiding behind your computer and come out and deal with this sh*t, it's all because of YOU anyway.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1031784442913999014?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1031784442913999014/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/hay-figure-this-out-wife-vursus-ex.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1031784442913999014'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1031784442913999014'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/hay-figure-this-out-wife-vursus-ex.html' title='Hay figure this out wife vursus ex?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4396042247997797458</id><published>2009-12-06T15:53:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:53:20.067-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm going to become Emo, any advice?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I've got the striped shirts and tight skinny jeans. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I listen to that horrorble music and I hate it but I listen because its "the scene". &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I've got my Video Camera for YouTube and my Camera for Myspace, so I can take lots of pictures and movies of myself. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now, I need a cool looking haircut that is conformist; oops, I mean unique. Any advice?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I also need some friends, so join my profile and be my 12,345,678,9th Best Friend!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What else do I need to fit in; I mean, stand out and be cool. Just like all the other kids?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I too was asking myself why you want to be emo so bad. But as I'm reading your question, I'm detecting a lot of sarcasm. Are you really serious, or did you just post this as a joke?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you're joking: Hahaha!! It's so funny when I see these emo kids on the streets...they swear up and down that they're non-conformist, yet they all look exactly alike!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you're serious: Please don't! From reading your question, I can tell you're obviously trying to be someone your not. And believe me, that never lasts very long! If you have to change yourself to impress certain people, then they're not really worth impressing. Besides, I'm getting sick and tired of seeing these emo kids walking around anyway!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just be comtemptuous of everything and never enthuiastic.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't cry, emo kid.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The best thing to do is watch this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.pistolwimp.com/media/55238/&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Then all your problems will be solved.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sarcastic much?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;k... maybe a reverse mohawk.. that would be awesome. eh, you'll need a razor too.. but a corkscrew will do =P&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;when i read your question i just burst out laughing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; thnx for the laughs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; good luck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;quit tryin' to be a poser&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;dont&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Have you heard I Must Be Emo by Faint Starscry? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Funniest sh!t ever...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/video/em...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you are freaking hilarious!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but, emo boys are hot..... lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I hate emo just as much, but I think humour escaped you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i like your shoes.. wanna f u c K?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;a brain&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;get a vasectomy. better yet, just remove it all. wear a camel toe.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't hold your breath&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yeah, don't be so sarcastic and satirical. That's not the emo style.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WTF?Why do u want to be like everyone else wen we r all born to b our own person and to standout!y b like other ppl.U could get lost in a sea of freaks!So b ur self no more no less.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You need to cut yourself a few times, and act depressed all the time. Better yet, spare us and just end your life now. The world doesnt need another Emo f@g.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It's not all that, What if it's out of style. Now what.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't forget the glasses with black frames and the hair that is always falling into your face. And you're not allowed to look directly into a camera anymore. Tilt your head at about 60 degrees and look to the side. Deride everyone for their musical choices.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A really good friend of mine is a Scenester, and I love mocking him. It's fun!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1. Why do you want to be emo?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 2.http://www.somethingdirectory.com/main_e...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You need razorblades.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ummm yah dont become emo if u need advice in doing it then ur not cut out to be emo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;what's an Emo?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;um... why do you want to turn emo... its just seems like you dont even want to do it. yo me it looks as if this is a new fad for you %26amp; your just want to do it for no reason!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Remember to buy lots of local 'zines and leave them nonchalantly scattered around your apartment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I'm going to become Emo, any advice?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;all u need is mascara and ur set&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4396042247997797458?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4396042247997797458/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-going-to-become-emo-any-advice.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4396042247997797458'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4396042247997797458'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-going-to-become-emo-any-advice.html' title='I&apos;m going to become Emo, any advice?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2786944638647649615</id><published>2009-12-06T15:53:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:53:03.266-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A guy I used to be friends with sent me this letter today?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;this is the letter he knows I'm happily married but what kind of condolences or attention he is needing or looking for he is a close friend and I want to &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Yo that ***** took my kid and left.... she said she doesnt want a family anymore and doesn't want to be bothered with my kids... isnt that some ****... I wish I never met her... I even stayed calm about her calling some other guy and said I forgive her and we can work it out... but she said no... she wants to do her own thing....she said to me u do u.... and date other people.... she said she lost feelings for me ... and doesn't want to try and fix anything... now I never slept with anyone else during the entire relationship.. and this is what I get... I never came home 5 in the morning.... I never had girls calling the house... and I never hit her... I didn't even like to raise my voice....My heart is at the bottom of the ocean right now.... I hope all is well on your end.... I'm on myspace ... "&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A guy I used to be friends with sent me this letter today?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;he is grieving and reaching out for help. Give him a call and say hey!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2786944638647649615?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2786944638647649615/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guy-i-used-to-be-friends-with-sent-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2786944638647649615'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2786944638647649615'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guy-i-used-to-be-friends-with-sent-me.html' title='A guy I used to be friends with sent me this letter today?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-6598882475452209285</id><published>2009-12-06T15:52:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:52:47.890-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Abercrombie,AE,hollister,aerop...</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I'm not one of those kids that hate preps, I'm 19 outa high school and don't belong to a scene, there's nothing wrong with shopping there,I havefriends who do, I get some of my stuff (without logos) since they have alot of xs-xxs clothes to fit me and pretty low prices. but I mean always talking about those stores,having one of them as their myspace layout, or in a screen name, going on their website on their free time in school, only getting their clothes there and bragging about it... don't get me wrong the stores are okay I love the smell and the jeans, but the clothes and styles never change though they get new clothes but they all basically look like the same stuff , I just don't get how the have ppl obsessed with them, they don't even keep up with the fasion alot of them are beyond last year. ago. and it isn't like they're expensive enough to name drop. why there instead of express,bebe,saks,gap,designer clothes. is it some fashion propaganda? lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Abercrombie,AE,hollister,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I know what you mean.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I like the stuff, but everyone wears it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Like everyday they wear an item from that store.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have alot of stuff from there, but not so much I am wearing an item everyday.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Everyone these days just want to fit in.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-6598882475452209285?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/6598882475452209285/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/abercrombieaehollisteraerop.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6598882475452209285'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6598882475452209285'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/abercrombieaehollisteraerop.html' title='Abercrombie,AE,hollister,aerop...'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7764335028956917156</id><published>2009-12-06T15:52:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:52:31.372-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;There is a HUGE controversy going on in our school over this.. many of the kids think that the coach should have been suspended for a bit but then put back on the team. While others think the school did the right thing by firing him, I personally think kicking him off was the correct way to handle this situation, here is the situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Some football players from a rival school had been writing nasty comments on our football players profiles on myspace and facebook, one of our football players printed it off and took it to show to the coach before the rival game. The coach read the paper, tore it up, and said "you know what I think, Screw em" then he continued to take his penis out and piss on the paper! In front of the whole football team, at the rival school while getting ready in the locker room. What do you think about this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think any teacher, and that's technically what the coach is, that exposes themselves in front of students should be kicked out of the profession for good.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; EDIT: Larry C - Theres a huge difference between making a team walk home after a defeat, and exposing yourself to them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For a start, one is legal, the other is technically a sex related offence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That is a seriously illegal thing to do. Hell yes, they did the right thing by firing him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that's pretty extreme..... not a good example&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Someone overreacted.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It would've been ok, even the peeing thing, but you don't do it in front of the WHOLE F*CKING TEAM!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That's pretty childish behavior from a coach. He's a school employee, and if a teacher tried a similar stunt, I imagine he'd be fired.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Our coach when I was in high school was pretty laid-back, but we played against some guys who thought they were little high-school versions of Vince Lombardi and Napoleon wrapped into one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Coach has slipped a cog or two. Yep, they were right to fire him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;he shouldve been a gentleman about it...he could've gone into a stall and wiped his butt with it....although i dont see the big deal of him whipping it out to pee..men do that all the time...are you saying if he had been in a bathroom and there were people his students ages he would be expected to hold it til all "underage people" were out.....It was a locker room...that's like the place for naked men....and mens naked butts and bodies as they whip their teamates wiht towels before grabbing the soap and heading for the showers..where the hot water runs down...wait where was i going with this????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Funny thing is, 40 years ago, that would've been considered cool and macho and probably would've inspired just about any team worth its salt back then...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Edit " Weatherman ": Maybe so, but this is just another indication of how wimpish society in general, and men in particular has become in this day and age. And, in addition to that, it seems that everything in this country is a sex related offense anymore...! Oh, and I hope this teaches you how to spell " offense " as well...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think it was a pretty cool thing for Coach to do. And the reaction's a pretty good index of the wiener way this country has been headed for a while (larry c is right).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Honestly I think its a little extreme but that is high school football for you as well. I am interested to know who complained??? I could see why some would say a suspension would have been a better punishment. At the same time a football coach for high schoolers is supposed to be a leader/teacher and when that is the leadership being shown.... thats a tough call though&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7764335028956917156?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7764335028956917156/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/high-school-football-coach-fired.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7764335028956917156'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7764335028956917156'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/high-school-football-coach-fired.html' title='A high school football coach fired because of.... How do yall think this should have been handled?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1703271130435097606</id><published>2009-12-06T15:52:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:52:13.074-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I'm not one of those emo or goth kids that hate preps, I'm 19 outa high school and don't belong to a scene, there's nothing wrong with shopping there, I get some of my pants,tanks,sweaters,and hats there (I don't wear t-shirts) since they have alot of clothes to fit underweight girls like me. but I'm talking about them always talking about those stores,having one of them as their myspace layout, or in a screen name, going on their website on their free time in school, refusing to get their clothes anywhere else and bragging aboput it... don't get me wrong the stores are okay I love the smell and the jeans, but the clothes and styles never change though they get new clothes but they all basically look like the same stuff tees with a cute comment or the name in sewn on fabric like a frat tee, I just don't get how the have alot of ppl obsessed with them, they don't even keep up with the fasion not aloot of them are beyong 5 mos. ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most young kids are still trying to "find themselves".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The "preps" being obsessed with those stores is similar to the "goths" being obsessed with their style. It gives them a sense of belonging. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; People who are that obsessed are often insecure and unsure of how to be themselves without falling back on the identity that their clothing/music/general clique provides.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Others do it for attention, which is again a sign of insecurity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yeah I know what u mean their all like " I only shop at AE or pacsun!" or like they look down on you if you don't have all the latest clothes or u buy the clothes that are on sale! I mean their clothes are cute but theres nothing amazing about their clothes!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I dunno, I like some of the sweaters as long as it doesn't have Abercrombie written on it, I think they just like to let everyone know they have money so they like them more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I have no idea. I shop at the place where I can get a good buy. After all, I have to work for my money.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I see what you mean, but it's not exactly "preps" that act this way. I don't have anything from Hollister (althought I do like the store), but I do wear American Eagle and Abercrombie often. I also like stores such as Wet Seal and Old Navy. "Prep" is a term that isn't usually used in the right way. Just because you wear these brands doesn't necessarily make you a prep. I totally agree with you, some things (Hollister especially) are so boring sometimes. I like some of their things but then they keep selling the same things in different forms and it is all simply the same when you come down to it. And sometimes you'll be wearing something (let's say its from Target?). Someone approaches you saying that they love your shirt and asks you where you got it from. You say Target, but it seems that if it was from one of the above mentioned stores, the person would be more interested in it. People im friends with don't use store names in their screenames, but other younger middleschoolers definetly do. Some screenames are like hollisterlover or abercrombieandfitch xo or abercrombiebaby. It gets really annoying because that name should describe you and a brand name really doesn't. People who wear other brands are sometimes looked down upon or "Not cool". I dont hang out with those people anyways, but I do know what you mean.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well it goes a lil something like this...lets go back to the beginning of the prep stores&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; prep#1 Omg..this shirt costs $50 dollars and it has pretty people modeling on the store..it must be good.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; prep#2 Well she's wearing it and everyone likes her....ooh ooh i should wear that, too!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; prep#3 we all should wear it now to prove we can buy cool expensive stuff...yay for happy popularness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ....no but seriously, i dont know, i guess it makes them feel like they fit in with their friends and their status quo. I guess they think they look good in it as well. Who knows? why does paris hilton carry that stupid dog around? IDK but without that dog, paris would be lost....without those clothes, theyd be just another somebody... .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i dont know&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I really dont have an answer, just wanted to say that i COMPLETELY agree with you and the other answers!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i kno right!! its s annoying.. i mean i really dont kno the answer to that question.. .. i would rather shop at jc penney or macys than hollister and AE even tho there is nothin wrong wit them.. i wouldn mind if they just wore the clothes but its that attitude they bring along with it.. like they are better than others..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why are "preps" so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;because thats where they get clothes that they like and they've made it their own style. ever since abercrombie %26amp; fitch opened in savile row in london, everyone at my school wears it a lot.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1703271130435097606?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1703271130435097606/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-are-preps-so-obsessed-with.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1703271130435097606'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1703271130435097606'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-are-preps-so-obsessed-with.html' title='Why are &quot;preps&quot; so obsessed with abercrombie,hollister,AE,aerop...'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-5080959017336911297</id><published>2009-12-06T15:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:51:03.794-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;We have been married for 5 years. No kids. Last year we had a little bump in the road where the sex was not as often and it was very boring. I told her I was feeling a-sexual about our relationship. Later things started to get better, she started feeling better about herself and dressing better. Then I find out her co worker made a pass at her when I was out of town. She said nothing happened. She still hangs around this co-worker because they work together. She started picking up habits that I do not agree with (smoking pot, MySpace account..) but she said it was to find more friends to do things with. She started acting real funny the last couple of months (even wanted to stay in a hotel one night to clear her head). She tells me this week that the problem we are having is she does not find me sexually attractive. She says she loves me and I treat her so good but she oesn't have that fire. Do you lose that spark overtime? Dose it come back? Am I stupid and is she leaving?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wow, a little while ago I could've been your wife. Honestly, and unfortunately, I would say she is thinking of leaving and also that she has something going on with her coworker. People will change to make themselves more appealing to someone they're interested in. She's dressing better, picking up new habits, hanging out with someone she knows is interested in her? I'm sorry, I had this exact same experience, where I told my husband I wasn't sure I wanted to be married or where we stood, I didn't find him attractive sexually, I was having somewhat of an emotional affair with a coworker. Once my coworker ended it I started to realize my husband wasn't as bad as I was making him out to be, I was being selfish. He is a great guy, he's not perfect, but neither was the other guy. Hopefully she realizes that you're better than he is. Tell her you love her, you want to do whatever it takes to stay together if that's true. But, let her work it out for herself. You can't pressure her. If she decides to leave, let her go. She'll resent you if you force her to stay. Hopefully in time she'll realize that you were the better choice, or she'll let you go to find someone who wants to be with you. Talk to her, make sure she knows how you feel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Keeping the fire alive in marriage is tough. (don't have any kids to try to seal your marriage, hon... kids are divisive, not bonding.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; In your place, I'd seek some counseling....... but, from what you have stated here, the lady has betrayed you......... sorry, hon.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you think sumpin's funny, it probably is........&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; (been there.........)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I feel for you. It does sound like she is participating in more extra curricular activites then you are aware of. I would go get a physical, with hold sex, and do a little investigating. I would venture to say she is messing around, but she likes her cake and wants to eat it to. Sounds like if you gave her the boot, she'd wind up at her co-workers. If she never found you attractive, she wouldn't of married you, had sex with you and stayed with you for 5 years. Seems to me she has found someone more attractive, new and exciting. She is unstable, cut her loose, watch what happens, and move on. You deserve the best, and she is definetly not it. Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;From a woman's viewpoint, she's looking for a way out without a fight. Think she would go to marriage counseling? I would guess this co-worker is more than he should be. Good luck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She is up to something....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would hate to be the bearer of bad news but is definately a good possibility. I would say if she's willing, get some good counseling and not the religous kind if you know what I mean. Talk with her find out if there is anything that can be done. I have been here and i cannot say that it turned out great either. Sorry&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; =(&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sounds like she has some underlying problems before you got married that you didn't know about including substance abuse. It also sounds as if she is involved with another man. None of that looks good. Start thinking of your response if she indeed says she is leaving.. Don't get caught off guard!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And never forget someone nicer is out there for you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's looking to put some strange in her filthy love pocket. Give her a taste of her own medicine and see how she likes it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If she is having a problem with the marriage then she should be with you in counseling and not at a hotel.Listen man,you guys have to seek help now before something happens that will damage your relationship forever.It sounds to me like she is either having an affair or is about to,and i can tell you from experience that it is hard looking back after that happens,so seek professional help now&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Best thing to do is tell her how much you love her, dont squich her thou, pray for her, ask God to guide her heart, seek God and you shall find Him......Jesus loves you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sorry to hear that you are having problems.....it sucks when the one you love may have an eye on someone else. My suggestion would be two fold. On the first one, see about hiring a PI (private Investigator) so check up on her, and see if he/she can catch your spouse cheating on you....it will make it easier for you in the divorce and also you will have some straight answer instead of always questioning what she is saying. While the PI is doing the checking, see about some counselling, and see if you want to work it out. But I WOULD STRONGLY URGE YOU TOWARDS the PI....divorce can be messy and painful, but if you are prepared with ammunition going in, then she probably wont give you too much of a fight if at all. And if the PI finds nothing, then you know what she is telling you is truthful and you are already doing the counselling. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'd say it sounds like it! If you were already having trouble, even though you started working things out and it got better, she's obviously not totally satisfied. It sounds to me like she's at least thinking about getting together with somebody else, but maybe she hasn't acted on it yet.I would try to get her to talk to me and ask her how she's feeling. Maybe she just needed to get away to clear her head or maybe she's lying, only you have the best idea on that, but if you have a trust issue after five years you still have a problem even if she's not cheating on you. My own opinion is that she probably is, but I don't know you so I can't really say, I'm just giving you the best answer I can with the information you have provided. Good Luck honey!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;unfortunately the love one use to feel for their spouse often goes somewhere else the minute someone comes into the relationship that isn't suppose to be there. the firs she speaks of is the honeymoon period in a relationship, that is just lust, and does wane over time. but love is not a feeling its really a decision, sometimes immature people get it mixed up. she doesn't need to find herself, she already knows where she is at, and it doesn't seem her heart is with u. if she doesn't find u attractive, u need to rethink just why u want to be in this relationship. she really is insulting u, and showing u disrespect for u and the marriage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-5080959017336911297?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/5080959017336911297/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/is-my-wife-getting-ready-to-divorce-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5080959017336911297'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5080959017336911297'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/is-my-wife-getting-ready-to-divorce-me.html' title='Is my wife getting ready to divorce me?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3049942129304356625</id><published>2009-12-06T15:49:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:49:39.803-08:00</updated><title type='text'>HELP!! save DARFUR! we must do something to stop the Genocide!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;PLEASE DONATE MONEY FOR THE CAUSE!!!!!! SAVE PEOPLE OF DARFUR!!!!!!! DONATE 25$ AND SAVE KIDS FROM HUNGER. IF WE ALL DONATE SOME MONEY WE CAN HELP THE PEOPLE........&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; PLEASE GO TO http://www.savedarfur.org/page/outreach/...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; AND DONATE SOME!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Savedarfur.org&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; join my group on myspace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; look up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dollar for Darfur&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;HELP!! save DARFUR! we must do something to stop the Genocide!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No thanks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3049942129304356625?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3049942129304356625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-save-darfur-we-must-do-something_06.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3049942129304356625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3049942129304356625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-save-darfur-we-must-do-something_06.html' title='HELP!! save DARFUR! we must do something to stop the Genocide!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-5791649351601821232</id><published>2009-12-06T15:47:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:47:21.627-08:00</updated><title type='text'>HELP!! save DARFUR! we must do something to stop the Genocide!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;PLEASE DONATE MONEY FOR THE CAUSE!!!!!! SAVE PEOPLE OF DARFUR!!!!!!! DONATE 25$ AND SAVE KIDS FROM HUNGER. IF WE ALL DONATE SOME MONEY WE CAN HELP THE PEOPLE........&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; PLEASE GO TO http://www.savedarfur.org/page/outreach/...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; AND DONATE SOME!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Savedarfur.org&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; join my group on myspace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; look up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Dollar for Darfur&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;HELP!! save DARFUR! we must do something to stop the Genocide!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No thanks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-5791649351601821232?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/5791649351601821232/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-save-darfur-we-must-do-something.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5791649351601821232'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5791649351601821232'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-save-darfur-we-must-do-something.html' title='HELP!! save DARFUR! we must do something to stop the Genocide!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2664728678095060730</id><published>2009-12-06T15:46:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T15:46:09.704-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Emo vs. Scene?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Is emo like people that cry about how life sucks, listens to indie music, has about 2 friends, cut, whine and ***** about everything, and starve themselves?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And scene are kids that have straightened black hair, wear tight jeans, studded belts, listen to death metal and grindcore, wear band shirts, have 2 million myspace friends, and wear converses or skater shoes?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Emo: http://lifeinservice.files.wordpress.com...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://tn3-2.deviantart.com/fs10/300W/i/...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Scene: http://www.myspace.com/ifuckinglovealex1&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://spravodaj.madaj.net/pic/emo-girl....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I heart scene!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And you pretty much hit the stereotypes on the head. Another difference is that Scene was always about the fashion. Emo started as just a music genre, Emotive-Hardcore, back around 1984.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;emo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Im sorry I think I miss the computer question?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;according to the ever-popular stereotypes, you're right on. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; that sounded like a fortune cookie kinda...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Jay: it's a myspace question...%26amp; if you have a myspace you should get the connection.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Emo is something that used to be cool and have nothing to do with cutting and acting like a self-absorbed miserable piece of **** and everything to do with music and a community of kids into the same type of emotive punk, hardcore, or alt rock. In time, thanks to the media of course, this became a commercialized exploited piece of ****. Now anyone who wears black or listens to one or two songs of a band who wears black is considered "emo". Now emo is associated with wrist cutting, which used to be something certain types of depressed people, no matter what clothing they wore, did often. Now its a fashion, due to the media causing modern teens to crave attention more than ever. Off of the new "emo", branched a truly evil terrible corperation (my term for a label) called "scene". Scene kids are just kids who are trying to be emo and fail. They listen to lame music that attemps to embody some of the worst aspects of the music of the post-punk/post-hardcore era and fail dismally, sounding like a bunch of screechy whiny chipmunks. They also look terrible, have haircuts that look like badly drawn anime characters, often looking like a mullet, but never called that, because its too "eighties" for them. People who try to be scene are just people who are trying to be failure fake emo's. Its really quite pathetic. Its very much a crime that some new-emo and all of scene take the music aspect and make it only half or less than half of what it means to be in that sect of a musical community. Now its all about the fashion. Its basically horrendous.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;im a scene kid&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so scene&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Scene! :D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I dont mind emo but what I've heard from, emo can be bad for your heath Dx&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Emo vs. Scene?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yeah. scene kids are wanna be emo kids. but, scenesters are emo's with out the emo part.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; the term "emo" is short short for "emotional". "emo kids" (now n days) are just ppl with high emotional depression that feel isolated from others and there for resort to cutting them selves or suicide.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; scene is just a different branch of emo. not the same thing but almost the same style. many ppl cant tell the difference(which makes me mad cuz i hate being called emo) between em because the whole "cover my face with my hair" look.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but really. theres not much of a difference just that emo's live in a black and white world %26amp; scenesters have more of a gangstuh-ish look.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so yeah. scene kids! woooooooooh!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2664728678095060730?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2664728678095060730/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/emo-vs-scene.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2664728678095060730'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2664728678095060730'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/emo-vs-scene.html' title='Emo vs. Scene?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7276425298733832112</id><published>2009-12-03T04:04:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:04:41.766-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Does anyone remember the fifth of November?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Today is the fifth of November...and freakishly I saw the movie "V for Vendetta" again, a year after it was released. My question is are we willing to do something about all of this. Ironically, everything in the movie is becoming a reality with the passing day. Federal agents pull out a 14-year old from her classes to question her about her myspace comment about he she hates Bush. The state of California announced yesterday that elementary school kids will be fingerprinted. The kids I am sure are a very big threat to national secutiry. And England has just been declared the most spied on nation in the world. England has the biggest closed circuit monitoring system in the world. Biometric systems are being integrated for things like passports. England is the closest thing to a Big Brother society that we have today.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What do you have to say? I would love to hear from some English people.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I am posting this in several categories because I want to get a range of responses.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Does anyone remember the fifth of November?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;These days people are so patriotic, but they are not brave enought to do something like that. But then again people get tired of the bs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Does anyone remember the fifth of November?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Unfortunately, in the world we live today, we need biometrics. Unless you are a parent, you may not appreciate that technology. I, for one, am all for it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Does anyone remember the fifth of November?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;One word... Anarchy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Does anyone remember the fifth of November?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;what is this? i dont know what ur asking&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Does anyone remember the fifth of November?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;interesting ...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Does anyone remember the fifth of November?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Soon we might all have the Devils mark stamped on our forehead, but i think governments have forgot the story of Guy Fawkes the peasants will eventually revolt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7276425298733832112?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7276425298733832112/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/does-anyone-remember-fifth-of-november.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7276425298733832112'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7276425298733832112'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/does-anyone-remember-fifth-of-november.html' title='Does anyone remember the fifth of November?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3577032609328884124</id><published>2009-12-03T04:04:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:04:23.053-08:00</updated><title type='text'>It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I still dream about him at least once a week. I think about him at least once a day. We hadn't talked in almost three years because I couldn't handle the friendship thing. I recently got in touch with him via myspace. My stomach has been in knots for days. I can't concentrate on anything. I'm so spaced out thinking about what could have been and is there still a chance for us? ... I have been married to someone else now for seven years and we have four kids. It's been a really rough marriage and I have tried to get out of it several times but now after getting in contact with frirst love I really feel like I have the strength and confidence to do it. Regardless of what type of relationship that I have with first love in the future I still want a divorce. Is he my soulmate??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Get the divorce! Forget the "first love". Your recollections are better than the actual occurence of getting back together would be. Divorce, and move on!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wow. Well if you really need to divorce, do it, but wait to start a relationship with your first love. People change a lot over time and he might be different now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Is he interested in you?? If not you are wasting your time. Try working it out with your husband for the sake of your 4 kids instead of thinking "what if" about some guy you went out with eight years ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes..Old is gold in ur case&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm still not over mine. Its been 30 years and I've been married to someone else for 25&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your first love is the first person you opened your heart to and have given your heart to... sometimes that is hard follow... which makes other relationships hard keep... but in regards to the husband now, most of the time you simply fall out of love... or sometimes you settle without realizing why.... your first love could be you soul mate or simply your first love...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That is the worst and best part about your first love. You will never ever ever ever!!! get over him/her. It's horrible sometimes. i met my first love, and we have been through a lot. we haven't talked in a while, and ever since we found each other on myspace my stomach has been in knots as well. i think about him everyday. every night before i go to bed. its hard. this coming up Aug. will be 2yrs. that me and him have been in-love with each other. you should tell your husband that you are still in-love with him. i mean he has the right to know. i just hope no one gets mad or anything. i hope that you will have everything work out. Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Problem with this ort of love. It is all based on feelings. Yeah the chemistry may have been good. and sex probably too, but hey guys get old and fail. You have to choose to love the person you married. Put the other guy out of your head. commit him to the waste bin and for God's sake choose to love the man you are with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; the old saying of the grass being greener, well I used to be a farmer and it is true, but only partly. You see when you walk day by day through your own crop, you see all the weeds and all the bare patches and the rest, but when you drive past your neighbours crop at 60 mile an hour all you see is the green colour. Don't be fooled, the hebrews after they left captivity thought they would be better off back in egypt, but they forgot that their babies were being killed back there, and they were being beaten and starved to death. Again, stop and choose. The man you are with has problems, yes ok. but all you are remembering is the sex and you have forgotten the arguments and trouble you had earlier.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you shouldn't have got married in the first place, it's not fair to your husband and u gotta think of ur kids b4 getting divorced, u don't want them to be unconfident, weird people when they grow up- do you?it's not that easy u really should get over ur first love weather he's ur soul mate or not, i know u think you deserve to be happy but so do ur children&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hes not your soulmate, hes your crutch, your fantasy playmate, your perfect man. What he isn't is real. Sure you knew him four years and a lousy marriage ago, but whats he like now? What are you like now? Will he still be interested in a woman with four kids? For all this time, you have imagined what he would say and how he would say it, but that's not the reality of the situation, your four kids are. You can get a divorce if things can't be salvaged with your husband, but not because of some childish fantasy you have of an ex.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;It's been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that is how things happen with the first love thing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3577032609328884124?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3577032609328884124/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/its-been-almost-eight-years-nowwhy-am-i.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3577032609328884124'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3577032609328884124'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/its-been-almost-eight-years-nowwhy-am-i.html' title='It&apos;s been almost eight years now...Why am I not over my first love?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-8179968885608764304</id><published>2009-12-03T04:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:04:06.979-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Scene name generator any body now were it is?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;lol well me and a freand found this on myspace but then we&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; lost track of it and we had fun just seeing whos wat &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; lol well i took it and i got xXxAlexXxAnarexiaxXx ahah &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and now we wated to do it on these axxxulae scene kids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but we dont now wat webstite it was lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; seems lame but w/e&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Scene name generator any body now were it is?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Can you please re-explain?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-8179968885608764304?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/8179968885608764304/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/scene-name-generator-any-body-now-were.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8179968885608764304'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8179968885608764304'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/scene-name-generator-any-body-now-were.html' title='Scene name generator any body now were it is?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-5285074494197374702</id><published>2009-12-03T04:03:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:03:51.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Why is my husband all of a sudden acting this way!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ok I have been married to this man for almost 3 yrs and we have been together for a lil over 4...he was the most laid back sweet considerate man i have ever met...now days he is being very controlling he dosent want me hangin out with the one girlfriend i have and when i do he insists on a curfew and how many times a week i can go out...he even made me delete my myspace because i had friends that were guys(whom i never talked to) that he didnt know...he is a cop and when i asked if he was cheating because naturally i got worried due to the drasyic attitude change he said yeah ok when do i have time and i actually dont think he does...our sex life is great also...do you think its the job??? what should i do i love him but i do not wanna be treated this way we also have 2 kids...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why is my husband all of a sudden acting this way!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is abuse. No he isn't hitting you or screaming obscenities, but he is attempting to control you. It will escalate if you allow this to continue. Cops are under a lot of pressure and have little control in the work force. There is a lot of unknown for them He is attempting to find control through his control of you. This will destroy your relationship if you do not get help. You will eventually resent him bitterly for this. As a cop, he may be reluctant to get counseling, but you need to.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; By The way, DIDN'T YOU SAY THAT YOU WERE INTERESTED IN ANOTHER MAN IN YOUR OTHER QUESTION. MAYBE YOUR HUSBAND HAS PICKED UP ON THIS LITTLE TID BIT.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why is my husband all of a sudden acting this way!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He is a cop. That is why he is controlling. He was probably hiding that side of his personality. You need to talk to him. He is being unreasonable, controlling and quite creepy. And yes, probably cheating on you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why is my husband all of a sudden acting this way!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;We can all sit here and psychoanalyze your husband all night long, and it won't help you a bit. We don't know him. Regardless, he has changed. You are not happy with the change. Lots of cops don't act like this way, so the job is not an excuse. You two need to get to a marriage counselor and work it out. Tell him you are unhappy. Tell him why. Then tell him you want to see the counselor. A counselor will allow both of you to voice your feelings in a neutral environment, identify problems, and work out strategies to deal with those problems. If he won't go, then go yourself. It will really open your eyes. Your other option is likely either letting him get worse, or getting a divorce. I sense you want this to work out. Get thee to a counselor! Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why is my husband all of a sudden acting this way!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Maybe he knows stuff about the other woman your hanging out with, but it's unlikely. It is very possible that he is cheating. I know a lot of men and women will do a complete turn around with the way they treat their other spouse when they are cheating. Have you sat him down and asked him why the sudden change other than asking him if he's cheating? I mean, anyone can find the time to cheat if they wanted to. You should talk to him seriously, your kids do not need to see him treat you poorly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why is my husband all of a sudden acting this way!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are accusing him of cheating? If anything, you are the one giving indications of cheating (even if you aren't)....wanting to go out a lot, chatting on myspace...he had a right to pull in the reigns and say hey,I don't like what you are doing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Why would you accept men on your myspace page if you weren't talking to them?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The problem isn't his job...it's you...and your change. You going out, you chatting on the computer...all the things you see people on this site asking about as signs that their spouse is pulling away from them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Turn off the computer and go out on the tow with your husband, and not your girlfriend, and I'll bet you see a change in his attitude.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-5285074494197374702?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/5285074494197374702/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-is-my-husband-all-of-sudden-acting.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5285074494197374702'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5285074494197374702'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-is-my-husband-all-of-sudden-acting.html' title='Why is my husband all of a sudden acting this way!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2717765466363119760</id><published>2009-12-03T04:03:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:03:34.872-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Should I persue a past love?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I left a really great guy named Mike for my ex Gary over 4 years ago. I knew I made the wrong choice back then, and I was prepared to tell Mike that I wanted to be with him and only him shortly after we broke off the relationship. But I found out I was pregnant by my ex Gary. After my daughter was born, I tried to find Mike to tell him how I felt about him, that I really still loved him, and that I hoped it wasn't too late. I located him, met with him, but found out that weekend that I was pregnant again by my ex Gary. So I had no choice to set my heart and feelings aside and stay with my ex Gary for the kids sake. But I can't handle it anymore. Mike is the only guy I want to be with. I need to tell him, but it's been 4 years. I found him yesterday on Myspace, he is single and was also searching for me. Should I just come out and tell him why I have been looking for him after 4 years, or should I start with a friendship again, and see if anything can develop?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I persue a past love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Go with your heart, life is too short. In the meantime, please don't get pregnant by Gary again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I persue a past love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Tell him how you feel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should I persue a past love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You're a mother. Your foremost concern should be your children. If you can't possibly make it work with Gary, and I mean, you've tried councilling and really put an effort into forgetting about Mike, then you need to look at how unhappy you are, and how much it is effecting the kids.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you've really tried, and you're making your kids miserable, work on making an amicable seperation from their father. Don't fling yourself directly into Mike's arms after this happens. Go, work on yourself, get your kids straightened out (because leaving their father will mess with their heads a bit) and then when everything settles, talk to Mike.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Keep in mind, he may not want you still.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2717765466363119760?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2717765466363119760/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-persue-past-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2717765466363119760'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2717765466363119760'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-persue-past-love.html' title='Should I persue a past love?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4721602472189389427</id><published>2009-12-03T04:03:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:03:18.413-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Bunches on banging and clunking sounds.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Something about a dead raccoon that's all bloaded?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A nearly emprty fridge holding a jar of testicles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I saw a cobra spit poison in you eye.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This samurai fell on his own sword and died i think.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Little kids creeping me out with their laughter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cutting attention holes in my forearm.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; NOTICE ME! NOTICE ME! NOTICE ME!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; READ THIS! READ THIS! READ THIS!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; DIE! DIE! DIE!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Like big explosions and fire and stuff.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Another whole day of stuff i hate now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Santan and Jewsus lie about the moonron.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I invested my life savings into ENRON-Jeremy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I wish my penis was bigger and my dad didnt punch me in the face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i wish my make up was cleaner and i wouldnt always suck and get aids.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Do you have any good recipes for chopped baby liver?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My myspace is down and i have a gun to my head.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; E-mail me the link to happiness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My email address is I_HATE_YOUR_FACE@YAHOO.COM&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i rate the poem a big 10.i really love the poem.and when i say love i mean love it.but i can't help u with ms.but i will tell u don't kill your self ,because if u do u will go straight to hell.its in the bible.maybe u should try going to church and try talking to god,and praying.also if ur old enough try getting out on your own.also try going to a counselor&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;5/10&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;1 out of 10. You suck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;rewrite the whole thing it stinks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There's an angel over your shoulder wantin to help you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;8&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4721602472189389427?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4721602472189389427/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/rate-this-poem-from-one-to-ten-and.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4721602472189389427'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4721602472189389427'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/rate-this-poem-from-one-to-ten-and.html' title='Rate this poem from one to ten and discuss and help cure MS?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7648715184013587731</id><published>2009-12-03T04:03:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:03:02.318-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I denied my teachers friend request?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My algerbra teacher Mr. Mills has a myspace and he sent me a friend request. he has like pics of hiself kinda naked on there. So i denied it. and yesterday he was like all offended(he wasnt tht offended he was like playin around)cuz i denied it. he was like howcome u dont wanna b my friend? and i was like what u talking about? i didnt get a friend request from u( i was lyin). So now he resent it. i didnt deny or accept it yet. Im not sure what do. Alot of kids 4rm my school r on his friends list.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If this is true, you need to report that page to a school administrator. Put the web address in a note and leave it at the front desk of the school for them to see it. He is a pedophile.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Add him. I have my choir teacher on my myspace. I dont even talk to him but hes there.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;report him to the priciaples office or tell your parents this is very serious.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;deny it and report him to your school's principle.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This teacher is way out of line. do not be on his friend list. tell the principal before more students/friends are set up to potentially be hurt by this man.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He's kinda naked on there? Omg, what a pervert. Well accept it anyways and don't look at it. You don't want him giving you a bad grade because of this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would just let it sit in your request box, and ignore it. I am sure your parents would have a problem with the pics and its better to be safe than sorry, he is your teacher.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Report him....since it seems he is pressuring you....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Um that is noooooo good. If I were you I'd send an anonymous email or note to the school board or principal with a link to the teacher's myspace. No one has to know it was you, but he should not have profiles like that if he is a teacher.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What he is doing is wrong, keep denying him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;deny it.. and go tell the principle and ur parents rite now..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; u may not think this is a big deal%26gt; but it is.. if he asks u about it dont say anything, and mention to your princple that other kids hav accepted his invitation for myspace friendship&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Report him he's at work his job is not personal or to find a date.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;umm kinda creepy. if his pics on there are like that, I wouldn't add him. If it was a decent myspace that he had set up fully clothed and respectable I would. There is a fine line and he might be some kind of perv. If I were you I would deny it and say your parents have to approve your friends and they said he was to old or they didn't like the content. You come off as being a good kid, and he doesn't get offended by you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;keep saying the same thing and if that do not work say u do not have a computer anymore&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I denied my teachers friend request?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't accept it.If he keeps requesting you to add him then i think dat will be d point wher you'll have to let ur parents in on it.Don't accept it cos others are accepting that's part of wat makes you a unique be.So if you don't want to join don't and stand by ur word.Gudluck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7648715184013587731?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7648715184013587731/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-denied-my-teachers-friend-request.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7648715184013587731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7648715184013587731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-denied-my-teachers-friend-request.html' title='I denied my teachers friend request?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1648863470704917159</id><published>2009-12-03T04:02:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:02:46.497-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I feel a separation between my great love?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I call this... the case of the desperate house (military) wife!!! I have been married for some time now, fourteen wonderful years to be exact. The lady of my life has been great to me. God send! She is excellent with our kids too. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But lately it seems as if she created a well in between us. I found her chatting late a night with others those website (BP, myspace). She sees me, after clicking several times. She閳ユ獟l call me over for to show me that she is not doing anything wrong. I know me wife, way too much, to know that is not the case. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For the ladies out there who are going to jump on my case閳?I am in the military it put me and this job takes me away from home. She has been very supportive the whole time. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She knows how I feel about those types of web sites. I feel that the ideal mind is the devils work shop! Should I look the other way and do the same to get her attention?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I feel a separation between my great love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if you and ur wife are close....she wouldnt be going to websites such as that. think back what has happened between you two that is different. what changed....? when you are away....do you act like you miss her voice, her face, her warmth? good luck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I feel a separation between my great love?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;spontaniously ask her how you can love her better, and take heed ta her response. its important that your serious when you ask her. Look into her eyes to show her that you really want to know. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; God bless and good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1648863470704917159?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1648863470704917159/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-feel-separation-between-my-great-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1648863470704917159'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1648863470704917159'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-feel-separation-between-my-great-love.html' title='I feel a separation between my great love?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4618869605109518972</id><published>2009-12-03T04:02:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:02:30.892-08:00</updated><title type='text'>My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;k, so i the guy i've had a crush on like for ever! asked me out the 18th :) EVERYONE found out. ppl i didnt even knoe existed came up to me. we were like the most popular kids on that day ! 閳?lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; a couple of days later he said I LOVE YOU!! and he's like so sweet! one day i couldnt get i hug cause i left early, %26amp; we were talking on myspace. i sent him a message and he said "i'll give u two hugs tomorrow and maybe even a kiss" so i replied "i'd like that :)" then the next day, i had to leave early again !! :( &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and today we were talking on myspace [again!! lol] and he put "we couldnt kiss today :( [OH BTW, WERE GOING TO THE MOVIES TOMORROW!閳绢櫍 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so he said "i'll give u a kiss tomorrow, and this time for real :) do u want a make out kiss or a normal kiss?" i put watever u want :)" and he put "then i'll give you two kisses 閳?quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; we're going to the movies with a lot of frieds, and some i dont even knoe. im nervous!!!!!! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; PLEASE HELP!?!??! any tips?? or personal stories?thanks :]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;good luck first kiss in public in front of a lot of friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; tell him how you feel tell him this is your first kiss&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just go with the flow &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That is verrrry cute.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just go with it. You'll know what to do when it happens. It really isn't that difficult, just nerve-racking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He'll probably take the lead anywho! Just have fun with it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i know this probably isn't the answer you were looking for, but trust me.. it'll just come to you. and you're gonna be so surprised at how easy it is!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; just make sure not to eat anything like hot dogs or nachos during the movie. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; lol, i can tell you're excited!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; have a good time :-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay so, I'll give you my first kiss story mk?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Okay so... me and my boyfriend were at his friend's house in his room... they were talking sports and I was just laughing at them with his friend's girlfriend... Then all of a sudden it gets REALLY quiet in the room and his friend says that him and his girlfriend are gonna run to her house really quick because for some reason they wanted to listen to N*SYNC which i thot was pretty amusing and hilarious... so they left and it was just me and my boo... SOOOOOOOOOOOOO.... we talked for about half an hour... cuddled for 15 min then it just happened.... he just up and kissed me... the feeling was so..... whats the word..... EXTATIC and WOW.... you CANT stop smiling and you just shake with excitement because you just knkow that you did it... At first you dont think its real but man.... once he looks at you and smiles.... man.... yeah its real... it may not be the BEST kiss in the world but its only because you are new at it so yeah.... There you go hope I helped!! ^_^&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4618869605109518972?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4618869605109518972/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/my-first-kiss-help_03.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4618869605109518972'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4618869605109518972'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/my-first-kiss-help_03.html' title='My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7841130502832271733</id><published>2009-12-03T04:02:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:02:14.622-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A girl is obsessed with my son.?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;There is this 15yr old girl who is obsessed with my 15yr old son. My kids are not allowed to date just yet. This girl is very manipulative not only towards my son but also with every friend she's had. She wants them to do only what she says no matter what. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She has been disrespectful to me and to others. She seems like she has emotional problems. She makes comments and indirects towards my son via myspace and telling others at school. My son's other friends have noticed and have said something to me about it because the girl is making everyone uncomfortable. They don't want my son to be in any problem. Yet my son seems not to "see" how uncomfortable this situation is. How do I get through to him? I don't want him to be mean or anything just to back away from her a bit. I can see this escalating to a worse problem because of her behavior. I have spoken to my son several times but don't see to be getting through. Any suggestions?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your son is most likely enjoying all the attention from this girl. This is only natural at his age. What he see's is a girl who devotes her time to his ego. At age 15, this is probably his first experience with a girl going after him (reverse role) so he can't see the obsession she has for him. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It may seem inappropriate but the more you object to this girl the more attractive she will seem to him. Unless she is a danger to your son i.e., stalking him or making threatning calls it's best to let it just burn out. You stated that he is not allowed to date so stick to that decision and let him know that there will be all kinds of girls in this world that will like him. It is up to him to find one that has respect for him and his family and friends. As far as her being disrespectful to you, just tell her "that when in your presence or in your home you expect her to respect you as an adult and will not tolerate that kind of behavior". Be polite and nice to her, this will give her no ammo to tell your son how "lame" you are. Also let him know that if she is violating your family's privacy via the internet that YOU WILL put a stop to that by calling her parents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck, getting through these adolescent years. Trust me, you and your son will survive all this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just talk to him, and say ignore the girl for a while&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your son will have a feeling about this by himself...just wait..trust me he will!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Let them work it out themselves..You were a kid before and im sure you hated when your parents got involved..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Some kids have to learn for themselves....i know you want to protect him, i have 2 boys, but since he is 15 and it isn't like he is going to run off and marry her, i would say let him figure it out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Welcome to the world of teenagers - I have two of them - both boys. :(&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just keep talking to him and when you notice something 'off', talk to him SPECIFICALLY about that issue and why the behavior isn't normal.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; There are a lot of teenage girls that are manipulative and want their way though, so don't expect her to be the last.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;WOW....that sucks...umm i would go to her parents. Your son is probably just glad to get the attention or just too scared to ruin his reputation of being cool by telling her to back off. i would just find a way to get to her parents and get her under control. girls like that will ALWAYS be like that. its just who they are...believe me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that is nuking futs, i would call her parents and explain whats going and try at all costs to get her away from your son from her, try to tell him he will be grounded if you find out they have been together and then i would call the school and ask them to get her some help and tell them to keep it private, also have a talk with your son about her unhealthy behavior&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Its very hard to change a guys mind, they wanna do what they wanna do! %26amp; they want what they want, i suggest you just let him do what he wants, %26amp; he'll learn the hard way...sometimes the more your on your kids the worse..sometimes you need to just let them live %26amp; learn..then he'll realize you were right %26amp; listen to you from now on..(i sure do) I would tell him "Why go through all this drama for one girl? when there are tons of girls out there that wont put you through this."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't think there is anything you can do that you haven't already done. You have to let him learn for himself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just give it time..kids go through all kinds of phases and stages..your son will eventually see how she is and steer clear of her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just try to explain to ur son that thr r other grls out thr and that someone like that can never appreciate him or n e one else. Say that you give give her n e thing and everything and she still would not b pleased. But do not tell him to never speak to her and advoid her cuz that could make him rebel but just let him know that thr r ppl out thr that do apprecite ppl and care.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well for one maybe you should talk to the girl and tell her that your son is not allowed to date yet and maybe ask your son why he dont get the problem and talk to him and try to get him to understand but if they wont to be together then you could let them give it a shot because keeping them apart may make him want to leaave home and may make him start to hate you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wow it sounds like you have a teenager problem. Its a crush let them live learn and move on.. if you continue to shelter your children I promise they will rebel. Instead of telling him over and over about the problem let him forget about it or handle it on his own you may just be making it worse. Kids are Kids. Let them do it their own way cause when he gets in the real world mommy and daddy wont be there the help.. hes practically a grown boy at 15. Let him be a man. Maybe he doesnt see the situation as uncomfortable because your his mother and its not that much of a big deal. He obviously knows the girl better than you do. Let him handle it. Maybe he likes the attention.. maybe it gives him an ego boost. Just ket him be and make his own decision and the problem with eventually just dissappear;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;slap that ho&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If the girl calls, tell her your son is not home, and hang up. If she comes to the door, answer it and close it right away. Tell your son, he has to stay away from her or privileges will be taken away from him. Even though he is 15, he is still a kid, and you are still the parent. Make it hard for her to see him. She'll eventually get the hint. As for son again. He'll be turning 16 soon, which means driving will be around the corner. If he wants to learn how to drive and gwet his license soon, he must stay away from her, or you make him wait until you are ready. Tough love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The only thing you really can do is to stick to your guns concerning the rules that you have for him and be there for him if/when he needs it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'd keep talking to him--not preaching--talking. Seems like they tune you out when you start preaching. Then I'd find someone that he's close to an uncle, pastor, best friend to talk to him on his level and can relate to him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This seems like your son also like her. To let him aware that in what way is he going take help of his good friends to make him aware. But the most important role is yours. First make yourself clear and straight. If he is not listening you then he must have a feeling that you are wrong or might he have seen something same in you as in the girl. Since at age of 15 he is quite not able to understand correctly the feelings and the emotional problems. He must have his personal intentions with that girl. Make yourself calm and do not ever make your son angry. She must have leading him. To make him back to you, you must have to become very close to your son. Do not tell him that the girl is wrong instead use other's examples to make him aware. If you say that the girl is wrong he would never believe you. Do not say anything in front of that girl and also do not ever argue with that girl wether she is right or wrong. You can have control only on your son not on that girl. So go and try and for any future conditions contact me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ok how about talking to the school since she does this stuff there or better yet what about her parents did you talk to them or maybe just telling your son he cant hang out with her anymore&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;A girl is obsessed with my son.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you may want to consider contacting the girls parents. i would just let them know that he is not allowed to date and you would prefer it if they would speak to her about her interactions with him...that it makes him uncomfortable because he is not allowed to date and it makes him feel bad (even if it's not entirely true)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7841130502832271733?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7841130502832271733/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/girl-is-obsessed-with-my-son.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7841130502832271733'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7841130502832271733'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/girl-is-obsessed-with-my-son.html' title='A girl is obsessed with my son.?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-8442623243932785995</id><published>2009-12-03T04:01:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:01:58.479-08:00</updated><title type='text'>My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;k, so i the guy i've had a crush on like for ever! asked me out the 18th :) EVERYONE found out. ppl i didnt even knoe existed came up to me. we were like the most popular kids on that day ! 閳?lol&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; a couple of days later he said I LOVE YOU!! and he's like so sweet! one day i couldnt get i hug cause i left early, %26amp; we were talking on myspace. i sent him a message and he said "i'll give u two hugs tomorrow and maybe even a kiss" so i replied "i'd like that :)" then the next day, i had to leave early again !! :( &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and today we were talking on myspace [again!! lol] and he put "we couldnt kiss today :( [OH BTW, WERE GOING TO THE MOVIES TOMORROW!閳绢櫍 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so he said "i'll give u a kiss tomorrow, and this time for real :) do u want a make out kiss or a normal kiss?" i put watever u want :)" and he put "then i'll give you two kisses 閳?quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; we're going to the movies with a lot of frieds, and some i dont even knoe. im nervous!!!!!! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; PLEASE HELP!?!??! any tips?? or personal stories?thanks :]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;good luck first kiss in public in front of a lot of friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; tell him how you feel tell him this is your first kiss&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just go with the flow &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That is verrrry cute.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just go with it. You'll know what to do when it happens. It really isn't that difficult, just nerve-racking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He'll probably take the lead anywho! Just have fun with it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i know this probably isn't the answer you were looking for, but trust me.. it'll just come to you. and you're gonna be so surprised at how easy it is!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; just make sure not to eat anything like hot dogs or nachos during the movie. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; lol, i can tell you're excited!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; have a good time :-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Okay so, I'll give you my first kiss story mk?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Okay so... me and my boyfriend were at his friend's house in his room... they were talking sports and I was just laughing at them with his friend's girlfriend... Then all of a sudden it gets REALLY quiet in the room and his friend says that him and his girlfriend are gonna run to her house really quick because for some reason they wanted to listen to N*SYNC which i thot was pretty amusing and hilarious... so they left and it was just me and my boo... SOOOOOOOOOOOOO.... we talked for about half an hour... cuddled for 15 min then it just happened.... he just up and kissed me... the feeling was so..... whats the word..... EXTATIC and WOW.... you CANT stop smiling and you just shake with excitement because you just knkow that you did it... At first you dont think its real but man.... once he looks at you and smiles.... man.... yeah its real... it may not be the BEST kiss in the world but its only because you are new at it so yeah.... There you go hope I helped!! ^_^&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-8442623243932785995?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/8442623243932785995/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/my-first-kiss-help.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8442623243932785995'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8442623243932785995'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/my-first-kiss-help.html' title='My first kiss!!!!! [help!]?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2782858223732881272</id><published>2009-12-03T04:01:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:01:42.702-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My family is a very strict Christian family. There are five of us kids and we all came out great, knowing what is wrong and what is right. Except for one of my sisters.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When she was 19, she got pregnant out of wedlock. It completely tore my parents apart and she had a shotgun wedding with she was 5 months pregnant--married an absolute moron.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When she was pregnant with her second child, her husband left her for a little high school girl. Later, they divorced.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now, my sister who is not even 24 yet, is pregnant again (and it's not her ex-husband's baby). I found all this out from her ex-husband's little high school girlfriend, who has a Myspace. I read all her comments to her friends. That was how I found out my sister is pregnant. She's 20 weeks pregnant and she has not told ANY of us! We didn't even know she had a boyfriend! (She lives about an hour away from all of us).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; WHAT CAN I DO?!?! HELP! Any advice? Has your family gone through this?? Thanks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Leave your sister alone. She has made her choices and must live with the consequences. She is not in regular touch with her family, so it really is no business of yours.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your sister is 24 years old, that makes her an adult and entitled to live her life as she sees fit. If the children are happy and healthy there is no problem except the judgmental family she left behind. (Judge ye not lest ye be juged)...So much for the "good" Christian family&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No one is perfect and if your family can be open minded let her come around and tell you all when she is ready. Be supportive and pray for her................&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;let her learn by her mistakes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I hate to be harsh, but it really isn't your business. She is an adult and can do what she wants. Maybe she isn't telling your family because she doesn't want to hurt them, or she got such a hard time about it before. If you want a good relationship with her you just need to support her when she does tell you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Maybe she's afraid that, since yall are a really strict family, you wouldn't support her or be happy for her, so she decided to leave ya'll out of it. Families are suppose to support each other regardless, and if she didn't feel like she could talk to you, then maybe that's why she kept this one to herself&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Please try not to take this the wrong way.. but buy her a few cases of condoms...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My best advice is to stand behind your sister no matter what! You may not agree with her lifestyle or the choices that she has made, but you really can't do anything to change her! You can tell her that you don't agree with or don't understand her choices, but if you turn your back on her, you'll not only miss your sister, you'll miss out on your nieces %26amp;/or nephews too. I have 9 brothers and sisters and we are not all carbon copies of each other. Some of us have made choices that the others don't understand, but we all NEED to live our lives the best way we know how, regardless of what anyone else thinks. She's probably afraid to talk to anyone about her situation, and may need a good friend or SISTER right now! You should go to her with an open mind and DON'T be judgmental! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I say an extra prayer for you, and your family tonight. (Including your sister and her children!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; God Bless!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you sound like my family when i told them i was pregnant for the 3rd time , and yes it was out of wedlock. My mother actually had the audacity to tell me i needed to abort my own child! Mind you I was 36 years old at the time. Yes it was not the BEST thing that could have happened but now i am married to a wonderful man and have a wonderful lil girl. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You need to let her live through her onw mistakes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You sister sounds alot like me-- the one who could never do right.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So what if she is not perfect ? Let her live her own life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ** i might add my sister has not spoken to me since January of 05 . Do you want to end up like that?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your sister is old enough to know what she's doing. Communication is important. The reason why not anyone of you knows of her present pregnancy is that she's scared of rejection and anger from the family. You need to understand why she is being like that. Maybe the attention she is getting is far more that what she gets at home. You shouldn't degrade her. She needs your morally sisterly advise now more than anytime else (even if she gets through your nerves). She needs to be understood. Anyways, I suggest she learn to use protection like oral contraceptive pills or injectables so she will not fail again. Every child is a gift. Good thing she does not think of taking it away. I know she fears God and you know that too deep inside.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What can you do? Leave her alone. Let her live "HER" life the way she wants. Because right now you are "NOT" showing her any encouragment or support. You and your family being very "Christian" should be supporting her and loving her no matter the choices she makes. They maybe wrong to you, but obviously she thinks shes making the right decision because she "CAN".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She obviously didnt tell you all because she knew how you would react. YOU CANT CONTROLL HER LIFE.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So stop picking and prying your nose in "HER" business. Love her for who she is or leave her alone!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if your sister wanted you to know shed tell you stop spying on her threw myspace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; grow up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You just need to let her live her life. It's not over she's still alive and that's great!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just support her. She'll need your support more then anything. Getting pregnant is not unusual and I'm sure she's just living her life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Best of Luck to you and your family!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's made her own bed. Now she has to lay in it. There's really nothing you can do besides be there for her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your sister is an adult (at least in the legal sense) and she probably thinks you will judge her. Not everyone has the same views as you do. Maybe she believes something different. Don't judge her, and maybe she will trust you enough to let you in on her life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't trust everything you read on myspace....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I may not be a christian, but i too come from a traditional family. So, I'm trying to understand your problem. But you said your sister married a moron who got together with a high-school girl. So, how do you believe in something that was in her myspace. Maybe that person seduced her and morons use the most popular line "my wife is cheating on me and is pregnant with some other guy's child" to seduce other girls. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I think this is the case here. Though your sister made a mistake before, She may have been reformed. Give her a chance. Get more friendly with her. Pretend you do not know about her condition. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She may come forward with her version and you can decide for yourself what to do next. Where to go for help. Or if she really hasn't changed at all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck. Hope everything goes well for your family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your sister is an adult, let her handle her own business. yes, i have gone through it all. i got pregnant out of wedlock and married the father. they are both the best things that could have ever happened to me. if i were your sister, i wouldn't tell any of you either. all you do is judge her. people make mistakes. i'm sure that no one in your family is innocent either. true Christians don't judge.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2782858223732881272?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2782858223732881272/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-advice-my-sister-is-pregnant-out_03.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2782858223732881272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2782858223732881272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-advice-my-sister-is-pregnant-out_03.html' title='I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2261359956909384924</id><published>2009-12-03T04:01:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:01:26.499-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What would you think?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;The guy that I am seeing has a crazy ex wife. Causing ALOT of problems. Leaving rude messages on the myspace account... and txt'n him that she loves him and misses him. The last comment she left him was "I'm sorry I just can't do this anymore". Now I wasn't worried before but that comment pisses me off. He had dinner with the kids tonight...so far 4 hours long. Said he would be unavailable for a bit cuz of dinner. 4 hours????&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; now I have an ex and have no problem txt him when he is around. Last conversation he had....he asked her why she wanted him back and why she was causing problems. She said that because she realized that it was her and not him at all. He stated that if there was a crystal ball that said that none of that **** would happen again then maybe....but there is no crystal ball.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Am I over reacting? Crazy?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Please only serious responses.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What would you think?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;"He stated that if there was a crystal ball that said that none of that **** would happen again then maybe...."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; No, I don楹搕 think you楹搑e over reacting...He meant something and he may not need a crystal ball....He shouldn楹搕 had told that...there are some other ways..What I understand is, he still loves her but needs to be sure she will behave this time...Maybe I楹搈 wrong and I really expect so...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2261359956909384924?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2261359956909384924/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-would-you-think.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2261359956909384924'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2261359956909384924'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-would-you-think.html' title='What would you think?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2340469654093161104</id><published>2009-12-03T04:01:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:01:10.403-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My family is a very strict Christian family. There are five of us kids and we all came out great, knowing what is wrong and what is right. Except for one of my sisters.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When she was 19, she got pregnant out of wedlock. It completely tore my parents apart and she had a shotgun wedding with she was 5 months pregnant--married an absolute moron.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; When she was pregnant with her second child, her husband left her for a little high school girl. Later, they divorced.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now, my sister who is not even 24 yet, is pregnant again (and it's not her ex-husband's baby). I found all this out from her ex-husband's little high school girlfriend, who has a Myspace. I read all her comments to her friends. That was how I found out my sister is pregnant. She's 20 weeks pregnant and she has not told ANY of us! We didn't even know she had a boyfriend! (She lives about an hour away from all of us).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; WHAT CAN I DO?!?! HELP! Any advice? Has your family gone through this?? Thanks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Leave your sister alone. She has made her choices and must live with the consequences. She is not in regular touch with her family, so it really is no business of yours.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your sister is 24 years old, that makes her an adult and entitled to live her life as she sees fit. If the children are happy and healthy there is no problem except the judgmental family she left behind. (Judge ye not lest ye be juged)...So much for the "good" Christian family&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No one is perfect and if your family can be open minded let her come around and tell you all when she is ready. Be supportive and pray for her................&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;let her learn by her mistakes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I hate to be harsh, but it really isn't your business. She is an adult and can do what she wants. Maybe she isn't telling your family because she doesn't want to hurt them, or she got such a hard time about it before. If you want a good relationship with her you just need to support her when she does tell you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Maybe she's afraid that, since yall are a really strict family, you wouldn't support her or be happy for her, so she decided to leave ya'll out of it. Families are suppose to support each other regardless, and if she didn't feel like she could talk to you, then maybe that's why she kept this one to herself&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Please try not to take this the wrong way.. but buy her a few cases of condoms...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My best advice is to stand behind your sister no matter what! You may not agree with her lifestyle or the choices that she has made, but you really can't do anything to change her! You can tell her that you don't agree with or don't understand her choices, but if you turn your back on her, you'll not only miss your sister, you'll miss out on your nieces %26amp;/or nephews too. I have 9 brothers and sisters and we are not all carbon copies of each other. Some of us have made choices that the others don't understand, but we all NEED to live our lives the best way we know how, regardless of what anyone else thinks. She's probably afraid to talk to anyone about her situation, and may need a good friend or SISTER right now! You should go to her with an open mind and DON'T be judgmental! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I say an extra prayer for you, and your family tonight. (Including your sister and her children!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; God Bless!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you sound like my family when i told them i was pregnant for the 3rd time , and yes it was out of wedlock. My mother actually had the audacity to tell me i needed to abort my own child! Mind you I was 36 years old at the time. Yes it was not the BEST thing that could have happened but now i am married to a wonderful man and have a wonderful lil girl. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You need to let her live through her onw mistakes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You sister sounds alot like me-- the one who could never do right.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So what if she is not perfect ? Let her live her own life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ** i might add my sister has not spoken to me since January of 05 . Do you want to end up like that?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your sister is old enough to know what she's doing. Communication is important. The reason why not anyone of you knows of her present pregnancy is that she's scared of rejection and anger from the family. You need to understand why she is being like that. Maybe the attention she is getting is far more that what she gets at home. You shouldn't degrade her. She needs your morally sisterly advise now more than anytime else (even if she gets through your nerves). She needs to be understood. Anyways, I suggest she learn to use protection like oral contraceptive pills or injectables so she will not fail again. Every child is a gift. Good thing she does not think of taking it away. I know she fears God and you know that too deep inside.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What can you do? Leave her alone. Let her live "HER" life the way she wants. Because right now you are "NOT" showing her any encouragment or support. You and your family being very "Christian" should be supporting her and loving her no matter the choices she makes. They maybe wrong to you, but obviously she thinks shes making the right decision because she "CAN".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She obviously didnt tell you all because she knew how you would react. YOU CANT CONTROLL HER LIFE.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So stop picking and prying your nose in "HER" business. Love her for who she is or leave her alone!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if your sister wanted you to know shed tell you stop spying on her threw myspace&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; grow up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You just need to let her live her life. It's not over she's still alive and that's great!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just support her. She'll need your support more then anything. Getting pregnant is not unusual and I'm sure she's just living her life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Best of Luck to you and your family!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's made her own bed. Now she has to lay in it. There's really nothing you can do besides be there for her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your sister is an adult (at least in the legal sense) and she probably thinks you will judge her. Not everyone has the same views as you do. Maybe she believes something different. Don't judge her, and maybe she will trust you enough to let you in on her life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't trust everything you read on myspace....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I may not be a christian, but i too come from a traditional family. So, I'm trying to understand your problem. But you said your sister married a moron who got together with a high-school girl. So, how do you believe in something that was in her myspace. Maybe that person seduced her and morons use the most popular line "my wife is cheating on me and is pregnant with some other guy's child" to seduce other girls. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I think this is the case here. Though your sister made a mistake before, She may have been reformed. Give her a chance. Get more friendly with her. Pretend you do not know about her condition. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She may come forward with her version and you can decide for yourself what to do next. Where to go for help. Or if she really hasn't changed at all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck. Hope everything goes well for your family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;your sister is an adult, let her handle her own business. yes, i have gone through it all. i got pregnant out of wedlock and married the father. they are both the best things that could have ever happened to me. if i were your sister, i wouldn't tell any of you either. all you do is judge her. people make mistakes. i'm sure that no one in your family is innocent either. true Christians don't judge.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2340469654093161104?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2340469654093161104/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-advice-my-sister-is-pregnant-out.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2340469654093161104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2340469654093161104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-advice-my-sister-is-pregnant-out.html' title='I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-8257466036735943243</id><published>2009-12-03T04:00:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:00:54.514-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Can christians be gay?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I had this guy on myspace hitting on me last night (knowing that I am a married man with child)....he told me he had kids too and that it didn't matter...he also said that he was Christian and that the Christian belief system has changed so much over time that it now allows gays to be a part of the belief. So, can Christians be gay in today's world?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes. I am Christian but straight. I have gay Christian friends at church. I don't judge them. You won't go to hell just because you are gay. I'd be interested to know what "bible" Wanda reads! Not mine, I know. (King James, NAS, etc...)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And, either the poster that gave me athumbs down is an atheist or needs to read the bible more often! MATT 1:7.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;what do you think?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;They can if they want to...If a Pig wants to fly, but can't sprout wings, there's always Jet Blue&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ted Haggard&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;sure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I know quite a few Christians who are gay.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sure, gays can be Christian, but cheating is still cheating. No matter what your sexuality, you shouldn't cheat on your significant other.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, it wouldn't be a good idea.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sure!... Just ask Ted Haggard! Oh, wait... he was cured of "the gay". Never mind.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes, but homosexuality is a sin.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My Holy Bible says NO..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Homosexuality is an abomination. God will never smile on it. It's a perversion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;the rules don't change...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What? Um, Christ talked more about being selfish than being gay! He didn't mention "gay" (Paul did).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Why is that such a "different" sin that "cheating on your wife"?Would you have a problem if he struggled with alcoholism? Why is "gay" such a huge thing?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The guy was wrong, You can't be gay. just look at the Adam and Eve story. male and female.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;In today's world, yes. But it is immoral and blatantly goes against the Bible. It is still a sin.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;id say no, being gay myself, i dont fall into the trap of "religion" ...but isnt it funny, there are gay chuches with gay preachers, or hell, regular chruch with the closet homo&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Some faiths object to homosexual acts but 'love the sinner' - others are tolerant of personal choices like sexuality. But the short answer is - yes - people can be gay and Christian. This person may also be in denial about his sexuality publicly but feels more free to explore alternate lifestyles online.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Not a practicing gay...not an adulterer or pervert or a liar or wicked person&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No. The only Church that I'm familiar with that allows homosexuality is the Episcopalian church.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; God bless!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cannot practice homosexuality, he may have been told that it is not wrong to be gay, but hitting on anyone that you are not married to in a heterosexual relationship is wrong. This is a sad situation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; God's Word is not subject to election or opinion polls much as we Americans would like it to be.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i highly doubt that, he would know what God says about being gay and would know that it is something that you are not born with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;A REAL Christian would not do that. And yeah their belief system has changed so much...but because THEY change it to what they want it to be. Because the Bible is still the same, and the Bible, God, doesn't allow that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;last time I checked the bible had not changed, and it says no.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; according to the bible being gay is a sin, but so are a bunch of other things that people do, and they're Christians. last time I read Jesus sorta catered to siners, huh&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; now, hitting on you when you tell him you're married has nothing to do with Christianity, but says a lot about him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Anyone can be anything anymore. It's not up to anyone to judge anyone else. If he's gay, it's his soul that he must defend with God. We have to understand and forgive and NOT JUDGE. Homosexuality *is* one of the heavier sins, but when it all comes down to it, only they are responsible for their actions. No one else is. We all are the only ones to be held accountable in the end. So sure...he can be gay, he can be the biggest perv in society, a serial killer, a child molestor or anything else because only he has to face God over it. But if he's telling you that it's an acceptible practice within the church, he's lying. There are those Christians who will rip apart a gay person and try to get him to repent to save his soul before its too late...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Every Christian needs to fight the temptation to sin. Being a christian means that you imitate christ to the fullest extent. Jesus christ always did what was pleasing to God, even when it was difficult. So leaving your family, your wife who vowed to be with til death do you part, would not exactly be following in christs footsteps. Also, if this man is encouraging you to leave your family, gay or not, that isn't someone you would want to spend a lot of time with. Also,1 Cor. 6:9, 10 clearly states that homosexuality is a sin, so those practicing that or any other sin will not inherit God's Kingdom. Many who claim to be christian, aren't. You need to examine the bible to tell the difference. But definitely try and make it work with your family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes, of course Christians can be gay. Sexual orientation has nothing to do with a person's spirituality or choice of religious beliefs. However, hitting on another person behind your partner's back is not acceptable behavior for any person. This fellow needs to re-think his attitudes...he has no respect for other people or for himself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The answer is NO! The Holy Spirit is the One who takes up residense inside the born again believer delivering them from all things impure and giving them the very nature of God. Homosexuals are those who have given themselves over to defiled evil spirit which have taken over not only their mind but their body as well. Unless they come to Christ and be filled with the holy Spirit of God they will be ushered to the same place prepared for Satan and these demons of homosexuality. God does not sanction for his temple to be defiled by demons and this is why a person cannot be a christian and be gay..Either you are a Child of the lving God or you are a child of the devil and there is no inbetween. Each day that passes, you are becoming more and more like your spiritual father and his nature will be fully developrd in you wether godly or evil.. This is why judgement will come for those who have not surrendered their lives to Christ. Their nature being inpure and defiled cannnot enter the place where God dwells and this is why Christ came and died. For you and me. To make us a people pure and holy and by the Blood of the Lamb, tomake us sons and daughters of the living God as He is preparing a home for those who love him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No. Some used to be gay, but when Jesus washed their sins away, they aren't gay any more. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You can do a net search to read some ex gay testimonies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It is impossible for those born of God to abide in sin, (make sin a comfortable habit) because of the Holy Seed within. A Christian can try, but Christian is miserable. Any kind of adulteries %26amp; fornications %26amp; idolatries are sin. So, the Holy Spirit convicts of the sin in early stages bringing one to confess their sin %26amp; He (Jesus) is faithful %26amp; just to forgive us our sin %26amp; cleanse us from it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can christians be gay?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Christians can be afflicted with this disorder the same as anyone else. And like anyone else they are required to refrain from immoral acts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-8257466036735943243?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/8257466036735943243/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/can-christians-be-gay.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8257466036735943243'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8257466036735943243'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/can-christians-be-gay.html' title='Can christians be gay?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2689027336092795370</id><published>2009-12-03T04:00:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:00:38.620-08:00</updated><title type='text'>2 people who were old friends have teamed together to talk about me!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I am a 26 year old married woman with 2 kids. I cut out 2 people from my life a while back because they are immature and childish. One is 32 and lives her life vicariously through her 14 year old daughter. The other is not a friend to me any longer because she bit my son on the arm. Yes you read that right. My son bit hers so she took it upon herself to bite my son on the arm to punish him...at my baby shower of all places. Well, the two of them have never met. They live in different states too. But one of them is very vidictive and knows I dislike the other one so she befriended her on Myspace, now they are butt buddies. And I'm sure talking about me like crazy! I dont know why, but they just cant get over the fact thart I choose not to be their friend anymore. I also know that they are only doing it to get under my skin! It's working! However they dont know that I'm aware of this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;2 people who were old friends have teamed together to talk about me!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would have bit her, that is craziness. The best thing to do is to ignore it as much as you what to go on myspace and post a bunch of crap about the two of them it wont help things it my be a good stress relive thow I still cant belive she bit him like what was she thinking get some more and smarter friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;2 people who were old friends have teamed together to talk about me!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just ignore it.(She bit your son?!!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2689027336092795370?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2689027336092795370/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/2-people-who-were-old-friends-have.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2689027336092795370'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2689027336092795370'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/2-people-who-were-old-friends-have.html' title='2 people who were old friends have teamed together to talk about me!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4447743345992357977</id><published>2009-12-03T04:00:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:00:22.573-08:00</updated><title type='text'>She's skinny &amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I had a friends with benefits who i slept with 3 times.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It was really great each time %26amp; she was great in sack.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But she was overweight %26amp; maybe a size 12.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I gave her a few months cause she said she was getting back in shape. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But finally I saw that she hadnt lost weight and it was making her look dumpy and older than her age (she's 30, Im only 29)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She still pathetically wanted to hang out as friends and&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I felt awkward being seen with her in public so I was a jerk and told her I had just met someone. Total lie because I was logged into match.com and she knew it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; ANyway its been few months and I forgot all about her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Well she has transformed herself into this 110lb vixen. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She is in incredible shape and looks years younger.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So sexy and classy now (sorry its hard to look elegnt wiht fat rolls, and i appreciate refined girls)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have tried to ask her out twice now since i saw her new myspace bikini pics.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The first time she said she would love to , but was busy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The second time she finally blurted out why did I wait 3 months to ask her out again ? Was it because now she is a skinny mini ?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; She said she'll keep in great shape now as long as possible but someday after kids and aging she won't be so picture perfect.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I replied that I love her heart, mind and body. She said Im a nice guy but a bit too shallow&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; IS THERE ANY WAY TO WIN HER BACK STILL ?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You just want to get back in her skirt. Shame on you. When you talk to her try not to look at her breast or butt. Its gives you way&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's right... too shallow. Maybe her inside matches her outside and you are just "not her type" now....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;She's right. You are shallow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I hope not cause she was right you are too shallow....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you really loved her, you would have loved her as a size 12. You ARE shallow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;hopefully not...becasue if she gains any weight back, you'll cheat or just flat out leave her&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; you need to find someone with a tiny frame that has a fast metabolism and will never gain too much weight&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; sorry...it's just the way you were mentally made&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i think u r way 2 shallow. sorry but she deserves better than u&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if she has any brains in her head you wont&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Let her know that you're worried the timing reflects poorly on you. Ask her if you can just show her you want to take her seriously? ;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You can do it brotha! As long as you didn't admit to being shallow :-?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;dude, i serously think you screwed this one up from the beginning. I wouldn't date you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;one day she might turn around and tell you your too fat and ugly for her. how will you feel!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yeah you are shallow as hell!!! i wouldn't take your sorry *** back either!!!!!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;maybe if you didn't just want her for the sex she would get together with you, but i think it is too late by now. if you had loved her heart before, why did you dump her? she knows you just want to use her, its too late&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sorry to say this but you really did lose her. What you did to her probably pushed her to lose wieght and now its just to late. Even though you told her that lie trust me she probably knows the real reason why.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wow...this is one shallow man. its guy's like you who give them all a bad name. you deserve to be hurting. you deserve to be without her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i hope not! i hope she puts you thru misery! she needs to move on, why would she want to be with a immature 29 yr old who acts like he is still in highschool?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;NO you BLEW your chance, she needed you back then and you were not there for her. It also shows that when the going gets tough or bad you bail out, you are not worthy of her or any other person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you have to be a nice guy send her love letters and since you went out with her for a while you no what she likes so she will know that you are a sweet guy and want you back&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;NO BECAUSE YOU SHE HAS LOST INTERSEST IN YOU. THE FACT YOU CALLED HER WHEN SHE BECAME SKINNY LET HER KNOW YOU ARE A DOG. SHE IS THE SAME PEROSN WITH LESS BODY FAT. SORRY THERE NO CHANCE. MAYBE IF YOU DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER BUT I DONT THINK YOUR GOING TO GET ANOTHER CHANCE.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No. You made your bed, now lie in it. It is true that you like what you like, but a relationship is supposed to be about more than how much you weigh. She deserves a guy that will love her skinny or heavy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ur an asshole and I personally don't think you deserve her...She can find someone who cares for her despite the fact that she's newly svelte...And when did a size 12 become overweight??? Beyonce is a size 12 and she is one of the hottest things walking the earth NumbNuts!!! Ur a dumbass...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You ARE shallow. You can't just do that to her. If you actually liked her, then you would have liked her when she was overweight too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well sorry to tell you that but you are terribly SHALLOW!I think what you did was make her feel really bad and now she's just getting back at you.So it sounds pretty impossible to get back with her ever again!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree with her, your a Shmuck for what you did and you don't deserve her..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; And stop with the B.S., you don't love her heart or mind, you never did...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you did, well they didn't change over time just her body did..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; All you want is a hot g/f and she's smart enough to know she deserves better than you...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You got what you deserve...Nothing....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You'd have to climb 100 feet out of the snake pit to be called simply Shallow.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;wow. you're right...you are a jerk...and now she KNOWS she can do better...sucks for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;sounds like you missed the boat&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My God you are not only shallow but a jerk.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I would have done the same as her, if you really loved her heart body and mind you would never do that to her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;NO you are shallow if you loved her heart and her mind you would of been by her side the whole time she gained weight then during the time she was losing it supporting her no matter what. You are shallow look at how you worded your question that she is skinny and hot now and you want her back. Well baby we dont always get what we want and I dont even think you deserve her and she can do way better than you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;shallower then a kiddie pool&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are a shallow and terrible person! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You don't deserve her! Oh and by the way, if you really loved her heart and mind you could look past the body you jerk!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;She's skinny %26amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hahahahahaha you lose. Next time don't be such a jerk. If I were her I'd probably love the fact that you lost out, and there's absolutely no way I'd ever let you come back into my life. Sorry man, next time don't be so superficial.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4447743345992357977?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4447743345992357977/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/shes-skinny-hot-now-how-do-i-win-her.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4447743345992357977'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4447743345992357977'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/shes-skinny-hot-now-how-do-i-win-her.html' title='She&apos;s skinny &amp; hot now, how do I win her back ?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-518987024485525226</id><published>2009-12-03T04:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T04:00:06.530-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Husbands mistress?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;the other day i was checking an old email address and came upon a letter he wrote to an old "play" buddy. He told her he really missed her and gave our phone number to her. I confronted him and he told me he was just seeing how she was. She wrote back to him saying shes called many times no answer. i checked the phone and sure enough the numbers matched hers. On myspace he left her a b day message. am i just being paranoid? my husband also told her the cockblocks in his life are holding him back from his writting. meaning me and kids. im just hurt. we made up, yet my heart is aching....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i contacted her on myspace and she assured me nothing is going on... she also mentions my husband is a genius, and she loves his art, ect.... weird, she also wanted to know how we went about getting married...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Husbands mistress?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Go with your instinct. Men are great about making women feel like they're being paranoid. Trust your judgment. Don't trust this women, and if your husband thinks you are a cockblocker, he may need to go.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Husbands mistress?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't trust her. A friend of mine is dating this married guy and his wife intercepted one of her emails to him. She told the wife that nothing was going on (even though they were very sexually active) and that he is a "genius" whom she often sought out for advise and help. Go with your instincts. He should not talk badly about you to anyone. Brace yourself for a potential blow and a possible new way of life. Be strong!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Husbands mistress?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;honey you know the answer to this don't you? intuition goes a long way. my ex husband also had a "friend" that he just called to check up on. that "friend" is now his girlfriend that he moved 900 miles to be with. it hurts and he may seem sorry and act innocent but he is seriously going to have to do some working to earn your trust again. as for the cockblocker comment. last time i checked you can only block something that wants to get out. that should answer your question right there. best of luck sweetie. you deserve better. email me if you need to talk. angeldolly@yahoo.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-518987024485525226?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/518987024485525226/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/husbands-mistress.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/518987024485525226'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/518987024485525226'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/husbands-mistress.html' title='Husbands mistress?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7296833928156607340</id><published>2009-12-03T03:59:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:59:50.477-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Please HELP!!!!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;This is an organazation that goes to hospitols to find any kids in need of a smile, we will go out and do whatever it takes to make them happy. Yesterday we met a little boy named sebatian who has cancer, he was not supposed to make it through the night so little smiles brought him the nintendo wii and a mario game because mario is his favorite charecter we also had someone put on a whole mario costume to go in and say hi, we give sebatian all our hope and love. If you would like to support us add little smiles on myspace and get more information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; myspace.com/littlesmilesorginazation&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Please HELP!!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that is so kool!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; great job! I'd love to help!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; :D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7296833928156607340?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7296833928156607340/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/please-help.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7296833928156607340'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7296833928156607340'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/please-help.html' title='Please HELP!!!!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-8782319296798753893</id><published>2009-12-03T03:59:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:59:34.966-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Can you recommend a good haircut/look for me?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have long, colored hair....Blond, and it is naturally curly/wavy. My natural color is a medium to light brown. I am looking for a more polished look, something with long layers and some style. Also, something that is fairly easy to maintain since I have 3 kids and I am on the go. Right now I find myself always throwing my hair up in a clip and I hate it! Any suggestions, maybe with a link to a photo would be greatly appreciated. If you have time you can check out my myspace page and look at my photos there for a more accurate idea. THANKS!!! www.myspace.com/jennylovestony&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can you recommend a good haircut/look for me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I know exactly where you are coming from and I just recently found my answer. First of all find out what shape your face is (round, oval, square, or heart!). That will help a lot! Then you can Google short hairstyles for whatever shape face you have. My face is round to oval so, the long-layered bob with sideswept bangs was the most popular cut for me. I just went short 2 days ago, and I feel great and it took years off of my age! My styling time was cut in half too! It is a very easy hairstyle to work with. I can shampoo, towel dry, apply a little volumizing spray, and dry with a round brush. Then I am ready to walk out the door! If you have really thick hair ask your stylist to use thinning sheers wherever possible. That also makes a huge difference. As far as color, my hair is just the same as you described! My stylist colored my hair a light, warm brown, and then put some lighter brown and blonde highlights. I love it! My son told me I look beautiful! My husband liked it also. I have never had short hair before and I was really scared to cut it, but I too was tired of just pulling it back with a clasp or elastic. This kind of cut felt within my comfort zone- not too long, not too short! There are tons of photos on the web! Just Google it and see! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good Luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can you recommend a good haircut/look for me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well umm hers some links&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://i169.photobucket.com/albums/u219/...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://i169.photobucket.com/albums/u219/...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; hope i help a lil&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can you recommend a good haircut/look for me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ok, this is super easy and uber cute! The messy look can look great if done right, like in this pic. To get this look, all you really have to do is scrunch your hair and use hairspray or gel. By the way, this would also look good with layers!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck I hope it helps!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Can you recommend a good haircut/look for me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Straight side bangs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-8782319296798753893?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/8782319296798753893/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/can-you-recommend-good-haircutlook-for.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8782319296798753893'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/8782319296798753893'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/can-you-recommend-good-haircutlook-for.html' title='Can you recommend a good haircut/look for me?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-9004436165619712029</id><published>2009-12-03T03:59:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:59:18.478-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Is his infidelity my fault?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;He says the reason he cheated is that I'm not affectionate enough with him. Like, I don't anniciate sex and I don't aniciate holding his hand when we're out. Stuff like that. He also said he gets "frustrated with" me. So, now we're supposed to be working things out and then one day I saw in the computer history that he was on myspace. So I loged into his account and saw that he's back to flirting with other women. Telling them they're sexy and crap like that. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Now, just so you know: I do ALL of the cooking, cleaning and raising of the four children. All of this while running a day care out of our home. I'm up from 5a.m. and even when all of the child care kids are gone, I still have work to do. So, I'm not lazy or anything like that. I don't even ask him to take the trash out. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; So, back to my question. If I'm not affectionate, is that a reason to cheat?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, it's not your fault. Infidelity is a choice. Each of us is responsible for the choices we make. He is responsible for his.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't misunderstand me, there may be things you can do better. But, that doesn't justify breaking the marriage vows on his part.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He should have tried to work things out with you. That's the essence of a marriage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't blam your self for his stupidnes!!!!! drop his @ss&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;NEVER - his decision to be unfaithful is HIS decision alone and blaming you or someone else is immature and prideful.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;nope just the excuse you use.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No its not your fault, he is simply trying to justify his being a piece of crap,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What he SHOULD have done is communicate it with you instead of using it as an excuse to mess around. Your friggin' busy and tired. Hes just trying to get you to take blame, but it wasnt your fault.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;not your fault -- that's just a way for him to justify the affair- real men don't cheat&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, it's not your fault.......He just won't accept the fact that he wants something or someone else.......and until he finds it, you will do.......kick his a.s.s. to the curb...you're better than that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;NO! Its not your fault.....If he doesn't want to be with you, he should leave. From what you have stated he uses as "excuses" it is obvious he wants to have his cake and eat it too. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you get rid of him and want a good man who would appreciate all you do, and you live in Michigan, look me up...I would LOVE to find a woman who is as responsible and ambitious as you !!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Do not blame yourself for his cheating. There is something he thinks he needs that you are not giving him. I would suggest to let him go. He will find that it is not so good out there after all. My sisters husband did this and came crawling back 2 months later. She had 4 children also and he said the same thing. He want as far as to divorce her. Two months later, he was back.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;There is never a reason to cheat on someone only excuses , dont blame your self for him being an idiot&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;nope he is trying to project some of the guilt on you so he wont feel as bad for what he did.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Flirting %26amp; sexy talk on the internet may not be something that you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; like and indeed may not be a good idea in many cases but it is a long way from Adultery...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sounds to me like you need to try acting a little more affectionate %26amp; sexy before it really becomes adultery...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It's so sad the way men have made women believe that things are always 'her' fault. It's my fault we're broke, it's my fault the kids misbehave, it's my fault your getting sex somewhere else..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It's just crazy. NO...Absolutely not! ! ! It's not your fault. It's his fault for not talking with you and working out your problems together. Too bad the kids are involved cause it would be easier to leave him. If you want to work it out you're going to have to seek some counsleing or something.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You're better than this though. I'd do some soul searching if I were you and figure out how you're going to handle this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; good luck ! ! ! !&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, it's not a reason - but for him it's his excuse to make it OK. The guy's immature and not worth your time. Move on, kids and all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;no it's his way to place the blame so you feel badly and he doesn't need to admit he was wrong..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cheating is never acceptable. Dump his butt to the curb......&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are a hard working mom, he just needs someone to blame. It is only his best excuse he can come up with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;that is no reason for him to have cheated on you. tell him he needs to work on your marriage harder and you agree to work on it to.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; also sounds like the two of you are to busy . try making some time for just the two of you and no one else.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No his infidelity is his own fault, don't take the blame of that a**. He does not know how good he has it with you. Leave him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is about the third or fourth question you've asked regarding him telling you the relationship's failure is your fault. His drinking is your fault. His infidelity is your fault. Each time you ask people "Is it?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Are you for real, are you bored or is it you just are so lacking in self esteem and confidence you need to get a boost from somewhere and you don't really care where or from who?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lady.....although i never make it a point to condone this you better go out and have an affair. You're the type of person that I would encourage to do so. If for anything to let you see that someone finds you attractive and sexually charged. Just be sure you find someone who doesn't want a one night stand and actually takes an interest in you and your life. Someone you can confide in and get some comfort other than sex.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hummm some men want it all. Why I agree that it is important to satisfy your husband in those areas even if we are tired. You have to make some time for him that doesn't give him any excuse to be cheating like that. First you need to try to make some time to sit down and talk. Something has got to give here or else your marriage will continue to go this way andmay eventually break up because he is sleeping around. If a man isn't pleased at home he will look elsewhere. I say this not to place blame on one person. This is something he needs to deal with too. Some people are weak in that area. I suggest if you don't want to lose your man to these other women then you need to openly talk about things you can do as a couple to improve your marriage and keep his eyes from wandering so much. Now I hear women complain all the time well I can't do anything else because I already do all the housework, take care of the kids, have a job, etc, etc. I am telling you that all that means nothing when it comes to making your marriage work. Let the housework go for a bit until you can resolve this. Have someone come and look after the kids so you and your husband can go out on a date and maybe get that spark back. Marriage is WORK. If you stop working on it then that is when things get out of control. It is like a lawn. You don't take care of it and then the grass starts grwoing bigger and bigger and pretty soon you lose site of the problem and then you don't nuture it or water it then it starts to die and then you have lost the lawn all together. You can restore it back to its beauty just with a little tlc. It doesn't take much. Either you do something about it or you have no room to complain.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It's HIS fault, not yours. He's just using it as an excuse to do what he wants to do. If he were any kind of real man he would talk to you about what he feels is lacking in your marriage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't play the blame game! Cheating happens for a reason. It takes two people in a relationship to make it or break it. If he is a very affectionate person and you are not...it IS very difficult to deal with. He wants ATTENTION. He wants your love. Forget the trash...forget the dishes...take his hand...lead him to you. It will only get worse, if you don't do something about it. Forget all the day to day chores for awhile...get away. Have him get involved. Cook a romantice dinner togehter...alone...without kids! He feels neglected...I'm sure you spend the majority of your day giving attention to the little ones...I know its exhausting...find it in your heart...to set that aside...and not him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;of course it is&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Using the other person to blame for mistakes a person makes is just right down cowardly. Conquering other worlds is a man's biological composition. It has nothing to do with love nor what the lady does or does not do. However, if he did it once, you can be sure that he'll do it again. Get out. Your kids are all that is important. This man is not a good role model. He's fed up with the relationship but is too chicken to say so. Is that the kind of guy you want for yourself? I think not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;YES and NO&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Lack of affection can lead to estrangement. If he DOESN'T feel connected to you then a betrayel of his relationship with you becomes easier to justify.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Just because its easier to justiy does not make it acceptable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sounds like he doesn't see the other things you does as affection and that's not his fault. Its like being color blind. Some people are "hugger" and need hugs to feel that they are loved. Some are cuddlers, hand holds, kissers, smilers, winkers ... etc. If you give them what they need there is no problem and the relationship stays strong and connected, but if you give a hugger a kiss its like giving a man in the desert some salt. It might be good for them, but they would still prefer a glass of water.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; As for his flirting on the internet, it may be his attempt to get what he needs. He may NEED to feel like a lover and he doesn't FEEL that with you. I bet if you remind him that he is still your lover he will flirt with you more and be happier about your relationship. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Men are simple we want to be everything in your eyes and when we feel that we are not we feel that we've failed. Men are also stooopid.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;OMG....No its not your fault he cant be a real man. He wants to medicate the situation with other women and blame it on you. I bet your husband just sees you as a clean and cook and house keeper and maintenence person while he enjoys the fruits of your labour and then go outside of the marriage to get laid?? No hes a major jerk off whos just justifying his bad behavior, but the truth is its his bad behavior that is a problem not your being unaffectionate...you marriage should be over. no offence, but it really should. It sounds like hes just using you to keep the house running for his convenience while he goes outside of the relationship for affection...that is crap, he should try and work on it with you. Id leave, his behavior is completely unacceptable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is not your fault. He chose to cheat.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Cheaters make up lies all the time, if denial isn't effective enough then they try to shift blame on you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He did so on his own free will. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Of course there might be things in the realtionship that could be better. He should of brought them up before cheating. But these things happen. YOu can get by this if he stops his cheating. If an affair is active you stand zero chance.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Is his infidelity my fault?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What you are saying is not making any since. If he expects you to do the wifely duties and you do them, and you also run a daycare center then what right does he have to say that his cheating is your fault and that you are lazy,also why would you let it even bother you when you know that he is full of bull $hit? You don't have to take his $hit, and why should you worry about pleasing him if he is not pleasing you anyway? You are his wife, not his slave! You should let him know that he has his own mind, If it was your decision on what he was doing with his life it most certainly would not be for him to be screwing other women, he would be home with his wife %26amp; children, and screwing you when the children went to bed! You should not let him over power or insult your integrity as a woman. If he wants to cheat on you then you should tell him to get out and leave you alone. This is not good for you and it most certainly is not good for the children!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I'm sorry if i'm being blunt but when I hear $hit like this it really makes me upset!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sorry again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good Luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-9004436165619712029?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/9004436165619712029/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/is-his-infidelity-my-fault.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/9004436165619712029'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/9004436165619712029'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/is-his-infidelity-my-fault.html' title='Is his infidelity my fault?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-977175495178238884</id><published>2009-12-03T03:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:59:02.386-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Song about being friends with an ex boyfriend.?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My ex and I broke up after 4 years. We have 2 kids together and we're trying to work on a friendship. I love him but we just cant seem to make it work in a relationship. Im trying to find a song for my myspace page. Cool by Gwen Stefani is not on myspace so is there any other songs you can thinkk of that fit the situation?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Song about being friends with an ex boyfriend.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;right up until you said cool wasnt on myspace, i was thinking cool is the perfect song...uh idk sryyy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Song about being friends with an ex boyfriend.?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;how about putting something that has no correlation to the situation you speak of. You don't have to express EVERY emotion, or every situation you encounter with a song!! Pick a song that you like to listen to when your HAPPY, not when you're depressed and feel like crying for weeks. I've never understood why people, women in general, think that the entire world wants to be depressed with them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-977175495178238884?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/977175495178238884/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/song-about-being-friends-with-ex.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/977175495178238884'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/977175495178238884'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/song-about-being-friends-with-ex.html' title='Song about being friends with an ex boyfriend.?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-829605193809505665</id><published>2009-12-03T03:58:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:58:46.517-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Should i talk to his mom about this??</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ok my bf lives with his mom and his mom is the type of parent that does not let their kids date until there 16 and hes 13 same as me. Hes the only person right now that makes me feel im wanted. i love him so much and i cant explain it. and his mom knows that hes dating me cuz she has a myspace and seen that im his # 1 and the comments i sent him sayin i love him. and every time i call him he gets in trouble and every time that he doesnt take me of his #1 he gets in trouble. he does not know if he want to keep getting in troble so he can se me or jest break it of so he can get some freedom. i dont know wat to do ither&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; should i tell his mom how i really feel???&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if you really care and love this boy,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; go for it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i think you should.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or you can do what i had to do&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; and secretly date.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;go with your heart. &lt;span&gt;Report It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i would if i was u&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yeah I guess you could. You just have to make sure he really loves you too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if I were in his situation, I would be really mad if a girl I didn't even liek that much spoke to my mom about something liek that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But on the otherhand, I'd love someone more who shows that she loves me enough to speak out how she feels about it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yes tell her you should let every one kno that you love eachother even if you are young it doesent matter you will learn in life the only thing that matters is you and making yourself happy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ask her if you can see him at his place only or at your place. When you are young a love like that can really hurt. I was besotted with a girl.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well if your 13 then the relationship isnt very seious and it wont be for a while. you can just call yourself friends and probably would be allowed to hang out if its not a date. your feelings might trick you but you arent quite there yet&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is very probable that this isn't ending in marriage, so it isn't very serious, but if there is real love in your relationship, then you won't break up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Don't speak to his mother. That's just going to get him into trouble again. Do you really think his mother will appreciate being told by a 13 year old CHILD how to raise her 13 year old son??? I think not. And why do you keep calling him if you know it will get him into trouble? Sounds pretty selfish to me. Wait for him to call you. Or just speak at school. Hang out together at his place or yours if his mom will allow it. But you're both far too young for all this drama that you're putting out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;if he really loved you he wouldn't be deciding whether to stay with you and face the consequences or breaking it off...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i talk to his mom about this??&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;u should tell her&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-829605193809505665?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/829605193809505665/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-talk-to-his-mom-about-this.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/829605193809505665'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/829605193809505665'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-talk-to-his-mom-about-this.html' title='Should i talk to his mom about this??'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1623725823640862056</id><published>2009-12-03T03:58:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:58:30.455-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Should i just fight her?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;ta and i was talking and stuff and she miss heard wat i said and took it seriouse so know she wants to fight me. i went to guidance and everything is solved at SCHOOL. well not really, she pushes me if im walkin in the middle of the hallway. but then now today is my friends katies birthday party,im going to it and now just found out that ta is going, everybody kept askin me if i was going or not and i said yeaa, den thats when every1 was like ooooohhhh den laugh. but im really scared to fight her, shes strong and everything but shes half my height im 5"2. %26amp;%26amp; when we was about to fight before i talk to the guidance, the teachered pulled me away, but then my mom called so i picked up, and now kids thinking im scareeddd, but idk what to do. should i just fight her to get it over withh??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; if you want the whole story &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; send me an email asznislove@yahoo.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or myspace me&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; myspace.com/xweener&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;This girl sounds like she is all talk...Believe me, in school if someone wanted to fight, they would do it at the bus stop or even throw the first punch in school regardless. Stand up to this girl..Not saying that fighting is right, but never be afraid of anyone. ****Whoop her ENTIRE *ss****&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Whoop her midget azz. And then go back to English class.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I say you fight her if that's what she wants. Then she'll just shut up about the fighting thing if you whoop her butt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;just tell her that you don't want to fight her cuz yall was friendz and dont worry about what people think about you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yeah. you should just whoop her *** and get it over with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;don't fight everyone is waiting for that,,work on your friendship.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good Luck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;What does fighting prove? Dont let your friends push u into something.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Should i just fight her?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you had your name and all the details printed in the school/city paper would you be embarassed or not? If you'd be embarassed or ashamed, don't fight her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The record of it (and word is passed FAST with the Internet) could get you into trouble with school suspension, and medical fees.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1623725823640862056?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1623725823640862056/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-just-fight-her.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1623725823640862056'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1623725823640862056'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/should-i-just-fight-her.html' title='Should i just fight her?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-5679261224385261665</id><published>2009-12-03T03:58:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:58:14.133-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Serious question!! please help?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;i have been talking to this girl for the past year in a half on myspace. she has just informed me that she is 18 years old and pregnant and lives in texas and i am in california. her family has kicked her out of the house and she has no where to go. i feel that in a way that i should do something because my profession is teaching and i see this situation happening all the time. even though ill get ridiculed by family and friends i feel that this something i need to do to save a little kids life. is this pathetic? dangerous? stupid? i have never even met her. am i desperate??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Serious question!! please help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Why did you ask this twice?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Serious question!! please help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;yeah. its probably just a scam to get someone to get her away from her life. or shes just messing with u just to see what u would say.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Serious question!! please help?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I have answered this on your other posting of the question. There was no need to post twice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-5679261224385261665?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/5679261224385261665/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/serious-question-please-help.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5679261224385261665'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/5679261224385261665'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/serious-question-please-help.html' title='Serious question!! please help?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3419099820408561001</id><published>2009-12-03T03:57:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:57:58.814-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Good bands?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;what are some good girl bands on myspace. things that liike a 13 or 14 year old girl would wanna listen to they can be well know or not very well know. i know about hannah montana/miley cyrus ashley tisdale vanessa hudgens the cheetah girls. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i want somthing diffrent that not many kids will have on there page&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Good bands?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The Veronicas&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Calypso&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Fefe Dobson&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Avril Lavigne&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Skye Sweetnam&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Katy Rose&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hilary Duff&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Those are just some suggestions,I TRIED!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck with your song selection.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Good bands?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;ally and aj, hillary duff, this on isn't a girl band, but i think 13-14 year old girls would listen to them : Jonas Brothers&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Good bands?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Try:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Barlow Girl 0r&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Superchick&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3419099820408561001?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3419099820408561001/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/good-bands.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3419099820408561001'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3419099820408561001'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/good-bands.html' title='Good bands?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7232798620053225444</id><published>2009-12-03T03:57:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:57:42.336-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to fundrise the rest for a charity in a few days?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Hello everybody!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We have a non-profit organization, which helps kids in orphanages/foster homes. We have a deadline, because of our connection with other subjects (retail stores), which are giving us a huge discounts for products and services we need for children.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is our seventh year for us, we set up a destination amout of about 32 thousand USD for this year. The deadline is at the end of August and we are still missing 4,750 USD.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you can give any advice, that we didn't use, I will be very happy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Or there is a possibility of direct donation if you would like to help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For more information:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://chsa.awardspace.info or Ms Hanka Pavlovska (myspace.com/hanka_p).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Thank you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How to fundrise the rest for a charity in a few days?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Call all your local radio stations and see if they will put out a public service announcement. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Also see if there are local online bulletin boards you can put the information on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7232798620053225444?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7232798620053225444/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/how-to-fundrise-rest-for-charity-in-few.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7232798620053225444'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7232798620053225444'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/how-to-fundrise-rest-for-charity-in-few.html' title='How to fundrise the rest for a charity in a few days?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-649041817689216795</id><published>2009-12-03T03:57:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:57:26.357-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Help with blocking sites?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have set up accounts for my kids on our computer. I have their accounts set to "limited". I have been able to successfully block sites like myspace, etc. and have also been able to disable yahoo chat. HOWEVER...for some reason, when I type in www.msn.com into the list of sites to be restricted, it still connects, and furthermore, it still allows msn instant messenger to be downloaded. Can anyone tell me how to successfully block msn messenger?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with blocking sites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Blocking the MSN messenger protocol would be different than websites. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; A specific block of TCP port 1863 should do it. Though it looks like the reason msn.com wouldn't work for you is because MSN may use messenger.hotmail.com.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; http://www.google.com/search?rls=en%26amp;q=ms...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The ideal way of doing such blocking is to use a separate firewall/proxy gateway machine with something like DansGuardian on it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; For my own network and several clients I have used an old machine running a Linux firewall distro like IPCop. Much more flexible and secure than any Windows desktop solution. The proxy settings I have on my own network block pretty much all ads and the objectionable content categories I have selected. There are blacklists that include thousands of addresses, which with my IpCop setup get updated automatically.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But things like messenger traffic are usually better controlled by blocking the ports on a firewall. Some DSL/Cable/etc. routers have the ability to do this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with blocking sites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;install a different browser especially for kids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; K-9&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Netdog&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; or&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Kid Rocket&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with blocking sites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You could research into getting a router that will block all but a list of sites on an exception list. I know that mine has firmware that allows me to do this. It seems a pretty safe way to keep a computer blocked out at the router level. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I don't attempt to do this as I don't have kids (yet) but that's the route I'd explore.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Help with blocking sites?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;for most reular blaocks that come on with the browser it only block site i.e myspace or like chatrooms. it does not stop you from downloadding softwear. if you were to go to a chat web site such as yahoochat, that should, be block. I would suggest buying a porxay porgram to tnstall on your commputer. It works alot better then the blocks that come on the browsers. The option would still be allowed to download softwear, but once you click download, it would ask for an admid passowrd. GOOD LUCK!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-649041817689216795?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/649041817689216795/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-with-blocking-sites.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/649041817689216795'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/649041817689216795'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/help-with-blocking-sites.html' title='Help with blocking sites?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-7688743107971395780</id><published>2009-12-03T03:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:57:10.562-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I need help with my sister?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My sister is 14 and i'm 18.We have a great relationship, stronger then we have with our parents so I dont want to get my parents involved. She is a little bit different from your average person I was also this way.I disliked my school and everyone in it because of their overall outlook on life and attitude, however at the same time I was of the popular kids everyone knew.She is also popular, she has friends in all of highschool, they all know her name n knows that we are sisters, ofcourse she occassionally will get a dumb remark from a dumb guy but who doesnt?She has dubbed herself as an outcast and her only friends that share similar interests are moving far away, making the situation worse.She has diverted all her attention to myspace and has online bfs, one after another, she is ready to say "i love you" to a guy shes been "going out with" for a week.She is on from 330pm to 4 am and on off days from 11 am to 4-5 am.She lives her life online, WHAT CAN I DO? ive tried talking to her&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need help with my sister?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;do things to help raise her self-esteem and stuff&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; tell her how great she is and stuff.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; she is probably using myspace and those 'boyfriends' as an escape, if she feels so lonely.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i worded that badly, but i couldnt think of the right words....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; but just boost her self-esteem, so she feel feel better about herself so she can make more friends =]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need help with my sister?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;tell her that sleeping that late is bad for her and ages people faster...this is true&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need help with my sister?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You might have to talk to a school councellor. They wont tell your parents so dont worry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need help with my sister?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;let her be she is 14 she'll grow out of it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need help with my sister?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;cut the cable to the computer take her for a jog and push her back to social life even if it kills her its not healthy to be on the computer that long&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need help with my sister?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;bring her out with you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I need help with my sister?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I am 11 but I guess I can help. Take ur sis somewhere cool like go on a double date with ur bf and her bf. She will like it. Or take her somewhere kool. If I didn't help SRRY&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-7688743107971395780?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/7688743107971395780/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-help-with-my-sister.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7688743107971395780'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/7688743107971395780'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-need-help-with-my-sister.html' title='I need help with my sister?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-193713329158843387</id><published>2009-12-03T03:56:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:56:54.669-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What should I do with this man?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My boyfriend of 4yrs have just i say sort of cheated on me. This will be his third time. He talked to someone that we all knew and got caught on myspace with. He says he was stupid blah blah. He asked me is it over i said no. Now I don't feel right the fact that i let it go that smoothly and quick. I'm 26 we're the same age with 3 kids going on 4. I feel like if he does something like that to me again, then he would have to go. I just hope that I'm financially able to do that. If I was financiall ready, i would have kicked him out that day. But i thought about it, and I see things will be hard for me, so yeah, that's why he stayed. So what is your opinion on this matther?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Get rid of him and be done with it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;drop him and go home to mom.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;If its the third time that means you're an idiot.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. You went a third time. This guy is not serious about you. Time to move on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I would let it go one day he's going too be talking too a guy then what's he going too do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Respect yourself and get over him. He doesn't deserve you. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hit him with a huge child support payment while you're at it. :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are not a little girl anymore, you are old enough to know that this is a bad situation and he will keep doing it. He has already done it 3 times to you. If you stay with him, he will just keep cheating on you. You can either let it happen and deal with it or grow some balls and stop it and leave him. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I know it's harder to do it rather than to say it, so i can understand that , but you know that is the only way. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; i think you already know the answer. My mom made it on her own with 3 kids and no one to help her, if she can do it, you can do it. It will be hard, yes, but you have to do it if you ever want to be happy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;earn alot of money that will have you set for a while, THEN DUMP HIM!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;kick him to the curb.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;drop him, as your family and true friends will help you out. Don't allow this to go on out of fear as it is just damaging to you and to the kids. Be a hero/role model for them..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Why do you call it cheating? He just likes some sexual variety and it doesn't mean he loves anyone but you, so what are you getting upset about? You can try some variety too if you want to, but if you don't, why spoil his spirit of adventure?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;It depends on what you call cheating.I dont even think flirting is right if you are in a stable relationship but if its isnt physical (just chatting) he might just be doing it for the thrill and attention.If hes done it three times now I doubt he will be stopping anytime soon.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;get yourself a little nest egg just in case. it kinda sounds like you are already done and from what i've heard, once a cheater, always a cheater.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Respect and integrity are much more important than&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; financial concerns....Alway try to do the Right thing....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; consider your children and making an attempt at&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; bringing them up with the desire to stand up and be&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; strong and not compromise their honor for money.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you have 3 kids??!?!?...wow...naver let up n the ob especially if your in a relationship with kids...That is so that if something like this happens you can drop them like the losers they are. Right now, act like your mad at him, which you probably are, make him watch the kids while you develop a job. Set up a children watch plan with friends or family so someone can watch your kids when he is gone, for good, and you have work. Then when you are sure your ready BREAK UP...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Get another job, contact family, he isn't worth your time and hes gonna end up hurting you and your kids!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Leave!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;biggie is right sorry to say its only 4 years and how many other kids does he have that you dont now about ? say bye bye&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You have 3 kids with this man? Why has he not married you? He sounds like a user. And if he is cheating on you now .....he always will. Stand up for yourself and your kids! You deserve better. As far as the finances go......get him for child support. Hit him where it hurts....his wallet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Best of Luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I agree with Chainsaw. It's not worth the heartache again and again. I've been cheated on as well, and while it's not pretty, I got out. I didn't want to at the time, I just wanted to stay with him, but looking back, I feel I made the right choice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If you're worried about the money, even if you aren't married, you CAN receive child support.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; There are also numerous life and women support systems. Don't be embarrassed to check into those if you need hlpe.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are excusing yourself for something you DO NOT want to do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Do not excuse yourself. If you want to stay with him just stay and stop the drama. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He will never change and you will never leave him because you do not want to do it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You will keep finding excuses for the rest of your life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Truthfully, my opinion is that you stayed way too long - should've given him the boot after the first time. I know you are going through a tough time, but I think you should ask yourself why there is another baby on the way in light of his instability i.e. wandering eye. Also, how does someone "sort of cheat"?? They either do or they don't. I think you are in denial. No, I can see why you can't leave - you are pregnant and have 3 other children - you unfortunately need him around for now. Have you considered a tubal ligation after baby #4? Maybe it's time to stop having babies, get some money stashed away and come up with a plan that you can execute when the time is right. Is there a family member who can help you?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I'm not sure what you mean by "sort of cheated." If he was just talking to the girl, flirting a bit, it could be you're over-reacting. On the other hand, committed people should not do anything that would reasonably make their partner uncomfortable. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But there's the rub - this is not a committed person. You're having your fourth child with him, and he still hasn't married you. And it's obvious that he has a history of cheating on you. Question: Just when were you planning to get a clue???&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; If it weren't for the kids, I'd tell you to run so fast he could never catch up with you. But you have to think of your children. If he takes responsibility where they're concerned, you may just have to put up with him until they're older.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; But do us all a favor and DON'T HAVE ANY MORE KIDS WITH THIS BUM!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you're not married with all those kids you 2 created. do you think he'd stay faithful? so you must like being the laughing stock having your man cheat on you with all those kids. how do you know he's not got any other kids with the women he's slept with. you need to wake up. you deserve what you get. and if you knew he was cheating before you decided to get pregnant, then why did you. i guess you thought with every kid would come a marriage proposal. STUPID.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Plan your escape now....plan your work and work your plan. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You are in a lose, lose situation. No Win!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Plan it carefully and seek goverment assitance if you have to for your children.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; There is homes, i.e. Hubbard House..etc...that a mother and her children can go to for temporary housing ..Catholic Charities...all kinds of women organizations that will help you..see, this is not physical abuse ..but it is Mental Abuse. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; He is pulling you down by the fingernails and pretty soon you wont have any nails left.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You can do baddd, by yourself. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Men either compliment your life or complicate your life...which is it? You make the choices..you reep the benefits...keep on the down low, and start making phone calls. Yellow Pages.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He's already done it three times. When he does it for the fourth time, you'll probably let him stay because you need the money. He's not going to change, and he's seen he can get away with it over and over.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Which do you feel you can deal with - living with a man you can't trust who helps you pay the bills, or struggling on your own?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You are right that it is a tough situation. He is a cheater and will continue to cheat so now you need to find a way to make it work for you and your children. Start by seeing what legal effect it will have to leave him, child support, property settlement, etc. You need to decide now for the next time by securing your family's future. Free legal aid is usually available or social services can help with some answers. Think about what you need to do now before the next crisis. Ask youself, do I want my children to grow up and be like their father if it's boys or if it's girls, do you want them to find a man just like their father. Because, your children learn what they live and you are setting them up for a future just yours is now. For now, you have no choice but to put up with his antics, but take the time now to use your God given brain and make plans if you decide you want a different life than you're living now.Good luck with your life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't know why you continue to have children with a man who is unfaithful to you, but more important than what you "feel" like doing you should consider what is best for your kids. Is he a good role model for them? My father cheated on my mom and beat us. Not the best example although we all turned out alright. It would have been better for us if she struck it out on her own. It teaches the kids to not compromise integrety and that all actions have a concequence. Be careful though. If you leave him and have no way of supporting the kids he could get custody. You should continue to mother your children the beat you can but also start trying to find some financial independance. It won't be easy with 3 plus 1 on the way, but this is a situation you built and one you can improve as long as you work at it. In the mean time you should probably pretend that everything is alright with your husband since that will make life smoother and easier for you and the kids, but also look into divorce in your state and if it is no-fault or if adultury is grounds for alimony and child support. Good luck and God bless.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Girl why are you waiting for the "next time"! It's already his third. And you don't even know about the ones he hadn't been caught with. This is a tough one especially with the kids but put yourself and your kids first. You and them deserve better. So get rid of him, quickly at that too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I have found out in the past.Once a cheater,always a cheater.Throw his sorry butt out.Make him pay big in child support.And then run his name into the dirt with everyone he knows.You should have left him the first time.Don't let him keep doing it to you.If he wants to cheat on someone let it be the tramp he slept with.I can't believe you have 4 kids with this guy.Or you can castarate him.Go to a dairy farm supply store.Get the pliers that stretch the tiny little rubber bands out and slip it on him.The rubber bands are the size of a cherrio when shrunk down.Ouch.A couple of weeks later his balls will fall of.LOL&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What should I do with this man?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;you no it is not going to stop here you need to get rid of him cause its just going to get worst then go to child support and get some money to help with your kids its not going to be easy but if you stay with him and he no that you not going to let him go so he feel like he can do what ever he want good luck&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-193713329158843387?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/193713329158843387/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-should-i-do-with-this-man_03.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/193713329158843387'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/193713329158843387'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-should-i-do-with-this-man_03.html' title='What should I do with this man?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-47525098784280122</id><published>2009-12-03T03:56:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:56:39.451-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Some advice please... Relationship question?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Well Im in a relationship with a guy ive know for 17 years, Im 19 and he is 21. Our parents use to be good friends %26amp; we played with eachother as kids. Well he moved to AR to live with his mom, and I hadnt seen him or spoken to him for about 8 years. We got in contact with eachother through myspace about a year ago and reconnected and have been in a long distance relationship for a while. Well he already has it planned for me to move out there in december (i live in dallas), and my family is hesitant because they dont want me to leave them but they are all for it at the same time because he's a great guy. He spent all of last week with me in dallas and since he left i have just been so bummed and i think ive completely smothered him, because im so insecure i just keep calling and calling %26amp; i think in the past week i have just pushed him away. I dont know how to keep myself from being the annoying girlfriend that he hates %26amp; go back to being the caring fun loving girl he loves, ne advice?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Some advice please... Relationship question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hey, Southern Gal! If he came to spend a week with you, he likes you an awful lot. You need to quit worrying. His actions speak for themselves. The important thing is that your family approves of him, which says a lot about him. Don't worry about pushing him away with your insecurity and too many telephone calls. If he loves you, he will be flattered by the attention. I know that I would like all that attention! Then I would know that the girl was serious about me. And that is exactly what he needs to know right now. Keep calling him (but not too much). Let him know that you are there for him and can't stop thinking about him. Believe me, if he is serious about you, that is just the thing that is going to win his heart. The best of luck to you both....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Some advice please... Relationship question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The best of luck to you. Now go get that boy! &lt;span&gt;Report It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-47525098784280122?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/47525098784280122/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/some-advice-please-relationship_03.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/47525098784280122'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/47525098784280122'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/some-advice-please-relationship_03.html' title='Some advice please... Relationship question?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3449761274859697118</id><published>2009-12-03T03:56:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:56:22.420-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Some advice please... Relationship question?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Well Im in a relationship with a guy ive know for 17 years, Im 19 and he is 21. Our parents use to be good friends %26amp; we played with eachother as kids. Well he moved to AR to live with his mom, and I hadnt seen him or spoken to him for about 8 years. We got in contact with eachother through myspace about a year ago and reconnected and have been in a long distance relationship for a while. Well he already has it planned for me to move out there in december (i live in dallas), and my family is hesitant because they dont want me to leave them but they are all for it at the same time because he's a great guy. He spent all of last week with me in dallas and since he left i have just been so bummed and i think ive completely smothered him, because im so insecure i just keep calling and calling %26amp; i think in the past week i have just pushed him away. I dont know how to keep myself from being the annoying girlfriend that he hates %26amp; go back to being the caring fun loving girl he loves, ne advice?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Some advice please... Relationship question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hey, Southern Gal! If he came to spend a week with you, he likes you an awful lot. You need to quit worrying. His actions speak for themselves. The important thing is that your family approves of him, which says a lot about him. Don't worry about pushing him away with your insecurity and too many telephone calls. If he loves you, he will be flattered by the attention. I know that I would like all that attention! Then I would know that the girl was serious about me. And that is exactly what he needs to know right now. Keep calling him (but not too much). Let him know that you are there for him and can't stop thinking about him. Believe me, if he is serious about you, that is just the thing that is going to win his heart. The best of luck to you both....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Some advice please... Relationship question?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;The best of luck to you. Now go get that boy! &lt;span&gt;Report It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3449761274859697118?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3449761274859697118/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/some-advice-please-relationship.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3449761274859697118'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3449761274859697118'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/some-advice-please-relationship.html' title='Some advice please... Relationship question?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-2551825943805867870</id><published>2009-12-03T03:56:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:56:06.176-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What do you think of this..Children in Romania?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I am a humanitarian in Romania working with sick and abandoned children. I decided to set up a myspace page to promte what I am doing here. It is nothing facy just something for people to see photos and hear about my days working with the kids. What do you think of it? Is the song and layout ok? Any thoughts on making it better?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of this..Children in Romania?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hi Jenifer,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Put some personal information of some of the children so the readers can get to know some of their strengths as well as individual needs. I know that there are probably many children but start with a couple a week and maybe a photograph that is clickable with their individual story.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Also please increase the font size of your narrations. They are a bit difficult to read. Better to have less said ,to the point, and large enough to read than a lot and micro-fonts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; The idea of what you are doing is commendable. Maybe work something out with your church back in the states to be your conduit for help since they obviously know who you are and have experience with your character as a parishoner. Hard to tell from foreign blogs who is doing good or out to scam. Having this supported by them would yield credibility to potential donors. A cross reference in both your websites as well as your local community church back to your site would help accomplish that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Hope that helps,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Bob&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of this..Children in Romania?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Props to you for trying to help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What do you think of this..Children in Romania?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;When the angels are busy God sends in special people to help along the way. God bless.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-2551825943805867870?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/2551825943805867870/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-do-you-think-of-thischildren-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2551825943805867870'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/2551825943805867870'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-do-you-think-of-thischildren-in.html' title='What do you think of this..Children in Romania?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1009104986094770855</id><published>2009-12-03T03:55:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:55:51.229-08:00</updated><title type='text'>SEX- Does my husband have issues?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My husband likes to look at women, flirt with women, look at thier myspace sights, he is secretive on the computer. Wanted me to lift the blocker, ect. He may look at mens sights just so he won't look like hes looking at women. He loves to read dirty stories on the net and saves them to his favorites. He has cheated alot b/f we were married. And I know he has had interest, yet says he hasn't. He makes me feel like I am second rate. These women are better than me. He hugs the bigger breasted women @ church. Our sex life is ok. It use to better. He is selfish in bed, when we do have sex. I have a nice body, small frame. The rest of our marrage is fine. He just doesn't see that I hurt when I see him looking at those women. When he is extra nice to women( I won't say flirting b/c I am around him) He makes them feel so special. Yet I very rairly ever feel special. He will spend hours on the computer, and yell at me and the kids if we even try to talk to him. Has he NO self control?It hurts!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You knew of this behavior and his ways before marriage so why in the hell did you marry this so called ''man''? He obviously likes to cheat and sounds really selfish!. He looks at those women more than you right? Why are you willing to put up with his ****? Him doing this and not caring at all about how it is making you feel is very selfish and low. What an asshole! He is going to keep looking at other women and their pics and you need to leave him because if you don't it's not going to get any better. wake up!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He does have issues. You should maybe talk to him about what is going on and how you feel and think that is not fair for you for what he is doing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;leave him! if hes cheated on you? maybe i missunderstood that.. but he does have some serious issues... i would leave him if i were you. he sounds liek a selfish no good jerk. you can do better. please never stay maried just cause you have kids together! they will see you having problems wiht him and it will effect you as well... my parents divorced when i was 4 and my brother was only 6 mo. old! and we turned out fine! never stay for the kids in a marriage...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You say the rest of your marriage is fine.It doesnt sound fine at all.It sounds like you are really intimidated by him.You are going to have to stand up to him and tell him how you feel.The longer you let this go on, the more hurt and resentful you will become. Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wake up and smell the coffee!!! You are married to a pervert with deviant tendencies. Your marriage is not fine if you feel that you are second rate and he treats you like a doormat. His interests are not in you, but some sort of fantasy woman. If he is trying to hide what he is doing and acting suspiciously then most likely he is messing around with someone. At this point I would say you should probably seek the advice of your pastor or marriage counseling, but I would be willing to bet that you would be wasting your time. Someone who has interests such as your husbands are sick individuals and many times eventually cross the line when the fantasy no longer works for them. No amount of counseling or therapy is going to fix this problem. Your priority here should be the well being of you and your children. Go see your pastor, seek counseling if you truly feel that salvaging this relationship is worth it, but be advised, you are married to a very sick man.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;he does he needs counseling so will start treating you better. talk to him and tell him how bad you feel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sounds like a jerk for sure.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My opinion: Yes your husband seems to have serious issues. Not only that, your marriage does too. You mentioned that he has cheated on you before??? To me it seems like you are allowing him to act the way he does. If you and your kids try to talk to him and he yells at you guys....gosh that's just wrong. Not only is he neglecting the woman that he married, but his children as well. Looks like all he cares about is himself. I would suggest that you have a long sit-down talk and see if he's willing to hear what your feelings are. If not you can try marriage/couples counseling if both parties are willing. If he continues to neglect you and your children when you guys pry for his attention.....I don't know, it doesn't seem you should sacrifice your happiness for a man like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I don't think he has issues in his thoughts, just in his actions. He sounds like a philandering swine!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;SEX- Does my husband have issues?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ask yourself these questions;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Will he respectfully talk about this subject?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Would he care if he knew I felt second?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; What have I done to enable his behavior?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Is the relationship important to him? /me?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; How could we strengthen our realationship?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Would we be open to professional counseling?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You both must be responsible for the relationships qualities whether they are negative or positive and take ownership of what you each contribute. Your feelings may be boosted by your own insecurities. His computer browsing choices and time management as well as his behavior in public (church) needs ownership and affirmation to be responsible for it. Communication is key and if it is important enough, then you both must do what is necessary to build it up not tear it down. You may have to act like you are interested in the same behavior in order to better understand his motivation. It may also soften your insecurities if he is willing to open up and share. Be creative not combative in opening the lines of communication and see what happens. Pray! Don't be prideful! Communicate!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-1009104986094770855?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/1009104986094770855/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/sex-does-my-husband-have-issues.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1009104986094770855'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/1009104986094770855'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/sex-does-my-husband-have-issues.html' title='SEX- Does my husband have issues?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-6232219763952180966</id><published>2009-12-03T03:55:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:55:34.551-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Have you ever told an old friend goodbye because your lifestyles don't match?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I have known G for over 11 years now. We use to be neighbors and it's been a rocky 11 years. Lots to relive and not enough room here. G is married with 3 kids and I have known her to have very illicit affairs. I have seen her lie to people in their faces, cause havock black mail ect.. She has been evicted for non payment of rent, arrested for shop lifting at Walmart and is known to borrow money and not pay. ( that has never happened to me. ) &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have lost contact with G for a number of years. Recently she found me on Myspace. She asked me to call her and I did. It essentially turned out to be a mistake. She is currently living with her boyfriend.. and still seeing her husband, has a 30 yo brother who is a drug addict living with her, and recently was arrested for a 10 year old warrant for domestic violence. I am not the same person I use to be. I listened to her talk.. and I told her I can't be her friend and should say good bye. she asked me why? I told her this&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 6 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Additional Details&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; 4 minutes ago&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I told her I am happily married. We don't use drink or smoke weed. I have never had the police show up at my door nor have I had to call them on my husband. I work a normal 8-5 Monday through Friday job, I rent movies on the weekend and love being a happily married couple. My life doesn't jive with hers and I asked her to not contact me again. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Has anyone ever done this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Have you ever told an old friend goodbye because your lifestyles don't match?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No, but I am impressed you were so bold. Way to go. Cut to the chase.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Have you ever told an old friend goodbye because your lifestyles don't match?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Good for you. People come, and people go. Friends are you friends for a reason, a season or a lifetime. This one obviously has run its course. I have totally felt the way you are feeling though. I just avoid the people. But I think the way you handled it was perfect. You know what you want and what you need out of your relationships. Very grown up and mature way to handle your life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Have you ever told an old friend goodbye because your lifestyles don't match?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I've never done this but I think what you did was an honest, courageous move. You did the RIGHT thing in letting her know. Why let her drag you down when you have everything you need right now. I'm somewhat in the same situation as you, but worse. Instead it isn't my friend that doesn't lead the same compatible life as me, but my cousin. We were close before, but now as I became older I realize we have different outlooks in life. I want to study hard in school and receive that fulfilling career while she still wants to party, smoke, and all that other stupid stuff. I tell you that you're courageous because I still haven't worked up the guts to say anything to my cousin because she is still family. But I'm happy you told her that. If she doesn't understand then that's her problem. Well, you sound content so that's all that matters. =)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-6232219763952180966?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/6232219763952180966/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/have-you-ever-told-old-friend-goodbye.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6232219763952180966'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/6232219763952180966'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/have-you-ever-told-old-friend-goodbye.html' title='Have you ever told an old friend goodbye because your lifestyles don&apos;t match?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4783820514349453204</id><published>2009-12-03T03:55:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:55:18.449-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I want him to be more than a friend what should i do?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;okay so i have this friend. he is a boy. i've known him through my friends who do winterguard with me. they live in a town about an hour away. i really have feelings for this boy. i've never met him face to face. yeah i know weird but he is no creepy stalker or anything.. trust me. i've talked to him on myspace and IM and he's a good kid. i really like him. i want to tell him that i like him but i dont know what his feelings back would be. so im confused and afraid of what he would say. i keep having dreams at night seeing me and him hooking up and stuff like that. i dont know what this means but yeah.. i like him alot and i dont know what to say to him .. can you help decide what to say? he lives in another town and plays alot of sports and if we do go out do you think it will interfere with his sports? i am really confused and i dont know what to say to him .. he talks to me alot but i've never talked to him about this. ive known him for a few months ... what am i going to say???&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I want him to be more than a friend what should i do?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Tell him. Flat out. Otherwise you may regret not saying anything. Just do it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I want him to be more than a friend what should i do?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;First of all grow up. Get a grip. Just call him and talk.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I want him to be more than a friend what should i do?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I had the same problem with my current girlfriend. Just say:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; I have something important to tell you, I think I love you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Whatever he will say, he would have said it anyway later. And it's better to let it out before it kills you inside. I live in Ohio, my girlfriend lives in Colorado, we love each other so much, we'd die for each other, litteraly. and it was all because I said those three magic words.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;I want him to be more than a friend what should i do?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well first you need to meet him and bring a friend with and I think he likes you to he's just as shy and nervous as you are. Don't worry about the sports things you can just cheer him on it might actually helps his game out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4783820514349453204?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4783820514349453204/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-want-him-to-be-more-than-friend-what.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4783820514349453204'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4783820514349453204'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-want-him-to-be-more-than-friend-what.html' title='I want him to be more than a friend what should i do?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4945529110752622404</id><published>2009-12-03T03:55:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:55:02.409-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Would you be mad?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;okay last night me and one of my "best friends" were talking on myspace, and we planned to hang out today.....she said she was going to come over in the morning....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; so this morning she messaged me again and told me that her sister is babysitting some of her other sisters kids from 12:30-6:00 at a house near mine and asked if i wanted to go and then hang out after......and even though i really didn't want to because i HATE babysitting i said yeah to be nice and help out. So she said that her and her sister were gonna pick me up at 12:30..... so i waited until 1:00 and they didnt show up....so i called her house [her cell is broken] and nobody answered. So i figured she was going to call me and tell me what the deal was when she had a chance.... but its now 6:30 pm and i have not heard a thing from her all day! she seems to be doing stuff like this a lot lately...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; do you think she just blew me off or what?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Honey please call her and tell her that was not nice she made you wait and never showed up! Since she has been doing that a lot lately I would tell her "I don't appreciate you taking advantage of me, I would never do that to you!" if she says she's sorry it is up to you if you want to give her a second chance but I have a feeling she will keep doing that to you if you did, maybe you should stop being friends with her, you sound nice I am sure you will find more friends, just be yourself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;hun, she blew you off. but you never know. maybe she had a good reason. try talking to her. tell her that if she keeps blowing you off, then you guys shouldn't be friends.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;oh hun. i would be mad! ya know what? just give that witch the cold shoulder and see what comes of it. good luck sweetie!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Has she called you yet? That is pretty rude of her not contacting you at all, unless it was so hectic she forgot. Don't get angry, things happen..... but you should tell her that you were 'surprised' that she didn't call you and you waited home all day. Then LISTEN to what she says. Most likely there was a good excuse. If you really believe she was blowing you off, then next time be very aware of the plans you make and if she seems to put you off again. It is possible things have changed and maybe you two have grown apart for the moment. If that's the case, give her space and focus more on your other friends.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;My friend Mary is the exact same way. In Mary's case, she is just really flighty, aloof, and gets distracted easily. Talk to your friend and let her know that waiting around for her to call when you have plans isn't your idea of fun, especially if it has happened more than once recently. Good luck, and keep being the good friend you are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I have a friend that used to do stuff like that to me all the time. Then one day she called me up to make plans with me and I told her "I'm not making plans with you because you always blow me off, and I'm not wasting my entire day waiting around for you to do me the favor of hanging out with me". She never stood me up again, or at least she'd call if something came up. Your friend may not think its a big deal, and she may be unaware of hurting you. Just let her know that it hurts and you're not some lonely chick at home anxiously waiting for her to make time for you. You have a life too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Well you should just tell your friend how you feel and tell hher that she has been doing you wrong. How will she know if you don't fess up to her. And when you have spoken to her then if she does not care to make time for you then make a few other friends. Get a life, because she is getting one and it seems withpout you. Sorry to say this to you but, really don't depend on one person so much. Make your own fun for yourself and then she might want to join in on your fun then. Good luck to you and God Bless you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Would you be mad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;she is not a friend&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4945529110752622404?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4945529110752622404/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/would-you-be-mad.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4945529110752622404'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4945529110752622404'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/would-you-be-mad.html' title='Would you be mad?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-3395903408162198868</id><published>2009-12-03T03:54:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:54:46.485-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Why did he delete me?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I talked to a guy for several weeks prior to meeting him on a blind date, and we hit it off great on the phone. In person, he told me that I'm cute, but he's just not feeling that spark. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; This is a man who was married and his wife cheated on him while he was off at war. Then, he came back and has dated 21 year olds with kids!!! He himself has no children.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; After our date, when he told me that he wanted to be freinds, I texted him and told him that he has lousy taste in women, and he deleted me from myspace. He's 27. Why did he do this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why did he delete me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Maybe because you texted him and told him he has lousy taste in women? I don't think you knew him well enough to tell him that. It didn't work. Go on with your life, and don't worry about why he didn't like you enough to keep going out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why did he delete me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;You two have nothing in common - move on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Why did he delete me?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;he doesn't want to be criticize.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-3395903408162198868?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/3395903408162198868/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-did-he-delete-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3395903408162198868'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/3395903408162198868'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-did-he-delete-me.html' title='Why did he delete me?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-4877814451783235464</id><published>2009-12-03T03:54:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:54:30.958-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;ok, i hope yall know that yall are SOOOOOO confusing!!!!!!!! well, i really like this guy because he is like drop dead hot and i get the chills averytime i look at him.... i ALWAYS catch him staring at me!!! but everytime i try to talk to him hes like whatev and it totally confusing cuz like onetime we were talking on myspace and we both admitted we thought eachother was really hot, but after that he like never talked to me.... he is always really gross in class like he will say SUPER preverted things about this girl in our class that is really popular even though she is fat but guys know she is easy, so he was like talking about her "vajj" ina very inapropriate way and that night i messaged him on myspace and was like "no offense but ur really gross, never mind u probly take that as a compliment" and he was like "do u really think i am a bad kid?" and i was like "ya kinda i mean averyone hears the stuff u say in class" and he was like "im really trying to change!" was that a bad move&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yes that was a bad move. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; You didn't have to tell that straight to him, lol. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Let him talk about how what he wants to...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;That last part wasn't. That means he likes you. He's going to change for you. Boys are dumb; they can't help saying things like that about girls. If you like him, go for him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;No body likes being made to look in a mirror and see how others see them. If he meant it about trying to change, then he'd stop his act in school and be like you see him. Guess the truth hurt and he's not talking to you because of it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;He sounds like a long-term thing. If that's what you want, go for it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;i am a boy and i know i wont ever tell a girl that i love her except if i am sure that she also love me to make him know that u love him try always to talk to him AND TOUCHING HIM THIS IS VERY IMPORTANAT and if u did this i am sure he will say 2 u thst he loves u&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I liked how you told him what you thought about his behavior. That was not a bad move at all. Guys like girls who are confident enough to talk straight to them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; There's two observations can be made here:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -he's interested in you,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; -he's not going to change.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Well, the thing is that being interested in you doesn't mean he is a good guy. Girls need to get that. So you were hoping he liked you. I can say pretty sure he does. But we can't be sure that he isn't also interested in another girl as well. I think you should find out if you are the ONLY girl he is saying this too, and messaging on a regular basis. The best way is get the answer through the back door, classmates you can trust and are close to him. If he's only interested in you, go for it and tell him you like him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; BUT please don't buy into that "i'm really trying to change" thing. All the guys I dated said that one time or another. One even stopped smoking completely for me, but was only for 2 months and he became himself again. This notion that girls have that attractive guys must be good somewhere in there is totally wrong. So just make sure you ask yourself whether you can handle this kind of behavior from him. If you can't, let you. If he's really trying to change, all he has to do is shut up. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Believe me, you'll see it pretty obviously if that happens.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3561827051255054842-4877814451783235464?l=kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/feeds/4877814451783235464/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guys-please-help.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4877814451783235464'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3561827051255054842/posts/default/4877814451783235464'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kids-myspace-nbm.blogspot.com/2009/12/guys-please-help.html' title='Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?'/><author><name>ruby</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3561827051255054842.post-1380057669387844094</id><published>2009-12-03T03:54:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-03T03:54:14.272-08:00</updated><title type='text'>For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;HI - I asked this before and got a lot of 14 yr olds who answered, which some were appreciated - but I'm looking for answers from parents on this one please.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; My step daughter is visiting for the summer and she mainly isn't very outdoorsy. She doesn't know any kids her age here as she is only here for the summer and refuses to go to any camps and meet any. She only goes out on walks or out shopping or recreational type activities with my husband, me, and my 1 yr old. Last year we allowed internet whenever and she abused it and was talking to boys after we told her not to and ended up in a very explicit sexual conversation (aka cyber sex). We had a monitoring software in place and found out and she was no longer allowed any internet time at all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; It's been a year though so we're trying to decide if we should let her use it, but just for like 30-60 mins. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; We already know we are blocking myspace, as its filled with sick old perverts looking for young girls.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think this would depend on you and her. Before you let her on, you clearly need to set guidelines as to what is and isn't appropriate. Perhaps an hour in the evening after she's helped wash up, or something like that. That way she is earning it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt; Don't worry too much about her lack of sociability. It's the age.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;I think that after a year she's learned her lesson. But you should put the computer in the living room, so you can see what she's doing. She probably won't be having cyber sex in front of her parents...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;oh ive been on since 11 n its 3 rite now lol.. so yea =D n im still gonna be on&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for a 14 yr old?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;well i know, im just another dumb 15 y/o but my look on it is, if she's not on the internet, then she's outside/ in public talking with guys.. and opparintly she's a promiscuois (sry about the spelling) girl, she might be getting in to more then cyber sex. if u know what i mean.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;For parents - How long to allow on internet for 
